When Emo starts to be a problem is when people listen to it and either try and fit themselves into the songs to be cool by being uncool or just totally rip off the band's style.  I don't really have a problem with the music, it just seems like the kids listening to it are trying so hard to be something they naturally aren't.
For example, this one kid I used to know growing up has become pretty hardcore emo.  It's great to hear him rag sometimes about preppy and pop stuff, saying how everybody is just doing what they're told, when at the same time he's just doing what he's told in the music he listens to.  It's one thing to "live" a music style, it's another to conform to a music style, if that makes sense...
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LIL jons music about punk ass bitches that need to get out of the club is a metaphor for something deeper inside of us - atlantaski