Women... Can't live with em', can't cut their throat and watch em bleed slowly...

aoe

aoe

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So I got fucked over yesterday worse than I ever have before. Me and my girl have been going out for 2.5 years. We're in love, stuff is going great, yada yada. I'm on a workterm away from home right now. Some people call me crazy, but I never mind when she goes out and stuff. She came from a relationship where she was cheated on and hurt really badly. So I guess I knew that she would never do that to me. We'll she never cheated on me... but she did tell me that she fell for another guy. She isnt sure what she wants to do but she has to think about it. she is either going to throw us out the window and go for this dude she has known for 1 week, or continue with me and rebuild. Now I'm in complete shock over this. this is not like my girl. We were pretty much ready to settle down, so this is some crazy shit I have to deal with. question is, If I really love her do I give her a chance if she decides to go with me? or do i not wait for her decision and break up with her knowing that things will never be exactly the same again. or do I go on a murderous rage and kill them both and cap myself afterwards? fucking women.

 
truer words have never been spoken

seriously though, im really sorry ot hear that, sucks when girls meet someone else and "fall".
 
i think if you love her, you shouldn't throw it all out the window, just wait.. maybe shes not thinking strait just let her figure it out
 
hmmmm france eh.... I don't speak french. otherwise id be there.

She is thinking straight thats what kills me. oh and if I do take here back I told her that it wouldnt be lightly and she would have to do something that shows she loves me (already took it in the ass over another bet so thats out). I want her to sacrifice something for me. I told her if I ever cheated on here I would give her my skis never to ski again. I don't want her to choose me because its "comfortable". she has to be willing to sacrifice... or than again, i hear mexico is nice this time of year?!
 
Probably not that into you anymore if she says she's after other guys, fuck it, move on.
 
she says she doesnt feel any different about me at all. she loves me and stuff is going great. she said she was not looking for this it just happened and she cant ignore it. that being said i may move on anyway... it takes alot of strength though
 
Dude, if she's seriously considering dumping you for some other chick, that's no kind of love I've ever heard of. Again, obviously she does feel differently about you (ie she's lying), unless she never really cared that much about you in the first place. Which seems odd if she stayed with you for 2.5 years.
 
update. girlfriend left me. and I will never trust another woman again. Shes been wearing me promise ring for a year. when you accept a ring you dont do this shit! god i want to kill something! anyone else get bent over by a woman?
 
i told her. she says she never tried to hurt me but she said she just got this crazy feeling and she can't "shake him". If someone would have said she was going to do this to me and bet me $50 I would have wagered my life. shit doesnt even make sense. So guys out there, no matter what you think you have, remember to protect your women. Shelter them slightly if you have to. and never ever take them for granted. ever.
 
Sorry to hear that bud. You'll get over her but it'll just take some time. Stay strong and don't think they'll all do this to you cuz there are good one's out there.
 
i feel ya man, about to graduate college, so much ahead of me, and been with the first girl i ever told i love for about 6-7 months, its amazing and now she said we should take a break because shes been so stressed and because i havent been the same, i mean i just dont get females some times, i treat her like the golden goddess she is and she said she loved me but its so effin painful
 
kinda gives me an idea for a movie... tell me what you think. starts off as a love story, like real deep one. and than the girl leaves him for another guy. guy takes it real hard, kills himself, and wakes up in some pod or something all matrix style hes like wtf? and they tell him it was all an experiment. they are actually really far in the future and the human race has evolved to eliminate emotion and the whole time the dude was part of an experiment to reintegrate emotion. so the guy is in the real world now and he finds the girl that broke his heart but he still loves. she doesnt know him though because in the experiment, every characters looks and personality are like someones in the real world. he sees this as his second chance and makes her fall in love with him and everyone is happy because emotions are finally being reintroduced and he hes happy because he got a second chance and he made the most of it. the end. not bad eh? or am i psycho?
 
man you should have dumped her ass and made her felt shitty, anyways fuck that man love is bullshit, get her in the pants and dump her. yupp
 
well i think she felt shitty anyway just not shitty enough.she says she should start being happy again now and i freeked at her cause its only been a week. and man i can honestly say i have no drive to have sex after that happened. i sweare to god i havnt had a hardon in 8 days and its starting to scare me. its true what they say no matter how sappy it may sound, sex is better with someone you love. although my buddy says right now i just need a hate fuck haha. hes probably right
 
you're off your rocker man. haha I definitely thought that the movie was gonna involve you killing her and going off to france like the other guy said.
 
yeah man I can tell you're sittin around sulking if you're comming up with this shit and now's not the time. Get out and get drunk and like your buddy said hate fuck some new bitch. Well that sounded bad but I mean hook up with some new chick just cuz your can my friend.
 
k, if she's falling for other guys you have to ask your self what kind of love there is, of is she is just still there because it is "comfortable" and that may sound harsh but that is how it is. Id say move on, and yes bro, mexico is rather nice right now
 
Yeh mate same happenned to me, both with the young engagement and with this dude getting fucked over. I think its generally due to being young and stupid, but in my case i was wasted. I proposed just before i passed out, but then the bird though i was being serious and i didn't want to tell her i was just plastered. Anyway cut a long story short, same thing happened as this dude, she went off with some cunt who she only knew for a week.

Fuck it i've had so much more (and better quality) sex since i split up wiht that bitch anyway!
 
No... that would just be weird, not cool, and a bunch of other junk.

Sucks dude, but it was foreseeable from the moment she started talking about wanting the other guy. Possibly it was just an excuse to get out of the commitment, possibly not. Get your fucking ring back, by the way. Play Ben Folds for her if you have to. Anyway, she's not worth your time. And I don't agree with the protect your women thing... if you have to shelter your girl to keep her off other guys, something's not right... either you're not doing everything you should be for her, or she's just a worthless tramp bitch. If a girl ever wanted to do that to me, I'd just get her right out of my life. It's never quite happened, though I've been in some almost similar situations, and that's pretty much what I did.

I posted the NEXTing article in a thread on here, you should definitely read it.
 
"or do I go on a murderous rage and kill them both and cap myself afterwards? fucking women."

haha.

naw man wait it out. like if what your waiting for could be a lifetime together with kids, a whole family and everything, isnt that what us as human beings are here for? Think about what you could potentionally be throwing away by breaking up with her.
 
^i agree..give it a little bit of a time..but if she does come around and choose u, u tell her her this better be what she really really really wants. and make sure u dont make everythign so easy for her either if u know what i mean.
 
wow man. i hate women just from reading that shit. idk how i woulda handeled that. but im sure i would be wanted to for assault if not murder by now. so props on not killin the hooker. ya im kinda just shocked about the whole thing. damn man. i would smoke a ounce and drink a fifth in a night after finding out about that shit
 
let her go..if she comes back shes urs..if she dosnt then she was never urs..thats the way to play it bro..ive had a similar situation and it always works out for the best
 
time will make you realize that you were stupid for being pissed. i was with mine over a year and i didnt trust her. we break up because of the constant arguing over trust issues. i broke up with her. 5 months later i realize i should have trusted her and i miss her and want her back, but its not gonna happen.
 
in theory that would work, but she'll probably poop it out first and the septic tank will just explode. but i guess covering her in poo isn't all that bad either
 
I understand why youre pissed, and hurt, but I dont know if you can really blame her. People change, especially between the ages of 18 and 21. Her telling you exactly what was going and basically letting tying things off with you before pursuing things with this other guy (or any other guy) shows a fair amount of maturity and respect for you, considering how most people treat each other.

Anybody who says that she doesnt love you because she found herself interested in another guy hasnt been in a long term relationship. Give it a year or 2, the novelty wears off, and its not exciting anymore. Do you still love the person? Of course. But you see an attractive girl walk by and you cant help but wonder - and in her case - she meets this attractive guy, it seems new and exciting to her, and she realizes shes not ready to be so committed to you at such a young age. It sucks, but I dont think you can blame her.

Be happy she didnt cheat on you and then just stop returning your calls, and go into your next relationship a better person because of her.
 
i have to agree with JD, it's probably not easy for you to realize a person you are in love with is "like that" but it really isn't necessary to shelter your ladies, or be controling. that actually drives us away, or for some of us drives us to do the things you don't trust us not to do out of spite. i'm sorry this all happened to you though, i recently rode that rollercoaster and i still feel a bit ill from all of it. i think it's the most painful thing to ever have to accept.... being madly in love with someone and giving everything you can to make them happy and their life good.... and in return you are just another girl or guy to them- another step along their path.
 
First of all, how old are you? If you are under twenty leave her. If you are over twenty maybe think about settling down, but probably not. If she loved you... she wouldnt want to be with another dude.
 
FTB, fuck tha bitch,

didnt some famous dude, wrote some poems or some shit, say 'tis better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all'

Its Lord Tennyson by the way, "In Memoriam," 1850, line 27,

Yeah thats all my money at university well spent, the ability to quote dead victorian poets, and yet still have no foreseeable job future, and i got burned by a girl this week to so im also all pissy (plus i might be drunk, thus that much more introspective)
 
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