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OP, I've been in this boat before. If you ever want to talk about it over coffee or something, PM me and we'll work something out. (;
 
This guy sounds like a fucking douchebag or at elast an idiot.

Who the hell tells a girl that some other girl was the best ever, and then acts like it's cool to go to their bday party?!??

I'd hitch my wagon to another star if I were you. He seriously sounds clueless as hell.
 
A BIG part of me wanted to say, "Are you kidding me right now?" when I read this, but when you really think about it, almost all of us have done or put up with some really stupid shit because we really like someone. Hell, I know I have! You'll eventually learn what's healthy and what's not in a relationship and what you should and shouldn't put up with (many of us learn the hard way, unfortunately), and then you'll think back on this in five years and wonder what the hell you were thinking.

Best of luck, young lady! Ditch the guy; you're better off without him, I promise you.
 
Random fun fact, just remembered the boyfriend is on NS. Aaaand he just replied to the "Where do you go to college" thread.

Guesses on which one he is?
 
I think asking the internet for advice might not be the be the first place you should start. Talk to him
 
She doesnt need to talk to him, he already read it !

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Clearly OP has attachment issues to some extent. Writing is on the wall....wants to give chance

sorry op that always sucks...
 
I'm interested how this conversation went down... "So there's this thread I made... I can't tell you what it's about but dont read it k?" Seems legit!
 
I think shes trolling.... Juist remembered that he is on newschoolers? Kind of a big deal if you are making a thread like this... Says, i told him not to look at it but she doesnt trust him.... Intradesting...
 
lol I have a real hard time believing you "forgot" your boyfriend was an active member of the forum on which you're posting threads about your relationship problems. Anyway between the distrust, the possible other girl, and the passive aggressiveness I'm gonna go ahead and say this one's not going to work out and you guys should probably break up. Good luck

 
Fucking girls, ... he needs to figure out I'm upset somehow magically .. USE YOUR WORDS ... guys usually aren't good at picking up clues/hints/things like that, talk to him and try to stay rational about it and don't come across as a paranoid bitch. That would probably just drive him away, just let him know you're concerned.

Yes go to the party, if there is no trust then you're already screwed.
 
Lol, I actually did forget, but hey when you eat special cupcakes you can end up forgetting a lot of things by accident.

And I do ski and she doesn't so I win on that front. Ended up talking to him about it last night, he feels awful and we aren't going now. Which is good ha.
 
as I have gotten older, one of the saddest things I've seen time and time again, is that girls/women generally in the 16-24ish age range seriously lack self confidence.

if this isn't a troll thread, OP really needs to take a damn stand and demand better for herself. It's just a shame, like c'mon ladies you have a lot to offer and you gotta believe in yourself and be confident! Don't take this kind of shit
 
drop this dude you're with right now because he's clearly more interested in other things and although things may be ok for the time being, this thing you have with him is going to fail sooner or later without a doubt.

more importantly, if he sees that he can say shit like you mentioned, and almost convince you to go to a girl's bday party who he has slept with before, he'll just keep pushing the envelope because he's going to realize you'll stick around no matter what.

You can do better. Bottom line.
 
We've got plenty of cute guys in Bozeman. SOunds like this one is hung up over his ex. Dump hime before he does something.
 
I feel like you and your boyfriend are the kind of couple who drive around in a sunfire while you wear his snapback.
 
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We are not going to the birthday. He said it is not worth making me unhappy/ruining our relationship at all and he apologized for everything. He understands he's still on thin ice about the entire situation though.

Also he read my first post but nothing that you guys commented about...so I didn't think it was worth making a whole new thread about it haha.
 
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