Sex and highschool

yah man i know it wasn't your blog, but gun_it turned it into a big deal. I realise your only 15 but u have to understand alot of people did not know u were 15. YOu also have to understand there is alot of older people from universities, and such on this site. For us, we have alot of experience so we r just trying to help enlighten you youngens on kind of what the real world is like. So man don't call people fags and gay cuz honestly, its a fuckin internet site and it was an interesting post with lots of views. So, yah don't get defensive.
 
"I would bet that about 70% of high school girls and guys think that the most important part of a relationship is sex and would be willing to be in a relationship for the soul purpose of sex. I'll call this group of people the 70s (for blogging's sake). Most of the "70%" girls say they want a sweet guy. They actually want a hot guy who will buy them shit and fuck on command. Most of the "70%" guys want a hot sexy girl who is stupid and will fuck on command. Most of the 70s relationships are hookups, not long lasting relationships. Hookups usually happen at parties or events with a lot of teens and are just a guy "hooking up" with a girl (or sometimes other combinations of genders), meaning that they make out, feel each other up, and if lucky, fuck each other... What the hell is up with that? I mean what have they accomplished by that, honestly. You have gotten a nice sexual high which you probably won't remember because you were too fucking drunk, what else? I don't really care what you people do once in college and out of high school, because most of us will be mature enough to make our own decisions, but I really think that it is retarded to start Fucking around in high school.(because I said this I will probably be called a stuck up pussy, but I think it takes more balls to say something you think is right when you know that 70% of your peers will completely disagree with you)"

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I compltley agree with this paragraph. I'm one of the only kids at my school who think school dances and shit like that are lame, because of exaclty those reasons. I do go sometimes yes, but i dont try to hook-up with anyone because i find it absoltley pointless.
 
It is a known fact that exactly 100% of kids who start threads about how they can't get laid are 499% ass jockeys. it is also a nationally reported, university accredited fact that anyone who looks for sex advice on the internet will for certainty NEVER have sexual intercourse with a member of the opposite sex in their time on this earth.

And that's a fact, it's just science, look it up.

 
I agree with the basic principle of this thread. And holy fuck, there's alot of pressure to have sex these days. The first thing someone asks you when you haven't seen them in a while is "how's your sex life." The second thing is "give me the details."

It certainly has changed dramatically. The divorce rates have sky rocketed in recent years. There are more unplanned pregnancies. And it's simply very difficult to trust anyone in a relationship which was not the case for our grandparents. In fact it's almost easier to have casual sex simply because you don't have to worry about the emotional pain of being cheated on.

Someone mentioned the average age of marriage increasing to the point where people cannot be expected to wait to have sex. This is a totally separate social phenomenon and I would say that it is likely due to the increased expectaion that people continue their education beyond highschool and often into graduate studies at college. People no longer have a stable financial status at the age of 20. Many people have incurred a large debt and can only begin paying it off when they land their career job at the age of 25 and therefore cannot afford to get married before 28.

Someone else pointed out that our biology is causing us to want sex at the age of 16-20. This is true for men whose sex drive peaks around 18 but not true for women. Women actually hit their peek in their early thirties. Yet many girls seem to crave sex at an even earlier age. I would say that this is largely due to the male dominance of American society. It's what men want when they want it. And this is portrayed in the media so girls are influenced by both thier biology but also the media which causes them to choose sex at an earlier age.

In my opinion, I would say that people really should be waiting until marriage before having sex. Unfortunately, that is ver very difficult to do now adays. Sadly, there isn't much we can do without some serious reforms to American values which will be very slow in coming.
 
i know exactly who wrote that and hes a faggot and i also must say that THAT IS THE SINGLE GAYEST THING I HAVE EVER HEARD you are such a faggoooottttt
 
hahahahha omg this all just sunk in this iisss sooo fuckkiinnn gay i lost my virginity before highschool and idk why the hell you would want to wait that long what if you get hit by a truck???? what the hell is wrong with you royale and gunit, but seriously, before i realized how much i hate royale i probably spoke to him for a solid 3 hours just thinking he was a nice but kind of wierd kid.... oooooh was i wrong
 
AHHHHHH WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU you sound like an 80 year old nun, and a dumb one, who the hell doesnt know that but why would you care!?!!??!?!?! you dont have to be completely enthralled with sex just to prove yourself as a highschool student WTTTFTfttFTtftTftTFtft you are soooooo gay omg wtf why cant you just enjoy your life
 
i agree with most of that, but nothing will change the problem, because sex will always be the "best" thing that you can do in a relationship
 
Alrighty, time for my own little rant. So, if you ask me, everyone is making a big huge, unnecessary commotion about sex. Sex happens. You say it's not natural, guess what buddy: it is. It's so natural, it's one of our most basic instincts. We get urges around this age (high-school age, that is) and they really are pretty natural urges. Now, my personal philosophy, and I'm pretty sure that it's shared by a shitload of people, and it may have even been mentioned in this very thread (I read til like page two...) is that there's love-making, and then there's just fucking. Love-making is what you do when you really love the other person, and it's very emotional and beautiful. Fucking, on the other hand, happens usually between two people who may not quite be in the right state of mind, are feeling a little horny, and you know what, that member of the opposite sex (or maybe not) across the bar is looking pretty damn good tonight. Of course if this is referring to high school then it's not taking place in a bar, it's taking place at some party or something. Anyways, maybe we should just go back and figure out why sex is such a big deal in the first place. Ready for my conspiracy theory? Ah yes, it all traces back to the church, doesn't it? Naturally, the church made sex out to be an evil thing, and now it's seen as a pretty big deal, even though it's no bigger a deal than following that urge to pour yourself some Cheerio's in the morning.

So, in the end of it all, what am I saying? Don't worry so much about sex, if you get laid, awesome, if you don't feel like fucking some STD-ridden skank, also awesome. In my opinion, if it feels good, do it. Why else do you ski? Not because everyone thinks it's cool, or macho, or expected, but because you like to. Why shouldn't sex be the same way?
 
I def agree with this post. I think it's pretty pathetic when I can't walk through my highschool without seeing couples grabbing each others asses and making out like animals.
 
very well said. i completly agree with you.

i hate all the super slutty girls who say "i want a nice boyfriend who respects me" your right. they will get bored and cheat on him.

i see stuff like this go on because one of my friends is definatly in the 70% and he invited this one girl to the pool who he said he really respected and liked, and the entire time we wer sitting in the hottub she was jerkin him off.

im only a sophmore so i dont have much experiance with this all, but this will be my first year at public highschool so i garentee ill see all this happen, but im gonna do my best to stay in that 30%
 
buddy you got your facts mixed up here. sex is not the holy commitment to stay with one other person for your whole life. sex is fun. I see where you are coming from that having that special bond that you and your partner have only ever been with eachother can bring, but in this day in age, thats not how the relationship bandwagon is rolling. Highschool is a perfect time to start experimenting and testing out the waters. I do think that 14 or 15 is young to be fucking, but 16,17,18. go nuts. Be safe and get with ever type of girl you can. Honest if you have dated and done em all, its hella easy to pick the girl you want to be with later on in life.

In closing, there is a time for fucking around and there is a time for meaningful relationships. As long as your safe I say fuck like a bunnies and pick your soulmate when she comes to you.
 
i agree with you, but it doesnt seem like uve ever been in a meaningful relationship. i mean obov i dont know that so im not saying u havent, but ive had relationships that are more meaningful than others and yeah it can make sex better, but for the most part ur excactly right, expieriment and get out there. be safe. but have fun cuz ur never gonna be in high school again, u better enjoy it now
 
This is what drives me crazy.

Thats because sex is something that bonds people, of course they get more attached. This is how society is now, there4 is no love and true feelings and everything is watered down because of that. I'm with the thread maker, I think that there is nothing wrong with waiting till marriage. And just because people don' thave sex doesn't mean they couldn't if they wanted to. Its just a personal decision. I hope you die of a STD :)
 
the main problem here is, once that 30% has sex they realize that sex is awsome and they want more of it, who doesnt. I was in high school once haha and had a girlfriend for a long time ya we had sex and i lost my virginity to her and same goes for her. Then we moved onto college. We went to different schools but still lived in the same town. I realized that i wasnt really in love with her. High school kids have no idea what love is honestly i mean maybe there is a low percent that do but for the most part, no. I dont regret having sex when i was a sophmore, the fact that i lost it then and have gained some experiance since then has made me a better lover now hahahaha. thats something that girls want, thats something that guys want. now all you have to do is find someone that you like and can fall in love with and they will love that fact that you are a good fuck. i agree with what this kid is saying, but just the whole love thing is wrong. i dont know how old this kid is but if he is still in high school he should wait to rewrite something like this until he is out of school.
 
you hope i die of an std fag? ur a virgin i gurantee it cuz u have no clue wat ur talking about. i hope it stays that way to cuz u prolly wont know wat to do with urself when ur 48 and u get laid for the first time
 
I dont agree, although I think there is some sense to what is being said, but the thing about planned parenthood is bullshit! and where do they get these facts? what the fuck? honestly? kids are having sex at a YOUNGER age? where the fuck did that come from? it the 1800s or whatever, people would get MARRIED at the age of 12. My grandparents had my mom at the age of 23. If you think that 90% of kids at school only care about sex when it comes to a relationship, you must hang out with a lot of assholes. I would think about getting some new frinds/changing the girls I dated if I were you. But sex is an imiportant part. Otherwise more people would be gay. If it wanst for the sex, I would consider being gay. Thats what a relationship is the combination of phisical and emotional feelings. There needs to be both. Or its not a relationship. on one hand, they are fuck buddies, and on the other, they are just frineds. 15 and 16 years old is not too young of an age for this. Sex is normal, and if planned parenthood didnt tell you, you still would have sex, but you might not use a condom you jackass. Humans are primitive. Im not going to arguee that, but you just have to face it, and find the least primitive way to deal with the human primitivity.
 
oh yea, many people will say they are in the %30. I think it will suprise you that more then t%30 will say they are in the %30. I am not. if I was drunk, and I was with a drunk chick and she wanted to have sex, I would - if I found her attractive, and didnt have any more serous prospects at hand. Its natural. it happens all the time. unfortinatly, the guys who dont belelve in sex, will start relationships, and they wont last very long. sex enforces the relationship. it gets the hormons flowing and creats feeling for eachother.
 
im part of the 30. like i really dont care about sex and stuff. but i do sometimes wish i was in the 70 and just could fuck and not care. i feel like i would care too much
 
can you please just not talk any more seriously you know that you sound like a complete dousche bitching at some1 whose actually figure something out and made a little more sense of his life..this was probably one of the most frustrating things to read because you have no idea what your talking about and when you actually realize a little bit later when you mature enough to actually process thoughts in your head youre going to realize what a retard you are or were, because you might chagne i have no clue but just stop and think about what your saying idiot.

wow

props to you man this makes total sense.
 
Heres a real statistic for all yall: 1 female has posted in this entire thread. Take that home. Chew on it.
 
well you know 76% of statistics are made up on the spot.

oh and im part of the "70%", but i have a steady girlfriend and i do care alot about her
 
Yeah I'm a virgin so what? I am a Christian I don't beleive in sex before marriage. Why would it take till I am 48? I'm not too worried I have more important things in life to do right now, and I am sure I will be happy
 
Yeah I'm a virgin so what? I am a Christian I don't beleive in sex before marriage. Why would it take till I am 48? I'm not too worried I have more important things in life to do right now, and I am sure I will be happy i waited after I have gotten married, yeah It kinda suckas right now, but not really. I would rather go hit a rail on my bike or a booter on my skiis. So eyah if that makes me a fag, so be it.
 
thats my thoughts to. you dont need to be 16, 17, 18, 19 and being a father/mother. i want to have children with someone i care about..not just to have sex for pleasure...
 
and think about it, what if something goes whron, and you do become a father. not worth it. id rather wait.
 
thats why you use a condom and birthcontrol, u have almost 100% chance that it won't happen. Think about it 100%, that is quite alot. So when all u little wankers are like no, i dont want to become a dad well chances are you won't almost 100% if ur not a dumbfuck. But anyways just do it, its not as big of a deal once you do. But its a big deal until then.
 
that doesnt make you a fag, i totaly respect that, what makes you a fag is telling me i should die of an std cuz ive had sex
 
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