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hook up with and/or date a freshman if you were a senior? (this is high school) theres this girl at my school that i really like. shes really funny and has an awesome personality and is really cute and like everything i look for in a girl, but shes like 3 years younger than me. like i really want to hook up with her, but i feel really bad about doing it, given our age difference
 
if you hooked up with her and i knew you, i would make fun of you for a long time. think of it this way, in less than a year you will not be allowed to touch her by law. that should give you some kind of warning
 
if you were both older, 3 years difference would be nothing.

however, given the age of her, there still a lot of maturing and changing that would go on, so it would suck
 
at this age, in high school, no. you usually see married adults with an age difference like that. but in high school, you two are probably at different levels of puberty, i've always thought it's weird, even though i dated a junior when i was a freshman. anywho, i'd say no.
 
that's super wrong in my books, 2 years MAX, 3 years is just getting weird , but it's your call
 
i know where youre coming from - like i remember seeing seniors dating freshman for the past few years, and i was like thats really weird, but i never really expected to be that guy. but as for the girl - yes shes young, but shes like really mature. so its only the age difference that stops me, not like a maturity issue
 
i can argue both sides.

when you were 3, she was being born. 3 years is a long time if you think abotu it.

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over the years, the maturity gap grows closer, and if shes cool with it, id go for it. i guess. i dont see why not, if you like her and all
 
dude its all about life stages....when ur a senior ur basically in the same "life stage" as other seniors, you have completely different priorities than you would as a freshman....or in college, you date other college students, then out of college, you date people out of college still not in a career...ect...so no, its not okay, but maybe...if shes wicked hot and u dont get caught
 
Leave Freshman girls for freshman. You are 3 years older, thats a lot in high school. Its like you are almost 20 percent older than her.
 
Ahhhh, that's a tough question. Most people would pass because everyone else is like OMG he's such a loser. Is she the hottest girl in grade 9? cuz then you might get respect for it. And in the grand scheme of things, 3 years is nothing.
 
uh, not seriously. if you just want to fool around abit, more power to you..but actually getting involved at an emotional, spiritual level is kinda asking for trouble if you ask me...granted, I guess that's true with every relationship ever in my case...
 
i dont touch the freshman personally too weird for me, only a year older then my sister so it would be like i was hooking up with her friends so that creeps the shit out of me, so i say no cause she really cant be that hot shes 14 tops, i say no, and yes if i was your bro id make fun of you for a long ass time, and i assume your bros are the same way, bottom line in my opinion no
 
no big deal that is nothing. i hang out at the preschool at lunch and try to hook up with some hotties. if there is no grass on the field flip it over and play in the mud.
 
Haha, have fun dating your freshman. It will seem sweet at first, as in extremely easy, but don't be fooled. The first time you hook up with this girl, you will take the place of her mom and hear every fucking problem in her life. You will get at a minimum, 4 calls a night, with a different emotion in each one, but basically the same, useless information. The minute you hang out with your friends instead of her you will be accosted by her friends about how you are treating her like shit and not being good to her. She will think that you guys are in a serious relashonship after a week, and be expecting a proposal after 2. I say don't date freshman, they are just to fucking annoying and immature. Plus you will take some hard shit from everyone you know, not to mention any girls your age will lose respect for you.
 
if you're a 17 year old senior, then yes. after your 18th birthday though, look out.

and only if she's like one of the top five hottest freshmen chicks.
 
if theirs grass on the field play ball, if not roll over and play in the mud.

i have a few opinions on this. One is i hate when older kids go out with younger girls like that. I mean comeon there must be a hot or decent girl in ur own grade.

But also i guess if u like her and she likes you thatd be fine.. just make sure her dad isnt like a 6'5 semi pro football player.
 
its weird. shes not like the hottest girl in school. she doesnt even stand out as being hot really. shes like one of those girls who you didnt even notice is hot until you look closer
 
Yeah that is actually fucked up in high school in my opinion. It is not as bad once you get to college and you are 21/18
 
i choked on air when i read that...dunno if any of you guys have ever done that its rather unpleasant.

so anyway...yea ive got to say it depends on you and her and personally id say just fool around w her and leave it at that cause ur not gonna be there next year and she might get hurt or something those crazy freshmen, every year getting sluttier and sluttier...anyone else notice that?
 
here the legal sex age is 14, kinda young dont you think. i would go for it...fuck her brains out till she calls you daddy
 
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