Wow death

GnarBurger

GnarBurger

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yesterday a really close friend of mine died in an accident and another is in critical condition in a coma. i never really though much of someone dying cuz ive never really experienced it. the concept of death is baffling. one minute they are there and another they are gon forever. its almost not fair. i just dont really know how to act or what to do. and for all you out there who have a had a close friend whos died u know how i feel.

this thread really doesnt have a purpose but i really need to let stuff out right now.

thanks guys
 
i know how you feel man, ive gone through the same thing and its really rough thing to go through. talking to friends and family def helps. remebering all the good times seems like it would do you harm, but honestly, when it hapened to me, i thought about all the good times i had with those people aand it really helped me get through that time. best wishes to you and the familys man. hang in there
 
My friend died from Leukemia a few years ago. One day she was cookin' BBQ with me and her sister, and the next day she was gone. It's such a weird feeling when someone dies. I didn't know how to feel. I don't think I have ever cried at a funeral. But now my mom is going through chemo back in Florida and I am in Boulder. I don't know what I would do without her.
 
I know how you feel, one of my friends comitted suicide last december when I was at the hill skiing. I just didnt know what to think. Just let it pass, it gets easier after that.
 
I lost one of my really good friends in high school, and almost another (he was in a coma for several weeks, but pulled through), so I know what you are going through. Surround yourself with good friends and family, don't be embarassed to talk about it, cry, whatever. LIke someone else said, remember the good times, and just know that, even though it isn't going to stop hurting, you get through it, and life does go on =)
 
I am really sorry to hear that, may he rest in peace. I know how you feel man. Back in high school one of my best friends died. Made me feel so helpless. There's nothing you can do except honor their life and respect the person they grew to be. If anything, a death of someone close creates a greater appreciation of life itself. We are all only human and we are all in it together heading towards death someday. This may sound corny but we really need to live life to fullest, day by day, shedding love and happiness upon the world we live in. The way this is achieved is different among us all, and honestly it can sometimes seem these two are only possible by giving and getting, but eventually we realize it is truly all about simply living. Any given day could be my last or your last, so even a shitty day living is a good day, as life itself is the greatest gift. That being said, even though I will probably not meet most of you, I hope you all throughly enjoy the quest of life that we all share.

 
RIP and ++ vibes. There are so many threads like this, I'm not saying that's a bad thing at all (other than the circumstances they're unfortunately about) but they've really made me think about enjoying my life right now how it is and the people around me because things happen and no one is forever. maybe we don't see that in our everyday life, or maybe it's just another story in the newspaper to us but being here on ns makes you connect with someone who had it happen, not just an account on the news of what happened. it makes me think, and it makes me sad, and it makes me want to be with those I care about. I don't know if that sounded lame, but it's just been what I've been thinking as these types of threads pop up. hold strong man, I can only imagine what it's like for you right now.
 
I just read what you and parkboy wrote, and I agree. it really opens your eyes to the world, and I don't know how my friends would react if I told them how stoked I was just to know them and hang out with them living life and skiing but it's true. life is beautiful and ns is great and we should enjoy the time we have here. I've lost a grandpa and an uncle and I still forget they're not around sometimes. I still think oh.. I'm going to see him next week.. but wait, I'm not. it's a sad thing, and you'll never truly get over it, and the idea isn't to push them out of your mind, it's to always remember what they meant to you. I could start crying right here thinking about how they would see me today or skiing with my grandpa.. I'd do anything for one more day of that. to the thread creator, I feel your loss and to everyone else, enjoy life it's only so long.
 
that sickens me, last year being emo was the fad and all the "cool" kids did it and now its over they're not like that anymore i know a girl that tried so hard that she fuckin had to be on 24 hours suicide watch. GAY i mean i like screamo and all but kids actually doing that is so selfish.
 
thats the feeling that got to me last week when someone i knew was killed in a car accident-simply, where did they go? I was a bit rattled by the death, but even more bothered by the fact that she was there in that car with my friends when it started flipping, but then she was gone. A whole life ended too soon, 15 years of knowledge and life, gone in a flash.

I think all we can do is honor them, and try to celebrate their lives any way we can.
 
rip man im sorry to here this shit :(

thats why i live today for today plan for the future but just live everyday as its own.
 
the other day i was at the medical examiners office for a sports med field trip.

for peeps who dont know its the place where the bodies go in homocides and stuff to get investigated exactly like csi. anyways when we were there, there was this lady, a man, and a mom (it looked like anyway) and they were there to identify a dead body. they were all crying and the lady couldnt stop shaking. and that is when everybody in my class realized this place is for real. the scientist guys who do that stuff have got to be so strong willed to be around all those negative vibes all day.

hope your friend gets better
 
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