i lift for the three F's. they are, in no particular order-
-Fucking
-Fighting
-Freeskiing
I want to look good so its easier to attract hot females
I want to be able to protect myself and my buddies when shit goes down
I want to be strong enough to stomp that big air, and meaty enough to absorb big crashes
Bench helps when you are shoving, and punching, and a bigger chest exudes confidence and health(females are instinctivly attracted to it).
Gym time is also "me" time. its almost meditative for me, seeing as how i have almost zero downtime throughout a normal day. hate all you want, but at least i can admit my true motivations for training the way i do.