Why girls seem to lead guys on, every single time

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sodaksteeze

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Through my years as a young male in America, I've noticed that young women love to lure guys into their trap. Right before the deal is sealed, the young woman pulls out of the situation... for reference I am 6'4", a slim build and not bad looking
 
Flirting isn't defined and people may think of flirting differently. Maybe they're just being friendly.
 
yeah usually chicks like to lure me in when I'm driving around back allies. hard to find love in this day and age
 
dude if you cant close and you're 6'4" there is something wrong with your game. Im 6'4" and let me tell you, there is always a girl in every bar who wants to know if your whole body is "proportionate" if you know what I mean.

by proportionate I mean they want to know if your dick is as long as the rest of you.
 
Most girls are not down for a one night stand unless you have some serious game. So you need to look for them easy girls unless you want to take them on a few dates
 
Few reasons.

Girls like attetion but don't want anything from a guy

(mentioned above) girls don't want one night stands

her friend is on the tune with one of your friends and she's stuck with talking to the ugly friend (you)

(mentioned above) you have different ideas of what flirting is

you can flirt but can't close the deal

you live with your parents and no one wants to fuck with a bitch who still lives with their parents

you ugly as fuck
 
To be a little more polite but some others have pretty much nailed it:

Many girls are just teases, they simply like the attention and want nothing more. They may also think they are doing you a favor by "pumping your tires a bit"

Some women, not many, are actually concerned about their own sexual game and want to be interested but are afraid of their lack of prowess.

Many guys make the mistake of smothering women. If you think there is a slight chance you are doing this than you are definitely doing it. Try and take the approach of being friendly but act like you have better things to do. If there is one thing attractive women want it's a guy that can ignore them.
 
Don't base your percieved success of the night/date around getting laid. Have fun with your friends, meet new people and enjoy the good ones, laugh at the bad ones. That's it. If they want to hangout further, well, that's a bonus.
 
Yeah. I recently got some inside info on a girl I dated for a year+. You'd be surprised at the disturbingly disgusting things people can do. It's not about what you know, it's about what you don't know......
 
13760322:milk_man said:
Yeah. I recently got some inside info on a girl I dated for a year+. You'd be surprised at the disturbingly disgusting things people can do. It's not about what you know, it's about what you don't know......
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Idk man. Squeaky clean people are typically pretty damn boring.
 
13760361:californiagrown said:
Idk man. Squeaky clean people are typically pretty damn boring.
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Cheating on people and going through life bashing into people and hurting them is more than just not boring :(
 
maybe all we want is to have fun and just be friends

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13759332:Tinga said:
Flirting isn't defined and people may think of flirting differently. Maybe they're just being friendly.
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Probably this.

I've had girls get butthurt because I didn't want them after I was "hitting on them" aka just being friendly.
 
13760725:theabortionator said:
Probably this.

I've had girls get butthurt because I didn't want them after I was "hitting on them" aka just being friendly.
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totally this, if you're incredibly good at reading body language i guess it's not hard to tell when someones flirting with you.

that being said, thinking every girl is leading you on is just being really super ignorant about the fact not all girls wanna get with you lol
 
13761202:Rennis_Deynolds said:
post malone is the ugliest fuck on the planet and he gets so much pussy
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It's called being interesting, funny and living an exciting life. In a word, charm.

A whole lotta idiots have confidence. That won't get you very far unless you're just tryna cleanup the bar at 130.
 
13761204:californiagrown said:
It's called being interesting, funny and living an exciting life. In a word, charm.

A whole lotta idiots have confidence. That won't get you very far unless you're just tryna cleanup the bar at 130.
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charm, confidence whatever, my point was that you don't have to be good looking to get girls
 
13761249:Rennis_Deynolds said:
charm, confidence whatever, my point was that you don't have to be good looking to get girls
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nah if you aint good looking you gotta be rich or famous but preferably a combination of the two. Like Post Malone.
 
Idk why you thought your height was relevant but since im also 6'4 im gonna mention it lol. This is especially true with highschool girls (im 17). lot of curving but honestly doesnt bother me bc i dont go out of my way to chase girls. Usually a girl will hit me up like every couple weeks so i just rol with that. I think relationsips are kinda dumb in highschool
 
This is a weird thread as whole. It isn't hard to go on Tinder or Bumble, or maybe in your case Grindr and find that lucky someone.

Just do what I do, Right swipe everything that has 2 eyes, all their limbs (sometimes, if that's your thing), and a heart beat and pick from the matches.

Also girls that don't bang on the first date (if you are trying to date) doesn't mean its a trap, it just means they want to get to know you before they suck your soul out of your piece. In my experience its worth the wait.

Stop being a jabroni.
 
lowkey im ugly af but i know how to be super nice to girls and stroke their ego like a fucking wizard, so I get all the mediocre meh chicks, and its aight
 
13761284:Mingg said:
Hahaha sorrryyyy. Idk. If I think you're not into me as much as I'm into you I'll cut things off before I get fucked over. This is probably why I haven't been in a relationship for so long, prior to my current one. Which I am about to end for this exact reason lolol
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Baby same here....
 
13761284:Mingg said:
Hahaha sorrryyyy. Idk. If I think you're not into me as much as I'm into you I'll cut things off before I get fucked over. This is probably why I haven't been in a relationship for so long, prior to my current one. Which I am about to end for this exact reason lolol
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I think a lot of dudes are just afraid to show how interested they are in you. We are fragile beings.
 
13761284:Mingg said:
Hahaha sorrryyyy. Idk. If I think you're not into me as much as I'm into you I'll cut things off before I get fucked over. This is probably why I haven't been in a relationship for so long, prior to my current one. Which I am about to end for this exact reason lolol
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13761526:jaimegilfish said:
Baby same here....
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Yikes. That kind of low self esteem wafes off of you and attracts the kinda guys looking for a chick they can treat like shit.
 
13761662:californiagrown said:
Yikes. That kind of low self esteem wafes off of you and attracts the kinda guys looking for a chick they can treat like shit.
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welp that's okay. I like girls better anyway
 
13761662:californiagrown said:
Yikes. That kind of low self esteem wafes off of you and attracts the kinda guys looking for a chick they can treat like shit.
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I love your bluntness lol
 
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