Sex and highschool

"Yes most everyone our age is really horny, but that doesn't mean that you should give us the ok to start fucking eachother. What are you guys trieng to be our personal coachs for sex or something? Retards."

I didn't wait for an OK...and I don't regret it. I've slept with a total of 4 girls, I'm 21, soon to be a college graduate. But I am glad there are institutions such as Planned Parenthood to help kids who actually need it.

 
OF COURSE HE'S MAKING UP STATS, YOU CAN'T MEASURE IN A SURVEY HOW MANY GIRLS HAVE SEX

He's estimating by looking at how other high schools work.

 
ok so i've read basically all there is to read on this thread.

he makes some valid points in basically saying why do we have sex just for the sake of having sex. (someone else said its because its human nature) Well it is because of human nature.Also, let me tell you sometihng relationships are over rated. I was in a relationship for 17 months my friend and let me tell you it was great for a bit but then i realised what the fuck is the point of this. Am I going to get married to this broad or what? Like shit I am 18 years old fuck why am I in a long ass relationship? At 18 years old man you have no idea what the love is, or what you want in a girl. So by ur argument saying "no one stays in relationships in highschool and u think this is ridiculous" I say to you why the hell should they, u are in highschool try new things figure out what you like.

As for the sex argument its human nature, sure u can wait for the marriage but guess what after you have sex with her it wont last because after you will be wondering i wonder what sex with this girl, and this girl and this girl would feel like. Ur not going to say oh man my wife is amazing because u will always wonder. Thats why people date man. To figure out what the hell they want. Thats why they have sex a bunch of times, because its fun and when u find that person its fun with and you both like eachother and its amazing and there is no other you would want to have sex with or be with then u find love. BUT YOU WILL NEVER FIND LOVE WITHOUT LOOKING FOR WHAT YOU LIKE, HAVING SEX(YES HAVING SEX) AND DATING A BUNCH OF PEOPLE!
 
do you guys want another rant? It's actually really cool it's by his friend and he just told me about it.

It's about affirmative action, gansters, and minorities
 
no i dont want another rant, his rant is stupid and pointless and doesnt match up with experience only observation. You can't just say this is this because this is what i observed. If you dont experience it you dont got shit.
 
the points are valid but you left out the percent of potheads who want to fuck but are to busy with beautiful nuggets to try

and trust me its a larger percentage than you may think
 
Dude the guy who wrote this rant knows what he's talking about

He has almost had sex. He's gotten head and stuff.

Rants are about opinion too.
 
i'd take an 8 gram nug of beasties over a hot chick in the sack any day. mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm marijuana
 
your friend has a lot of courage to post this and you have a lot of courage of posting this here. I agree with you and him totally. A lot of people are influenced by all the medias around us. The medias created stereotypes about relationship and love.
 
Oh... and about the thing with planned parenthood. Teaching abstinance doesn't work.

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You can pound that into kids all you want... it just doesn't work. Sex ed classes taught that for the longest time. Finally they are focusing on safe sex. Young people are going to have sex no matter what. You can't force someone to not have sex, especially when they know that there are things out there to drastically reduce the risk.

There are 8573858380593 different products out there to make sex extremely safe. Simply wearing a condom with a spermacidal lubricant is extremely effective in preventing the spread of STDs and preventing pregnancy. Not to mention female birth control. Here at Pitt I work for the department of Endocrinology. I was talking with my principle investigator and there are researchers currently perfecting a male birth control. Thats right gents. Within the next 5 years there will be a pill you can take that will make sure you don't spread your seed too soon.

Most people are unaware of this. But HIV is not as easily spread as some may think. Now this is not so you don't take protection seriously, but even if you have unprotected sex with someone who is HIV positive, the percentages are in your favor that you won't become infected. So you can imagine how much a condom effects this even more. This is also a fun fact, but did you know your chances of contracted HIV or hepatitis B from being stuck with a dirty needle that was used on a positive person is only 0.45%. Thats according to the Centers for Disease Control in Atlanta.

I don't want this to come off as, I'm saying that you shouldn't worry about these things. I'm just trying to point out that sex can be made very safe, if using the right methods. Organizations like planned parenthood are making sure that these methods are used properly.

Of course some kids are going to get hurt skiing. You can tell them to stop skiing, and therefore they aren't going to get hurt doing it. Do you think the vast majority are going to stop skiing??? No, because they love to do it. So you might as well get them a helmet and some quality bindings, and maybe even some gloves with wrist guards or a jacket with a spine protector. Limit the risk.

 
what happened to casual sex, u and a girl have some serious sexual tension and u havent had sex in like a month or 2 and u jus have sex to feel really good, its jus sex, no commitment, sex to feel better, i do it, its fun, and im 15
 
Did you even read any of the first post???

Sex is supposed to happen after a good relationship occurs. It forms a bond between you if you truly are in love.

So you, for just going around stickin your dick into random females means that you don't know what it really means.

Great for you showing your ignorance.
 
of course i read the first post, but sex doesnt mean u have to be in a loving relationship, u dont even have to have sex in a loving relationship, but sex is a fantastic part of life, why not enjoy it whenever possible?
 
Um, Im scared to read it all...of which I'll do when I get home. I think it's going to be funny and ridiclous.
 
Nice blanket attack on Planed Parenthood...since they're all completly based on black pregnant uneducated teens.

Haha, this will be good.

He needs to have a relationship and some legit sex...then talk.
 
stupid rant, why does everyone always care what OTHER people are doing with THEIR lives SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much.
 
thats another thing, how can someone rant on something they havent done before?

talk about plain stupid.
 
And who says that sex = love all the time??? You? ...the bible?

Biologically, sex is designed for one sole purpose: reproduction. In order for reproduction to occur, the body is designed with an "incentive". It feels amazing when you do it. So much that it is the single best feeling a person can have.

Yes I agree that sex is a way to show your love for someone. But thats not what it is always about. Like the little dude said. Sometimes you're horny as hell. Having sex feels great. You feel awesome after you do it. Do you really like spanking it every week?

 
the only thing i disagree with is that having sex in highschool is not "normal." By sophmore year most people's sex drivees have matured enough to be of use (despite that the part of the brain responsible for making raitonal descinions has not)and most people have gotten over their shyness of the other sex that had kept them from having sex earlier.
 
plus man didn't u see my freakin post READ MY LONG ASS POST IT HAS SOME POINTS IN THERE THAT ARGUE THIS GUYS POSITION. As for Grubix 2 ur the man, thank you for backing me up. You cannot have a position on sex if u have never done it before. Even if you have turned it down gotten head w/e you will cannot have a position without experiencing it.
 
We're not arguing against having sex. It's about having casual sex and just treating the girl like an object and that sex belongs in relationships.
 
Ok man let me tell you something about girls. They want sex just as much as guys. So when ur saying "guys treat girs like objects" SO DO GIRLS MAN! When you talk about sluts, when you talk about whores, it applies to guys to man. Think about it U ever know a guy who makes out with alot of girls. He is a slut people just dont refer to guys as sluts. Which i think is a double standard. Girls should not be called sluts because its human nature to want sex. If girls are called sluts guys should be called sluts to man. So fuck ur bullshit on girls are treated like objects. We are too.
 
No that's 70% of the high school girls. Not all girls are as fuckin horny as some guys. If you read it and actually look around your high school (if you're in high school) you'd see that me and my friend are both right in saying that about 30% of us don't care about it and just want a relationship while the other 70% are like "kneel, bitch!." The 70% girls will comply because they don't want a relationship they just want sex too.

It's all in the first post.
 
see the whole problem I have with what you are saying is:

"sex belongs in relationships"

What grounds do you have to state this as fact? If nothing comes from the sex... what is the big deal? If I practice very safe sex (always wear a condom properly and possibly the girl is on the pill) what grounds do you have to say that I'm wrong. I did not get her pregnant, I we did not exchange any form of STD. How can you say that I am wrong???

 
And providing that the sex was mutually consentual. (that we both agreed on having sex with each other because we wanted to)

 
ULLSHIT I HAVE EVER READ IN MY LIFE WHAT A FUCKING PUSSY OH THATS COOL THAT YOU DONT HAVE THE BALLS TO BAG A HOE BUT DONT FUCKING TALK LIKE YOU KNOW SHIT BITCH CAUSE YOU DONT IF YOU HAVENT HAD SEX THEN DONT THINK YOU KNOW SOMETHING YOU FAG FUCK ALL YOU EMO BITCHES WHO CANT STICK A SLUT AND THEN BITCH ABOUT IT YOU STUPID PUPPETFUCKS!!!!!!!!
 
that's one of the most retarded things i've ever read. have you ever killed a prostitute? drove drunk through a school zone? shot up heroin? committed suicide (or even tried to)? i'm guessing probably not on all counts. you don't need to do something you think is wrong to decide what your view on it is.
 
in highschool kids dont nt serious relationships....they just want to have fun, and having sex is fun so thats why kids do it, kids can still be in love with one another and have sex but a lot of the time kids think they are in love because they have sex, eithor way in highschool strong relationships should be made but kids have to understand they are still in highschool, and i think most do and that is why so many have sex without bing in or wanting a serious relationship...simply becaus eit is fun
 
See I disagree with you there. Looking back on highschool, the thing I remember the most was all of the petty drama. I think kids are much more prone to have relationships in highschool. Specifically girls. There are a lot of highschool girls that can't live without the security of a relationship. And I think a lot of hig hschool guys feel a sort of safety zone in a relationship aswell.

Throughout my 2 years of college so far, the vast majority of the people I know have stayed single for the most part. Only a select few of my friends are actually in a relationship. I think you really wake up when you get to college. You're extracted from this little highschool bubble. You start to realize (as someone said before) you're probably not going to marry that girl... so why are you putting forth so much of your time and money??? A lot of people in college are under a lot of stress and pressure (like me) as well and do not want the weight and responsibility of a relationship interferring.

I'm done post whoring in this thread.

 
It comes down to this, both the "70%" girls and "70%" guys are getting what they want from each other. The "30%" percent guys and girls are getting what they want. Everyone is happy, why the fuck do you care about what people are doing that doesnt involve you in any way shape or form?
 
The whole percentage thing is bullshit. In high school everyone wants sex, the people who say they don't are lying and say that because they want to appear sensitive to the people they want to have sex with. In fact this whole rant is bullshit written by some emo fuck who can't get laid and is overanalyzing their incompetence. Instead of manning up and saying dammit I need to fuck someone they're bitching about it on myspace.
 
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