Wow i need some help right now- just cought w/weed and MIP in the same week

1080ski

1080ski

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well, it finally happened. i got cought. First off let me say that i never considered myself a druggie, i always had good grades and did well in sports, well today, i got cought with more than just weed. first here is a background story.

Ok so a little while ago (the week before school) i had a small party, and got busted for drinking by my rents. They were pretty chill about it and i thought everything was all good.

Fast forward to this past sunday night (monday was columbus day so we had no school the next day). i drank with a few friends, also had some dxm in me. fun night, untill i got arrested and charged with a Minor In Possesion Of Alcohol. i got driven by the cops to the station, breathalized, printed, yada yada yada. my parents were pissed off so badly. no car, no phone, no anything.

fast forward to today. i get picked up from crew (a sport) by my parents (no car, remember?). i told them the consequences that i have to face for getting arrested (sports wise- i talked to my coach about it). she said thats good, and then told me she searched my room. She found:

-Empty bennadryll box (stupid i know)

-A few empty bottles of cough syrup (not as dumb as you think, but my parents probably think im a dexed out retard now)

-Pipe

-Brothers vicodin from august

-Lighter

-Bowl

she told me this and i felt like so much shit, you really have no idea. my mom told me that she was afraid for me (i think the pills/dxm is what did that for me). she said that she was truley scared, and she was in tears the whole way back.

i told her that i stopped everything a while ago, and she says she belives me (although i still use dxm/weed occasionally). i should piss clean pretty soon though, since i havent smoked for a while now.

this experiance has totally kicked my ass. I kinda want to tell them to put me on drug testing, just to prove that im being loyal to them. Ive decided to quit all drugs for good. no fucking way im gonna go through this again. I will drink occasionally out of season, and only in a 100% safe enviornment. I feel like shit right now.

what are some ways i can gain trust back, or basically start to fix everything ive done?
 
they also found:

-A full bottle of cough syrup

-An empty bottle of their champagne

i want you all to just remember that you can and most likley will get cought. i was so careful with my smoking/drug use, and drinking is what fucked me over in the end. trust me, your not superman, you probaly will get cought. dont do this to your parents.

you know whats worse? i have to go sit down with my dad for his birthday dinner along with my grandparents and most of my family. talk about shitty timing...
 
do you honestly think i didnt learn my lesson? please dont post this usless shit i already found out on my own (im very pissed right now- anger isnt directed towards you)
 
yo 1080 ski your a fucking herb hahahah

theres nothin wrong with doin drugs just keep it chill

and how the fuck you get caught drinkin but the cops... idiot
 
well long story short we parked our cars near a feild and came back when the cops were there because they thought that the cars were suspicious at that time of night
 
just shows how stupid you are i mean seriously how fucking hard is it to not get caught smoking and drinking... well maybe its easier in the states to get caught but in canada you have to do something seriously stupid like smoke right out side a station to get booked
 
drug and alcohol laws are much more strict down here, consider yourself lucky your in canada. and i didnt get cought smoking, my parents searched my room and found the pipe- read the post.
 
dude i know how it feels to get caught. theres nothing you can do but stay straight for a long time so you can regain trust with your 'rents. good luck though
 
apparently your a retard (learn to read), because the MIP was a few days ago, and they searched my room and found the other shit that i used, BEFORE a few days ago. moron. learn how to read.
 
this experiance has totally kicked my ass. I kinda want to tell them to put me on drug testing, just to prove that im being loyal to them. Ive decided to quit all drugs for good. no fucking way im gonna go through this again. I will drink occasionally out of season, and only in a 100% safe enviornment. I feel like shit right now.

what are some ways i can gain trust back, or basically start to fix everything ive done?

dog hes askin for help and feels like shit and you go and start hatin on him??

 
hey dumbass, maybe after getting caught you would have thought of hiding your shit better, but nope. how do you get caught for two separate things in two days? HAHAHAHAHAHA!!! you are a moron and i hope you feel like shit
 
dude last year i got busted by the cops for gange and then my rents did the same room searching thing

-3 oneies-(sp? i've never had to write that b4)

-2 wood pieces

-half pack of cigs

-1 glass bowl

-3 lighters

-remnants of a dime-spot that i bought the week before

i know that feeling man it's the absolute worst where u know ur fucked and u can't do shit about it except fess up. just wait it out and eventually they'll cool down. give it time shit has this crazy way of working itself out.
 
ok first off, you gotta take a step back and realize that this isnt the end of the world, despite how shitty and looming your situation feels. Your mom will come around to in time, providing you dont add anymore fuel to the fire, but it sounds like your trying your best not to, so good. Second, i dont know how old you are though obviously still in high school, but sooner or later you should realize that taking dxm is retarded, and something young kids do because they cant get their hands on anything else. As far as weed, hopefully you'll grow out of it on your own rather than letting an bad incident make you stop, which usually only works for a short period regardless of how adiment you are about quitting tonight. What im trying to say there is that eventually you need to discover that your life will create more meaningful reasons for not smoking and become your true motivation to leave it in the past such as: -its no longer acceptable to be tired and strung out at a job because you were high. -its more important to be saving every extra penny you have for things like car insurance, rent money, groceries, etc. -you cant keep an intelligent, hot girlfriend in a real relationship because she'd really prefer to spend her time and personality with someone who's not always burnt. -there's plenty more good reasons youll find in time. Anyway, playing it straight, doing well at school will certainly ehlp regain some of your parents trust. But i also think that maybe making yourself more visible around the house with your parents (as much as this sucks right now) will also make them more comfortable with you, where as keeping to yourself in your room and only coming out for meals may likely further their assumption that you have a real problem or are up to something. Offer your help to them with out sucking up (b/c only bitches suck) and just engaging gradual conversation will make them feel better and begin to trust you more again. Believe me when i say i know how shitty you feel because ive already put myself through all those shitty situations when i was a little bit younger. But the best part is if you learn to make the right changes, when you look back all of this mess becomes truely insignificant. I guess just good luck, you'll figure it all out. oh yeah, and as far as the boozes take it easy until your legal. its really not that long a time, but you can really fuck yourself over if you get into trouble with it underage. This i can say after getting a dwi at 20. totally not worth it.
 
well its a little late for that statement now isnt it? fucking douchebag

yea dude good job on quitting thats a decision you'll never regret. but to gain their trust back seriously just talk to them more and show them that you are clean. theyll forgive you
 
yeah i had a similar experience, caught for a colt 45, then got picked up by the cops from going into an through a window trying to use the foam pits at night. and yesterday i got kicked off the XC team. but my grades just came in and i have a 4.1 so my rents dont care about all that other shit
 
well if i got busted for drinking then i would have figured that my rents would pull something liek searching your room and i would have gotten all that shit out of your room as soon as possible
 
and why did you have vicodin?

too fucking bad that you got in shit! i really don't feel bad you at all! what's with the cough syrup? are you some kind of fucking moron trying to be cool?

you deserve all the shit you get so fuck off and go cry to someone that gives a rats ass!!

that's all for now!

 
well my brother had vicodin for gettinig his wisdom teeth taken out.

the cough syrup, has something called DXM in it. do some research, its very safe when used properly. and nobody knew that i used any of the drugs except weed/alcohol, so to answer your question, no im not trying to be cool.

thanks for the sympathy douchebag, since you have no clue what your talking about.

ps, if you read the post im telling people to NOT DO THIS TO THEIR PARENTS- they care about you, and trust me they dont want to find all this crap.

not once did i ask for you to give a shit about what happend to me, so why dont you fuck off?
 
mmm, me n my bro got busted by the rents, and my rents, god damn. i swear they were hitler youth, my house is known as Auswhictz (sp) to some, its not fun. never get caught, it sucks
 
that kinda shit has all happned to me before. I never really quit just didnt really have my life revolve around it. Ever since i got caught once i have never kept a pipe or anything in my room. You just gotta be smart and be responcible so ur parents can trust you.
 
i guess its kinda crazy that i had a white lighter when i got cought too. i guess its true that they are bad luck
 
i always try to get black. they are the best and are stealth, but i dont beleive that white lighters are bad luck. Maybe though, who knows
 
good for you man!(the quitting part) as far as your rents go, i would just be extremely nice to them from now on. show them that you are being loyal and they will respond.(my rents busted me for drinking about a month ago. things are back to normal now.)

good luck bro.
 
i completely can relate to you. about a month and a half ago i got caught in my dads car (hella nice) at 2:30 in the morning going 40 in a 25 and i had snuk out. i also had kids in my car on a previsional liscence. so the cop gave me a ticket and told me to get home. my parents were mad and took away my liscence until christmas. however, things blew over pretty fast. then a week and a half later i left school (we have a closed campus) at lunch and took my car. my mom, who works next to my school, noticed my car had moved and knew what was up. on top of this i got caught leaving school last year and nothing happened to me but i promised that it would never happen again. because of this my parents really started to lose some trust in me. on top of this my dad found visene, a lightwer, and a swisher in my backpack three days earlier but didn't tell my mom (i have no clue why). so my parents started to feel like they couldnt trust me. however, beign the dumbass i was i decided to take shrooms the next day with some friends. my mom ran into me at the grocery store and knew i was high because i couldnt form logical sentances. i told her i was just stoned but i was still fucked. then one of the kids i was with started freaking out and called his dad and told him everything. like that we were on shrooms and his whole drug history (acid, dxm, and shitloads of weed). so then my parents find out i am shrooming. after this it truely felt like everything that i had built up my whole life was suddenly meaningless. i felt completely alone in the world. like i wasnt suicidal or anything, but my thoughts were similar to what people say suicidal thoughts were like. i ended up calling some friends and just sitting there sobbing to them (i was still on shrooms so my thought process was whack). then it turns out im alergic to shrooms (this was my first time doing anything more than weed). so i had hives and alergies to deal with for the next couple weeks. i treally was hard to look at my parents for the next few days and there were a ton of emotions. it was by far the worst thing that has ever happened to me. i was super quite and grumpy for a while and im still not the same person. my parents were talking about sending me to a drug program and stuff. it was terrible. so then thigs start to blow over and i flipped my car with 7 other kids in it. i had to use my car to drive to soccer practice. luckily i wasnt high or anything and i wasbnt driving too recklessly. but talk about hitting an all time low. i almost had to change schools and everything.

my advice to you is to find someone to talk to about shit. there are probably a ton of emotions going on in ur family and you might not want to talk to your parents. eventually you will have to sit down and have an adult conversation about what happened and what is next. but issues like this are too big for a consequence. you basically have to start over. and dont try to pretend that nothing happened, just let the pain pass. you probably need a brake from stuff including some things that you might not want to say goodbye to, which includes some friends and activities. but if you just stay in the present the shit is gonna pass. i am actually closer to some people after all this. if you have any questions about what worked for me and what didnt you can ask, cuz when all this happened to me i had not clue what to do next and if i had somewhere to get advice i would have appreciated it. but yeah just take a lesson and let everything blow over. finally like a month later i am startign to be able to be myslef again
 
vicodin i mainly used when i smoked weed because it made it much better. i only used/had about 15 pills in all to experiment with
 
^^ dude thanks so much for taking the time to write that out. its nice to feel that im not alone because it sure as hell feels like it. im definatly starting over like you said. i actually printed out what i said in the first post (edited for spelling, and i said that i wasnt using any drugs now- because i havent been for a while anyways) to give to my parents attached with a letter i wrote basically saying that i know i fucked up, and that im accepting any punishments they give me. it also says that i never really knew how much i meant to them untill my mom started crying over this and everything. we'll see how it goes once they read it in the morning (its on their bed now)
 
that sucks so much balls. seriously. i hate when everything seems like its a t rock bottom and then you go even lower.

 
why did u leave all that in yo room? i woulda cleaned it all out a long time aga

im still on ur side man
 
i would be careful about sucking up to them. this is gonna stick between you and your parents for the rest of your lives. if you say you will never drink again, than you better never drink again or at least in front of them. remind them that you are not an addict and that you simply violated their trust. i know this sounds unbelevable, but defennd urself. not aggressivly, but say that you have not lost your right to certain things such as friends and stuff. you dont want to dig yourself into a hole to get urself out of trouble faster. i mean, its gonna suck if you can never go to another party again. i can assure you that eventually things will feel normal again and you are gonna have to chose whether to smoke again some day and whether or not to drink even thought you are underage. and by that time the decisisoions won tbe as easy as they seem now
 
the objective is to convince your parents that you are the person that they think you are, not to put urself in a situation that is gonna put you in the middle of massive lies in the future. mean, if you think this is bad, imagine if somehing else happens
 
shut the fuck up, what're you, 16? you're a moron, so you got caught. stupid people pay for doing stupid things, like chugging cough syrup then driving around town.

you deserve to be thrown in juvie till you grow 1) a brain and 2) some balls.
 
You bro I got in huge trouble last year with drinking (busted party by the cops at my house) Time is the only thing that will set things straight. Just wait it out stay straightedge and your life will be better in about 3 months. When I'm going through some really tough times I just like to beleive that the universe tends to unfold as it should, and everything happens for a reason. That way I can understand the reasoning of why shit like that happens. Good luck
 
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