Yeah, we all ski and try to ski our best and with the most style possible...but I don't understand why you think it's necessary to "judge" others in order to appreciate your own riding. And you're wrong, not all of us riders "carry an arrogant and judgmental aura". The only riders that have an attitude like that are the ones that aren't satisfied with their own riding.
If I see an inexpierenced rider on the hill with expensive ass gear and goPro, it doesn't effect me in the least. Good for that kid, he's probably having a blast.
Here's the way I see it. The only time I get ticked off on the hill is when I get snaked repeated or the mountain is so damn crowded you can't ski park with flow. Same thing as surfing, the problems only start when people get in the way.
You have your reasons for riding, I have mine. For me, any day that I actually get to be out on the hill is a prize and nothing can stop me from having a good time...rain, wind, whatever it is. And the last thing on my mind is what some kid I don't know has on his helmet or is wearing, etc. I'm out there to ride, and my riding is the only thing I care about.
It sounds like your reasons for riding are different. Sorta sounds like think of the hill as "not a judgment free zone" because you need to judge others to feel better about your self and your riding.
A piece of advice: To those who ride best and have the most fun, the hill is the ultimate judgment free zone.