I would suggest Alpine, Squaw, and Sugar Bowl.  They have the best terrain on the north shore.
I would not bother with Boreal or Northstar.  Neither is much of a mountain, and isn't that the point of moving to Tahoe?
Squaw is insane.  Between college and grad school I lived in Tahoe for 5 years.  I skied Squaw everyday, so obviously I love that mountain.  I don't know what you are planning for work, but when I was there you could ski instruct part time and get a Squaw pass.  Back then you only had to work 25 days, as long as they were mostly weekend/holiday.  If you can find a night job, where you will make most of your money, that is a good way to go with Squaw.  I absolutely love the mountain, so I would obviously recommend that route.
You can't go wrong with Alpine either, one of the steepest mountains anywhere with lots of killer hike-to terrain.  Alpine has a cheaper pass too, so you could work nights and not have to deal with a day job to get a pass.
Sugar Bowl is a great mountain too, although not as big.
I would advise either Squaw or Alpine.  If you want to ski park all day at Boreal that's fine, but I don't see the point of moving to Tahoe to ski mediocre terrain.
Kirkwood is sick, but a LONG way from Truckee.