Anecdote - The expression anecdotal evidence refers to evidence from anecdotes. Because of the small sample, there is a larger chance that it may be true but unreliable due to cherry-picked or otherwise unrepresentative of typical cases.[1][2]
My point was individuals do not represent a group. Sure there are nice rich guys. There are also the Bernie Madoffs of the world. Not saying either represents the whole group, but until someone (anyone? please?) does a study on old money vs new money, we wont really know.
That being said, you also have to take into account what you are born into. Some kid born into a middle or upper class family quite simply has more opportunities than someone born in the hood. Neither chooses too, but one can succeed far more easily than the other. The upper class kid, regardless of what his parents hand him, still lives in most likely a better school district, has access to better supplies and materials, has a family that most likely can and will spend the time to help him with his schoolwork (parental involvement is a HUGE part of a students school success). Meanwhile the kid born poor lives in a terrible school district, with lousy resources and supplies. His parents (if he has any) probably are working late to try and put food on the table, so they aren't involved in his school work at all. Sure the richer kid may work hard for his success, but the poor kid has to work twice as hard, through no fault of his own.
And yes, I realize this doesn't represent all of either group either, and is a generalization that I was just chastising you about, but just something to think about.