You really know me don't you.  You're right I have no idea what it's like.  I never had a brother who was gay, I've never seen him alienated from our family. I've never seen our whole circle of friends turn on him.  I've never seen him so depressed it possibly drove him to his death.  You're absolutely right I have noooo clue.
Don't tell me what I can and can't do either.
Don't get all pissy.  I simply asked skidubai to clarify what his article stated.  I followed that with a clear statement of my beliefs, not your or anyone else's beliefs, but mine.
I am grown the fuck up and am open to plenty of perspectives, I'm still allowed to have mine thank you.  It's not like I said anyone who thinks they are born gay are retarded and completely wrong, I'm wide open to discuss others views.  By the way you didn't bring up one valid point to prove otherwise, besides telling me how I feel, what I can't do, and who or what I know.