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you, nor i know his family. It could be his moms wish for him to out to windells. You or i dont know, so i dont think you can say anything either way. All i said was give him some slack, cause his mom has cancer.
If you have beef with the karma system pick it up with the mods/admin instead of the people who are, per request of the mods, using it
Im sorry that your mom had cancer. Cancer is a really scary thing. How is she doing?