Hey my dad went there!... for law school not undergrad though. But, going to an ivy league school really isn't a waste of money. First of all, you get some of the best educations available in the world. Second of all, they tend to have more programs, so if you change your mind it isn't a bid deal, unlike for example lets say you realize criminal justice isn't for you, you are kinda screwed. (just an example i dont know specifics) There are some small private colleges that nobody has ever heard of that cost upwards of 40k a year. Those are wastes of money. Also, when you graduate from an ivy league school, you have connections like mad.
You make it osund like if you want to go to an ivy league school, you can't have fun in hs. So not true. In high school I did only activities I wanted to do. I played a sport 11 of 12 seasons, and did none of the bs clubs that most kids do. When i first got here (dartmouth) I was amazed that the kids here aren't all geeks. I'd say there were more  geeks in my hs than there are here. Plus i skiied allll the time in hs and didn't have that much work. Oh yea, and we are ranked as 12th (around there) beer school in the country. Work hard, party harder.