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Dude, you're one of the nicest smartest people I know and have skied with. I know we haven't hung out a ton and life can for sure get you down sometimes, but there are plenty of different jobs outdoors I bet you'd kick ass at. Like you'd be of an outdoors medic of somekind, or an awesome summer ski instructor anywhere.

14549612:CoolChillGuy420 said:
im 27 and the only jobs I qualify for in my area are wiping old peoples asses, flipping burgers, or working at a gas station.

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14549643:Lonely said:
Yikes not sure about this one Chief

It sounds like there's a degree of jealousy and insecurity about a significant other partying without him. That is what I'm getting at. Anyone who gets upset over that is not secure in their relationship, period. People still are like this and never get over that controlling mindset but generally it should wane with maturity and trust.

It's also a one way ticket to a pointless argument and breaking up.
 
14549672:runforlove2024 said:
It sounds like there's a degree of jealousy and insecurity about a significant other partying without him. That is what I'm getting at. Anyone who gets upset over that is not secure in their relationship, period. People still are like this and never get over that controlling mindset but generally it should wane with maturity and trust.

It's also a one way ticket to a pointless argument and breaking up.

update :

we talked about it td and she didn’t wanna tell me cause one of my friends hosted and didn’t invite me. Then she didn’t wanna have me drive cause she thought it was to big of a inconvenience for me to drive across town. We had a picnic td, and she might come over later tn to check out my new room.
 
14549698:WoFlowz said:
update :

we talked about it td and she didn’t wanna tell me cause one of my friends hosted and didn’t invite me. Then she didn’t wanna have me drive cause she thought it was to big of a inconvenience for me to drive across town. We had a picnic td, and she might come over later tn to check out my new room.

im quite the bitter fuck about relationships these days so take this with a grain of salt but i think going out and getting drunk without telling your partner is signs of an unhealthy relationship. either its not healthy in a controlling, i cant tell you what im doing without getting shit type of way or unhealthy as in im gonna go sneak around and not tell you and if something happens ill blame it on the alcohol type shit.

also what type of friend invites your girl but not you?

again im a bitter fuck so i am only looking at the parts that are mad sus.
 
I mean I’m trying to reserve judgment but it’s not a great look that A) friend didn’t invite him B) she didn’t tell him

14549705:partyandBS said:
im quite the bitter fuck about relationships these days so take this with a grain of salt but i think going out and getting drunk without telling your partner is signs of an unhealthy relationship. either its not healthy in a controlling, i cant tell you what im doing without getting shit type of way or unhealthy as in im gonna go sneak around and not tell you and if something happens ill blame it on the alcohol type shit.

also what type of friend invites your girl but not you?

again im a bitter fuck so i am only looking at the parts that are mad sus.
 
14549705:partyandBS said:
im quite the bitter fuck about relationships these days so take this with a grain of salt but i think going out and getting drunk without telling your partner is signs of an unhealthy relationship. either its not healthy in a controlling, i cant tell you what im doing without getting shit type of way or unhealthy as in im gonna go sneak around and not tell you and if something happens ill blame it on the alcohol type shit.

also what type of friend invites your girl but not you?

again im a bitter fuck so i am only looking at the parts that are mad sus.

14549706:BradFiAusNzCoCa said:
I mean I’m trying to reserve judgment but it’s not a great look that A) friend didn’t invite him B) she didn’t tell him

yea i’m still a lil hesitant to believe her, me and him haven’t talked since like hawaii and not in a fight way just drifted. My other friends there said she just sat there drinking talking about me (apparently mostly positive) and colleges she wanted to go too. Idk I wanna talk to her more about it but don’t wanna pry for it and be controlling. Never ask her where she’s going or make her tell me. She just normally does. She also didn’t reply when I said gn which she has never not before in the 4 months we’ve been going out together.

Also upset about the no invite, it takes me for ever to be comfortable enough to reach out to people and hangout and always has since a little kid. Thought I found a group of guys I liked from school and they don’t invite me to everything but that’s ok. I’ve only been in school with them for a few years and friends even less and they’re all friends since pre school. So i kinda understand but everyone knows we’re dating so like invite her and not me was a dick move.
 
So it was a guy friend who invited her and not you? I’m sorry to tell you dude but that’s point C)

14549712:WoFlowz said:
yea i’m still a lil hesitant to believe her, me and him haven’t talked since like hawaii and not in a fight way just drifted. My other friends there said she just sat there drinking talking about me (apparently mostly positive) and colleges she wanted to go too. Idk I wanna talk to her more about it but don’t wanna pry for it and be controlling. Never ask her where she’s going or make her tell me. She just normally does. She also didn’t reply when I said gn which she has never not before in the 4 months we’ve been going out together.

Also upset about the no invite, it takes me for ever to be comfortable enough to reach out to people and hangout and always has since a little kid. Thought I found a group of guys I liked from school and they don’t invite me to everything but that’s ok. I’ve only been in school with them for a few years and friends even less and they’re all friends since pre school. So i kinda understand but everyone knows we’re dating so like invite her and not me was a dick move.
 
14549713:BradFiAusNzCoCa said:
So it was a guy friend who invited her and not you? I’m sorry to tell you dude but that’s point C)

he’s dating another girl who was there as well but still like ahhhh
 
14549634:BradFiAusNzCoCa said:
I was drinking beers and watching football with a childhood friend last night. He works in construction and materials supply. For some reason he felt the need to tell me I should get into it. His verbatim words: “Bro anyone can do it. Look at me. I’m a fucking idiot. My boss. IDIOT.” So maybe look into that lol

Keys to success working in construction:

- show up on time sober

- do what you’re told

thats it
 
I don’t like this dude. He’s a snake in the grass.

14549714:WoFlowz said:
he’s dating another girl who was there as well but still like ahhhh

Well my friend is only sober when getting a new job lmao #colorado

14549715:hi_vis360 said:
Keys to success working in construction:

- show up on time sober

- do what you’re told

thats it
 
14549712:WoFlowz said:
yea i’m still a lil hesitant to believe her, me and him haven’t talked since like hawaii and not in a fight way just drifted. My other friends there said she just sat there drinking talking about me (apparently mostly positive) and colleges she wanted to go too. Idk I wanna talk to her more about it but don’t wanna pry for it and be controlling. Never ask her where she’s going or make her tell me. She just normally does. She also didn’t reply when I said gn which she has never not before in the 4 months we’ve been going out together.

Also upset about the no invite, it takes me for ever to be comfortable enough to reach out to people and hangout and always has since a little kid. Thought I found a group of guys I liked from school and they don’t invite me to everything but that’s ok. I’ve only been in school with them for a few years and friends even less and they’re all friends since pre school. So i kinda understand but everyone knows we’re dating so like invite her and not me was a dick move.

well communication is key. you should be able to have a chill convo about your frustrations with out getting emotionally charged (you or them) with her and your friend. if they start getting defensive or something for you just wanting to talk it out that would be a red flag ?
 
14549245:runforlove2024 said:
I can't stand politics. Why is everyone so goddamn sensitive. Politics in everything, and politics in work might be some of the worst kind. Why do we always have to put on a show in person, email, etc. It's so fucking fake. Thanksss. Thanks. Thank you. Thanks again. Fuck off.

People say thanks even when it makes no grammatical sense to say it. Like goodbye but thanks is used instead.

Sitting here trying to type an email response to someone who works an alternative shift that I'll never overlap with. They're already being a cunt (cuz they fucked up publicly) by the phrases they used and I'm doing my darnedest to effectively get the message across without creating more drama and maintaining my political pull. If you're blunt, you're rude. If you explain fully, you're being aggressive. If you act all warm and fuzzy, you come off like a retard or passive aggressive. So fucking annoying. Can we just be literal and quit wasting time thinking about email structure. Fuck.

Edit: and I'm not over thinking this. This shit is real and real consequences. So annoying.

**This post was edited on Aug 31st 2023 at 2:39:46am

i agree with you, but it's funny coming from a liberal...

"if you're blunt, you're racist."
 
14549723:partyandBS said:
well communication is key. you should be able to have a chill convo about your frustrations with out getting emotionally charged (you or them) with her and your friend. if they start getting defensive or something for you just wanting to talk it out that would be a red flag ?

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we chillin. just gotta work things out with what was a friend
 
14549672:runforlove2024 said:
It sounds like there's a degree of jealousy and insecurity about a significant other partying without him. That is what I'm getting at. Anyone who gets upset over that is not secure in their relationship, period. People still are like this and never get over that controlling mindset but generally it should wane with maturity and trust.

It's also a one way ticket to a pointless argument and breaking up.

Tf?

How is wanting to know what your significant other doing controlling/insecure/jealousy-based?

Having the expectation that your partner at least sends you a message or something before they go do some crazy is not insecurity or jealousy. Especially with when the end result is them on the side of the road because the driver was drinking. Are we really at the point where just wanting a heads up that your partner is partaking in a high-risk activity with people you don't know is considered "insecure and controlling?"

HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP-Hey, going to a party tonight, hope you have a good night
 
14549712:WoFlowz said:
yea i’m still a lil hesitant to believe her, me and him haven’t talked since like hawaii and not in a fight way just drifted. My other friends there said she just sat there drinking talking about me (apparently mostly positive) and colleges she wanted to go too. Idk I wanna talk to her more about it but don’t wanna pry for it and be controlling. Never ask her where she’s going or make her tell me. She just normally does. She also didn’t reply when I said gn which she has never not before in the 4 months we’ve been going out together.

Also upset about the no invite, it takes me for ever to be comfortable enough to reach out to people and hangout and always has since a little kid. Thought I found a group of guys I liked from school and they don’t invite me to everything but that’s ok. I’ve only been in school with them for a few years and friends even less and they’re all friends since pre school. So i kinda understand but everyone knows we’re dating so like invite her and not me was a dick move.

A guy in your school invited her but not you? Oof
 
14549730:Lonely said:
Tf?

How is wanting to know what your significant other doing controlling/insecure/jealousy-based?

Having the expectation that your partner at least sends you a message or something before they go do some crazy is not insecurity or jealousy. Especially with when the end result is them on the side of the road because the driver was drinking. Are we really at the point where just wanting a heads up that your partner is partaking in a high-risk activity with people you don't know is considered "insecure and controlling?"

HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP-Hey, going to a party tonight, hope you have a good night

Who hurt you?
 
14549856:runforlove2024 said:
Who hurt you?

Brother who hurt you?

Girlfriend went missing and ended up drunk on the side of the road and you call him insecure and potentially controlling?

Best to get whatever trauma that is checked out brother.
 
>"We're urgently hiring!"

>Job posting obviously written by an HR person

>Apply for it

>don't hear back

>follow up

>still don't hear back

>make sub $19/hr

OOOOOooooooooooOOOO YOU MILLENIALS DON'T WANT TO WORK! NO ONE WANTS TO WORK!

I hope the next recession hits hard (and it will) and all these unrealistic employers get thrown to the curb.

**This post was edited on Sep 6th 2023 at 10:17:11am
 
14549954:CoolChillGuy420 said:
>"We're urgently hiring!"

>Job posting obviously written by an HR person

>Apply for it

>don't hear back

>follow up

>still don't hear back

>make sub $19/hr

OOOOOooooooooooOOOO YOU MILLENIALS DON'T WANT TO WORK! NO ONE WANTS TO WORK!

I hope the next recession hits hard (and it will) and all these unrealistic employers get thrown to the curb.

**This post was edited on Sep 6th 2023 at 10:17:11am

CO made a law that all job postings need to post a wage range and its honestly the best thing ever. there have been jobs that interest me but the wage was way to low. i would have been pissed if i made a cover letter and resume for a wage i didnt even want
 
It really is great. Saves a lot of time. Some companies try to get around it but most follow it

14549957:partyandBS said:
CO made a law that all job postings need to post a wage range and its honestly the best thing ever. there have been jobs that interest me but the wage was way to low. i would have been pissed if i made a cover letter and resume for a wage i didnt even want
 
14549954:CoolChillGuy420 said:
>"We're urgently hiring!"

>Job posting obviously written by an HR person

>Apply for it

>don't hear back

>follow up

>still don't hear back

>make sub $19/hr

OOOOOooooooooooOOOO YOU MILLENIALS DON'T WANT TO WORK! NO ONE WANTS TO WORK!

I hope the next recession hits hard (and it will) and all these unrealistic employers get thrown to the curb.

**This post was edited on Sep 6th 2023 at 10:17:11am

An HR department can make or break a business. I've seen and heard some shady shit.

In terms of job applications, I applied to a position a couple years ago that I would have easily been the highest qualified applicant. Not to the point of "oh this person is too expensive" but more so because it would be highly unlikely given the geographical area that someone would have comparable experience to me. It got held up in HR so long, the hiring department manager never saw my application before they chose to hire someone. I'm talking nearly 2 months of HR limbo. I followed up twice with HR cuz I really wanted to move back to the area, was sick hours (3x12's), and coulda worked with people I knew. My buddy was doing a rotation at this ER and reached out to someone close to the hiring manager. They never even received my application from HR lol but it was too late at this point. So annoying.

This was the second bad experience I've had with this prospective employer, so it's safe to say, I shall not be applying to work there ever again. In the end though, I'm better off having not left my current employer.
 
14549998:runforlove2024 said:
An HR department can make or break a business. I've seen and heard some shady shit.

In terms of job applications, I applied to a position a couple years ago that I would have easily been the highest qualified applicant. Not to the point of "oh this person is too expensive" but more so because it would be highly unlikely given the geographical area that someone would have comparable experience to me. It got held up in HR so long, the hiring department manager never saw my application before they chose to hire someone. I'm talking nearly 2 months of HR limbo. I followed up twice with HR cuz I really wanted to move back to the area, was sick hours (3x12's), and coulda worked with people I knew. My buddy was doing a rotation at this ER and reached out to someone close to the hiring manager. They never even received my application from HR lol but it was too late at this point. So annoying.

This was the second bad experience I've had with this prospective employer, so it's safe to say, I shall not be applying to work there ever again. In the end though, I'm better off having not left my current employer.

Yeah I work in HR and it sucks, but this is pretty common tbh. Chances are they'd already interviewed or had a candidates in the pipeline that would be a good-enough fit for the position by the time you'd applied. Even if you're more qualified, most recruiters are just looking for someone that can meet the minimum requirements of the job becasue they get measured on volume or time-to-hire, not on quality of hire. GOOD employers will let you know ASAP that they're already steps ahead with other candidates because it sucks when you get stuck in limbo so it does seem like you dodged a bullet with a shitty HR department.

In my current position, I was referred and had already gone through three rounds of interviews by the time they'd even posted the role online. I got an offer letter the next day and I'm sure there were tons of other qualified people that had applied and were feeling similar to you.

It blows, but networking is the most important thing. I'd always heard it, but never really realized the importance of "it's not what you know, it's who you know" until I entered the corporate world.
 
Having to defer a semester because the advisor who was supposed to sign off on my courseload went on vacation for the entire month of august and just got back after add/drop ended.

Grad school is the dumbest shit in the world.
 
Canceled my hotel in bzn next weekend so my bf and i could camp after a wedding and now he has to back out and i don’t want to camp alone/can’t afford the hotel room i had book a year ago fml
 
14550353:WoFlowz said:
y can’t women communicate, girlfriend, mom and sister are all the most confusing people i have ever met

I don't think you're going to find the answer to an unanswerable question on NS my guy but best of luck
 
14550353:WoFlowz said:
y can’t women communicate, girlfriend, mom and sister are all the most confusing people i have ever met

I'm sorry Wo, it doesn't get much better, the best you can do is be nice to all of them and stay confused and hope for the best
 
combat sports are honestly dumb as hell and i’ll never understand why people willingly spend crazy amounts of money just to watch some brain damaged dudes give eachother more brain damage
 
14550515:r00kie said:
I believe there is a correlation between girls not using capital letters and backing out of relationships.

can’t believe i woke up to that after we “talked things out” last night then she fell asleep on me after making out, and then left without waking me up to say goodbye.
 
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