My girlfriend broke up with me today.

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RoofDaRoofieDogg

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So, my girlfriend broke up with me today. I've been posting your mom jokes on NS all night and it doesn't seem to make me feel any better. What do you guys do to make yourself feel better after a big break up?What can I do to help me get over this quicker?

General feels thread I guess.

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Inb4 op can't Inb4
 
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This may not be the healthiest coping mechanism, but when stuff like that happens to me, I bury myself in my work. Not school work. Creative work. In my case, music. If you have something productive and/or creative that you like to do, whether it's a hobby or more serious, try focusing on that.
 
Don't listen to sappy music, makes it worse. The genre of music really changes your mood. Try listening to upbeat music. Hang out with your friends as much as possible, it'll help take your mind off of it. Go skiing!! Maybe watch funny videos like stand up comedy. It'll be a depressing couple of weeks. just try and keep positive, you don't want to let your friend and family relationship to suffer from it too. The saddest part is knowing you won't have anyone to jerk you off, it's now manual labour. Until the next slave.
 
you need a rebound bang sesh asap. go bang somebody, doesnt matter how ugly, youll feel way better. seriously
 
I read the thread title and came in here to post "fuck her," but then after reading the rest of the post this response just seems cruel.
 
Just remember girls age like shit. In a decade this girl will be jonesing for your cock, but youll have moved on to hotter women
 
If you are sad be sad, if you are angry be angry, if you could care less, that's okay too.

Whatever you feel right now don't try to change it. Go somewhere quiet, sit down, and allow whatever you feel be how you feel. If you start to think of other things- even for just a minute than notice that that's the nature of your mind…and that's what's eventually going to happen completely: you will think of other things, because there is more to life than just sadness, anger, and one girl.

But don't try and force yourself to forget or feel bad, cause that'll make it worse (if not immediately than in the long run).

You got attached to a person and a situation, welcome to the human race…you'll eventually lose everyone you love, so take this as an opportunity to be cool with that.
 
If you really care about her then let her go. If she cares about you she will come back. If she doesnt come back, then its a sign and dont worry about it. Just make it seem to her that you are unaffected by it
 
This is the truth man.

I guess to give a bit of backstory for this thread; she broke up with me because she apparently didn't feel strongly for me anymore. This is what she says, but I'm not 100% sure about this. The thing is, she runs away from anything that makes her feel uncomfortable. I guess we had a rough patch, and she cracked up and left. To give you an example of how flaky she can be, when she was in grade 9 she had a fight with her parents, so she jumped on a freight train and went across the country. She hitch hiked back eventually over the course of 2 weeks, but it really just goes to show how bad she is for running away from her problems. Another thing that could have effected it was that her parents hate me. They are extremely protective of her, and I've been in their bad books since the day they met me. They somehow got involved in this final rough patch, and I think they may have convinced her to leave me. It was all just too sudden, and I feel like she took the path of least resistance as usual and broke it off with me to save the relationship with her parents.

Or maybe she genuinely no longer has feelings for me, I don't know. But what I do know is that she's not here anymore, and thats what really matters.
 
I hate to say it man but you can't fix crazy. I had one girl that I dated for awhile and I found out she was a manic depressive two weeks in I tried and tried but you can't fix crazy. Take your extra income and buy something cool like a bong or a new gaming system.
 
Didn't read thread at all so this may have been said already but,

THIS THREAD NEEDS PICS. We cannot give you good advice unless we're seeing what you're working with.
 
It's true. No matter what I do I can't change her. The thing is, we shared a lot of common interests. We did like everything together. Most of the things I do and enjoy were things I shared with her. Skiing, playing video games, writing, you name it. And now that she's gone, all these things just remind me of her and when she was still here. I know I'm being melodramatic, but I really can't escape the feels at the moment no matter where I go or what I do. I feel like a big part of me is missing, and I don't know what to do to fill it up.
 
My ex boke up wih me a few months ago and I was in the same boat you were. Hanging with friends helped so much, I just tried to make it so I was never really alone. Then most of em left for college, then I found listening to upbeat music, and working helped a lot. I also have gotten a lot closer to my family too, which has been cool. I think with ski season starting up now it'll help so much to get my mind off things. You probably don't wanna hear it now, but being single can actually be really fun. This is really long. My bad. Just stay positive, everything will work out man.
 
My advice is as follows. If your in high school then fuck this just go get some other pussay and being a bitch. However if your in college or out of college then you need to decide how much you like this girl. If you like her enough to put up with all her shit and you genuinely have a good time around her, then go after her dude she could be the one you never know. But hey what do I know, do what you got to do man just don't let a break up ruin your next few days you only get so many.
 
i cant believe nobody has said anything about a rebound fuck. your on the rebound, it is essential fgor you to fornicate with other chicks, the fast you do it the better youll feel.
 
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