what you don't seem to understand is that you can complain and bicker all you want about how "netherlands had so many more chances" or "denmark's goal was so lucky" but in the end, no one is going to remember that in a couple of years. and people need to realize that right now, in this tournament, none of that matters one bit. All that matters that that denmark was able to score the ball while the netherlands either missed, fucked up, or got shut down by the danish defense. Yes, they controlled a good part of the match, had a lot more shots/chances, but the dutch didn't score.
They can lead in all other statistics (passing, chances, possesions, etc) but they lost in the most important of them all: scoring.
and it absolutely was a deserved goal. denmark capitalized off a dutch mistake, and it cost them.