Why men and women can't be "just friends"

Haha so true! I mean, we don't usually approach ugly girls and think, "wow, I bet she's a great person".

Anybody else catch the girl wearing the Tanner Hall backpack at :54? and in the picture before you click the video? Pretty cool.
 
so any of you pink names never even THINK about hooking up with you guy friends. you dont even flirt alittle?
 
i think most girls who hang with the same guys just start to see them as brotherly figures after awhile. at least that's how it is for me.

and if i had any guy friend that i wanted to hook up with...well, he'd ideally become my boyfriend. my morals are too high to fuck and forget. (not hating on anyone that does, more power to ya)
 
if he doesnt get a PhD for these findings, there is something wrong with America's education system
 
it's not necessarily as cheap as "fuck and forget", you can just hook up but not do the whole dating thing because neither are really in for that at the moment.
 
didn't mean it too sound that negative! my bad. nothing personal, i hear my guy friends talk about it all the time and don't see anything wrong with it. just not something i'd be into
 
It's cool, I just think it's important to appreciate the fact that just because you don't want to do anything more than hook up with a girl doesn't mean you have to treat them like shit.
 
I'm not worried about the fact they've thought about us having sex. I don't even mind if they initially started talking to me because they thought I was attractive. But if I found out one of my guy friends was only maintaining our friendship under the hope he'd get his dick wet at some point I'd be seriously hurt. Partly because that's super devaluing and partly because it means he has been dishonest with me all along.

Hell one of my closest guy friends even told me about a sex dream I was in (which was weird, and not something I recommend doing, but more amusing than anything else).
 
Not for the guys. They think about it all of the time, Especially that one that you have been friends with so long that you have never thought of him in any sexual context because that would be like thinking about fucking your brother..... .Yeah, that one, he has thought about plowing you a hundred times.

Funny thing is that you will probably think I am joking. I have 2 girls that I have known since kindergarten and I am best of friends with both of them. One of them I want to make a move on so badly but neither her nor her boyfriend deserve that (he is an army guy, training out of the state). The other one I confessed my crush to this summer and we hooked up near the very end of summer and I have maybe seen her twice since, we'll see what winter break is like.

Anyways, unless he is a confirmed homosexual, your "platonic" male bff wants to do vulgar things to and with you. Don't believe me? Try dancing with him and see if he dances any differently than a guy trying to get with you, or better yet tell him "I know what you are thinking about" next time he spaces out when it is just the two of you together. If he wasn't thinking about sex before, he will be after you say that
 
its not like that. There are plenty of times where guys start a friendly relationship with every good intention, but then they start to realize how much more easy going and laid back their friend is than random girls, and then we start to notice that the girl we were not-sexually-attracted-to is actually pretty sexually attractive, and then we realize that we are already friend-zoned and feel unable to make a move for the very reason you just said.
 
of course they did that. but then the vid wouldnt working. although i am pretty sure that not much people said otherwise

imo, women are just a tad naive when it comes to that. although i was surprised that they said that they think their friend likes them.

and most women i know are so overly social and would like to know the whole world and have a billion facebook friends and all that crap, while yeah, the other perspective is a little different.
 
Everyone in it is attractive... people who have low self confidence generally aren't friends with the opposite sex from my experience, if they have low self confidence and have friends of the opposite sex they're possibly not the best looking to start with? so yeah guys won't wanna bang ugly girl-friends.

Majority of girls who have guy friends are attractive and yeah... guys wanna bang attractive girls.

I know there will be arguements against my theory, but it's based on my personal experience so don't hate ;]
 
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