Be Yourself...It's not about what tricks you can throw, or what you look like, It's about having fun, don't try to be something or someone you're not.
I wear baggy clothes when I ski, but that doesn't make me the stereotypical wanna-be thug, it's simply cuz I find it comfortable, if tight pants were comfy for me, I'd wear tight pants. I wear a bandana because it's an effective way to keep the wind out of my face, not because I wanna look gangsta. (i mean I won't wear any gaper stuff though)
The stance I ski in is the stance most comfortable and fun to ski in for ME, not for anyone else, you shouldn't ski for others, you should ski for yourself, and no one else. It's all about going to have fun on the mtn with your friends, and chilling with a beer afterwards and laughing together about stuff that happened on the mtn that day.