Wrong. Its in everything, everywhere. Go watch a movie, read a popular book, its there. The people that are outright with it are just the people we like to blame and are the people who a realistic about it. Watch TV, most things there are heavily sexist/misogynist. Its all about power structures. White, male on top. Anything else is below, and when this anything else is a female - there's your sexism. You and I were bought up to believe thats the way it is, these situations are totally invisible and blaming those "pockets of sexism" you spoke of is just convenient isn't it. Its there, everywhere, just look. Thats the way I see it anyway.