Today was one of the worst days of my life.

kyle_w

kyle_w

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Friday night at about 11 pm i recieved news that one of my best friends had been killed in a car accident. All i coulc think about all night was getting home from boston to see if it was true. We got back home last night and had school today. Everyone in school was crying because this kid was one of the happiest, most energetic outgoing people you could have ever met. This is the 4th person in my school to be killed or seriously injured this year, and its beginning to get old. The worst part about this whole thing is, his mom was on the phone with him as it happened, she heard it all.Now this is beginning to make me realize that you dont really know who your true friends are until they are gone, and i guess i took that for granted.
 
i dont mean to be nosey or anything but how did it happen? was he talkin to his mom and got in an accident or something?
 
he was late for curfew or something, and he was rushing home and his mom called him and i guess he was distracted while on the phone and he swerved into the other land clipping one car and hitting another head on.

heres the article

Teen rememberd as 'wonderful kid'

by KAREN HANNA karenh@herald-mail.com

CLEAR SPRING

A 16-year-old Clear Spring boy who died in a car accident Friday night dreamed of joining the Marine Corps, according to his pastor.

"He loved his country, and he wanted to serve our government," the Rev. Robert Stone said Sunday.

William "Danny" Bynaker, 16, a junior at Clear Spring High School, died from injuries sustained in an accident on U.S. 40 west of Ashton Road.

He was well-liked and generous with hugs, two members of Blairs Valley First Church of God said Sunday.

"He was just a young man that would go up to you, and he'd give a big hug. Just a nice kid, full of life. Wonderful kid," Beverly Hawbaker said.

Danny was driving a 2003 Toyota Corolla that was westbound near Ashton Road when it crossed into the eastbound lane, hitting two vehicles, according to police. The driver of the first vehicle, Alice Crowe, 64, of Frederick, Md., did not require ambulance transport, according to emergency officials.

The driver of the second vehicle, Dustin Scott Fisher, an 18-year-old Hagerstown man, died.

Stone said Danny was a leader in the church youth group. Last week, he had the lead role in a play called, "A Message from a Graveyard," which addressed the church's belief in a life after death.

Danny enjoyed spending time with his family, and he was very close to his mother, Stone said. According to his obituary, he is survived by his mother, Laura L. Manzanares Parks, and stepfather, Michael S. Parks, of Clear Spring; father William Leon Bynaker, of Laurel, Md.; two sisters; and a brother.

A hard worker who held jobs at Whitetail Resort and McDonald's, Danny also was a jokester, Stone said.

"He teased people, and he'd even tease me ... and I'm the preacher," Stone said.

Church council president Gary Hawbaker, Beverly's husband, said the church was in shock about the news that Danny had died.

"The boy was really, really well-liked. It's devastating for something like that to happen," he said.

Stone said Danny was a church member for about a year. This year, Danny helped coordinate a 30-hour famine, during which youth group members gave up food as part of a project to help needy children in other parts of the world, Stone said.

Stone said Danny was faithful and hoped to help those who could not help themselves.

"I'll tell you, I really think he was a prince. I loved him," Stone said. "I think what hurts the most is his life was cut short."
 
thats really to bad

so it may have been his mom's phone call that made him get in an accident? She will probibly never forgive herself
 
Im realy sorry about that dude, sounds like a really good kid. best wishes to his family and all his friends.
 
the really bad part is that he was getting ready to graduate early, and he was signing his papers for the marines saturday morning.
 
the accident is bad enough, but its even worse that he was on the phone with his mom at the time
 
i guess they were papers saying he was going to for sure join or something. his 17th birthday would be next week
 
im gonna try to get pics of his car. they said the impact was so bad that the engine was pushed through the firewall and it pushed him into the back seat.
 
well, i talked to his girlfriend and his mom tonight, and they are a mess. his girlfriend hasnt stopped crying since friday night. and i talkd to the other kids best friend and he said the kids dad is in denial. the kid was so fucked up in the crash that you couldnt tell who it was and his dad still thinks its not him and that he ran away or got lost or something.
 
RIP, one of my best friends died in a car accident on October 18th. Just try to remember him for the person he was, it can only get better.
 
fuuuucckkkkkk!

i feel bad for all the people going through that shit right now (u, his gf, mom and dad, ect...)

i shall keep u dudes in my prayers
 
that is so damn sad. i ski at whitetail so ive probly seen this kid before. i can even imagin what that is like. RIP
 
I dont know what that would be like

My best friend moved away last summer to Georgia and that killed me

but he didnt die so its really no comparison to what your going through

Im really sorry
 
thats so horrible, i couldnt imagine that happening to any of my freinds. not to seem like an asshole or anything, but they diddnt really say anything about the other guy who died in the article...

but such a sad story. RIP.
 
good get ur fucking lame ass kids off the road.

do you really think it worth it now fuckers? huh, DO YOU!!!!

whats it going to take to raise the driving age to 18?

seriously, you wine, bitch, and moan... yet you cant handle the priviledges of driving.

your brain is too underdeveloped to grasp the concept of life and death. ur in the most dangerous piece of machinery known to man, and you think it is funny to speed and shit.

i say, keep em coming... soon the law will change to 18, as it almost already has.
 
fuck man thats way to harsh to exploit the death of his best firend just to prove a point. go fuck yourself i bet you would be in a different mood if ur best friend died like that. probly wouldnt change ur opinion but the fact is people of all ages die in car accidents.

this is nothing short of a fucking disastor and will no doubt have emense effect on various people lives, and if u dont understand the value of that it should be you that died instead of the guy who apparently was a nice person.

to the guy who made the thread im very sorry for your loss
 
uhh yeah well i am actually one of the few that can speak because I have had a good girl friend die in a crash. back when she was 17... going roughly 95mph.
 
i didnt make his friend break curfew, i didnt make his friend answer a phone while driving, i didnt make his friend probably speed.

ur 16, and ur life has ended... im just hoping that people can learn for once.

sure its horrible to think, but when is it ever going to change?

it takes being harsh sometimes in this world because it is not all fun and games. and when the young finally grow up and see this then maybe responsibility can set in.

everyone feels sorry for people, and nothing gets accomplished. its the people that take action and scare fear into the eyes of the beholder.

fear is the only thing that keeps people from doing dumb stuff.

if you knew you could breath under water, would the fear of drowning ever exist.

it takes wisdom to achieve some of the greatest accomplishments and until someone learns they will never have the fear within them.

I also had a freind hang himself senior year of HS because he was not going to graduate. so he took his life rather then making up a few courses. he really thought that would make him more complete.
 
^ points above taken into considerartion and for the most part agreed with,

but writing shit like this just sux dude,

if u wanna make a harsh statement about this which is problably a good idea, but u just picked a bad time to do that. the guy who made the thread is most probably grieving over the loss of his friend and would not be in the state of mind to lectured bout the reckless acts of teen driving
 
well when its you they hit next time, they live and you die... then we will see.

death is a done deal, no need to grieve. not gonna bring anyone back. sounds harsh but its the truth. religion is A JOKE, so we all believe what we want.
 
^ you would have to be the closest thing to a true existentialist i have come across on this sight and for that i feel sorry for you dude,

you cant bring back someone after they die but you can allways bring back the memories and thats the important stuff
 
well my friend you may be on ot something there. because I often question the meaning of life sometimes, but dont we all. Sure its fun to live life, but whats it all really mean?

millions of people have lived and died, we have gotten great inventions but have we really seem our potential?
 
wow man...I have the same fuckin thoughts....but theres no reason to dwell on things

as for the kid who lost a friend, Im very sorry...its gotta be rough man, and I feel bad everyone thats going through it....
 
yea man we cant dewll or we shall go no where in life, but about your friend i too am sorry to hear that, really sorry man
 
i found pictures.

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im sorry to hear that

i sorta know what ur going through because my brothers best friend was speeding one rainy night and died. i remeber m brother couldnt even talk he was crying for so long. i believe he had a little closure with him but that was it. it really makes u said to think about it

once again man im sorry to hear that my prayers go out to you and your family, and ur friends family
 
wow man. i cant imagine anything that bad happening to anybody close to me, it makes me want to cry when i hear what youve gone through. Your friend and everyone close to him are in my prayers.

God just couldnt wait for him to be up there with him, thats all.
 
holy fuck im sorry... i cant even imagine loosing a good friend. It'd be like loosing a brother.
 
wow. things like this always seem to happen to the best people that dont deserve to have anything like this happen. I hope everyone who knew him can be strong after having this happen.
 
no offence but if someone i knew and cared for got splattered all over their back windscreen, i wouldn't post pictures of it.

seems kinda messed up to me, in this country, where the driving age is 17 (to start lessons), it's illegal to talk on a mobile and we have much lower speed limits. it's a tragic accident, but certainly avoidable.
 
chill dude^, he is just sad about his friend dont give him flack. Sorry to hear about that man, thats tragic.
 
yea fo sho. say what you want to me, but I try to avoid using my cell phone in the car whenever possible. i think it should def be illegal to talk on ur phone in the car, phone calls arent that urgent, this tragedy was avoidable. every time i get in the car, literally, i have to deal with someone, usually a dumb broad, driving dangerously because the focus is on the phone call instead of driving. sorry if its harsh, but its reality.

i am extremely sorry about ur friend. this stuff always sux, but has to be accepted, it happens to the best of us. it must be realized how dangerous driving really is, please be careful.

on another note, no one bothered to mention how tragic it is that the 18 yr. old died (oncoming traffic) cause someone else was on the phone, thats terrible. i dont know how to explain my perspective without sounding like an asshole, i truely am sorry for your friend, family, and all his friends. i've only lost my little cousin to suicide a couple years back, I understand your situation to some extent. again, so sorry man.

i think what everyone should get out of this is to learn from other people's mistakes, and appreciate everyone in your life.
 
well, i talked to a girl in school today, and the 18 year old was apparently at her house before the wreck. they left, and she was following him in town, and she said her and the 18 year old were both high, and he was going fast enough that she couldnt keep up with him
 
i bike. alot. i love it. for many reasons. if i bike to a party, i do not have to worry (for the most part) about cops, d-dubs, and basically driving drunk. also, it is extremely hard to talk on the phone when ur biking. its doable, but difficult. biking is extremely good for you, unlike cars, especially for your knees. (and as skiers, we can all appreciate that). i spend nothing on gas, since i do not need it because i bike. on top of all this, bikes are so much fun.

please dont take life for granted. you may have your complaints, but remember there are people out there without ANY of the luxuries we tend to accept without appreciation, these luxuries arent even possibilities for many. life is good. remember my words children...
 
d-loc. i think you are like my alias or w.e its called. completely agreed with your posts and i was gunna post something along those lines. life isnt a game man. you only got one shot.
 
It's far more tragic that the 18yo died imo. It's a sad story, but through the 16yo's stupidity of being on a phone while driving he has not only taken his own life but that of another innocent person, which is far far worse.

Ok I know someone mentioned the 18yo was high, but if the 16yo hadn't hit him he probably wouldn't be dead.
 
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