Sex and highschool

are you now? well then i have to congratulate you, that was a real good rant. made me stop and think, i realize that as much as i would like to think im part of the 10% of people who actually dont care, i do care about having sex in a relationship.

again, nice rant man,
 
i love my girlfriend and i love sex and i love highschool.

im so outrageously differnt than all those lust-driven, school hating, love-free, unprotected sex....with all the intention of winding up at satans palace the next morning...aka planned parenthood. pipe bombs in the plumbing!
 
good rant for a 15 year old but it gets different when you get a few years older, then the girls wanna have sex as much as the guys
 
i've been dating a girl for roughly two years and haven't had sex, i agree with this post 100% and if she read it, so would she. i take pride in knowing that my relationship with her is so much deeper than just lust. i'd take a mildly attractive girl who i get along with perfectly over a babe that drives me up the fucking wall because she's dumb as shit anyday.
 
"Boys and girls in America have such a sad time together; sophistication demands that they submit to sex immediately without proper preliminary talk. Not courting talk- real straight talk about souls, for life is holy and every moment is precious.”- Jack Kerouac i love this quote
 
that war at home show was pretty funny, I watched one episode and it was all about the girl being sad because she was the only virgin in her grade and she was 16 or something, and then another one the little kid who was like 12 was sad because he had a condom and wasn't using it.

man that show blows
 
Sex is NATURAL,

sex is FUN

Sex FEELS GOOD

sex is amazing when its done with someone you care for or have strong fealings about.

Religion has made sex out to be something taboo, you cant talk about it and you shouldnt do it.

Marriage causes many problems. I have a beatifuly amazing girlfriend (both on the inside and on the outside) I cant think of anything but her all day, and when im with her I cant think of anything but making her happy.

when we have sex or hang out together its because we want to be together, we can at anytime leave each other, we have our own places our own moeney and soforth. Marriage ties you to the other person, and you feel forced to be together if you want to be together thats good but if you dont you still have to be together.

im going to tell you about someone I have great respect and admiration for: My Uncle.

my Uncle got married 2 years ago. he has 3 kids one is 14 one is 12 and the last one is 3 years old. he is in his early 40s and so is his wife. they have been together since they were 15 thats a 25 year relationship. they could have left each other anytime with no legal reprocutions. every single time I see them they look like if they are super in love and they are. neither of them beleives in Marriage but they did it because they and their kids get some benefits from being maried.

sex with somoene you love is great because of the increased pleasure of making somoene you have fealing for happy but casual sex is also great not as much but it still is,and if religion hadnt made such a huge deal out of it then maybe we wouldnt have to have so many people trying to force their morals onto others.

its super cool that you decided to stay a virgin until Mariage wether its for Religion, or personla moral reasons but dont for a second think that it gives you the right to have a "hollier than though" attitude. not having sex before marriage makes you special in your mind and maybe your religious circle, but those who have had sex and realize that its not as big of a deal as religion and some people might make it out to be wont think any more of you.

and im talking about responsible sex (the only type of sex I practice) im not ready for a kid and I make sure that it wont happen until im ready. if your anti-birth control/abortion then yeah having sex before marriage is a stupid idea.
 
i heard it was 84% ohh well agree to disagree

i kinda disagree with most of that. i think its that way until your older junior for some senior for most. thats when people realize there is more to it then that. i personally am a virgin am 17 and a senior and have really only been with one girl on and off through out high school. i feel no pressure to have sex, just like i felt no pressure to smoke weed or drink. ill do it when i want to and when i feel its right. i feel no reason to do something because people say to. and i know my frist time im gonna ace it and make it romantic not just have sex quick after school, plan it out make it special
 
I like the rant...and I agree with it. I'm a virgin and I plan to stay that way 'till I'm married. I usually am not bothered by this, but there are some people out there that have no respect for my commitment to my future wife. You know the type. They call you a fag or gay for not wanting to have sex with a girl. I wish sometimes that they'd just respect what I've committed and go on with their own lives. It ticks me off, but I'll be happy I've made my commitment when I'm married and on my honeymoon.
 
whether or no anyone that is a virgin on this thread wants to believe it or not, sex does make a reltionship better. under the cirumstances that you really care for each other. not just casual sex, good relationship sex is healthy, and shouldnt be looked down upon
 
So far one girl has responded to this post, thought id point it out.

Kids fucking is fine, just make sure you wrap it, no one wants a bunch of stupid shit kids running around
 
i am glad there are kids who arent buying into the "have sex if you are horny" bullshit.

the original post is seriously the most intelligent thing i have seen on this site, and the fact it was written by a kid who ISNT on this site is a big sign to all of us.
 
Im a junior in high school and still a virgin. We have about 50 some odd kids in my class, and 1 boy has lost his virginity while about 10 girls did (maybe more). wuts the correlation i dont kno
 
sex is not bad, and whoever says anything like that really doesnt no what there talking about. i do think however that having sex with someone that you dont have an emotional bond with as well, or else sex is nothing
 
nah. its cuz all girls are fucking sluts.

they spread their legs for just about anyone who is persistent enough.
 
Shoot, should have put this in the other post, sorry.

But why does a relationship have to revolve around sex? Seriously, you send about 99% of your time doing everything else besides sex with that person.
 
sex is not about relationships and sex is not about any of that, you like her, she likes me. sex is purely for reproducing. in fact, faggots like yourself would have died out in the olden days, because you dont like pussy. evolution promotes the passing on of traits that promote a good liking of fucking, because that what sex is for, to pass on traits that promote fucking. lovey dovey relationships arent natural. in nature, the only real relationships are the ones that produce kids, because the others wont exist beyond their times.
 
you cant fuck with spontanaiety, you just cant, when you try its just like, 'bitch! da fuck you thinkin!? i'm spontanaeity, in yo face'
 
Haha yea true

and how can your friend know any of this if hes gotten head and stuff and im surrrrrreeeee hes turned down sex probably the only thing the girl wanted to do with him after she found out how bad he was with the other parts of his body and just needed to get off
 
ok seriously who gives a shit? He made his point and obviouly the statistics were ball parks.

 
i agree and disagree with this. if you want a meaningful relationship in highschool or college..then go for it. enjoy it...there are plenty of people out there to choose from, and eventually youll find what your looking for or itll just come to you. but if your looking to fuck around, then just be careful who your fucking around with. im not down with a girl or guy just going out picking a really hot girl or guy, not asking their name.. fucking, putting another check on their score card. deep down everyone cares who their most rescent or first fuck was. so i guess what comes outta this is just know what your doing. and dont be a jackass wile doing it.
 
thats actually really true.

i may be an insane hypocrite for saying agreeing because i lost my virginity when i was 15 to an older guy. which i dont regret. we were toegther for like 8 months. but i think its safe to say, after reading that, our relationship was based on sex a lot. i dont think he even cared about me much. i was in total denial or lost in hope.

but im with someone who actually shows me that he cares and that he might even want to love me=).
 
"What about the other 30%?

The people who don't really give a fuck about sex? These are the people who think that a relationship between two individuals should be focused on one thing: Love. To us, a loving relationship isn't measured by bases or "how far we have gone." We are becoming quite rare, I only know very few people who have openly said that they wouldn't care if they waited to have sex until after high school, college or even marriage. "thats where im at.
 
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