Who Pays Guys or Girls

mybuddyboy

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Alright this is a question that has be un answered for years even longer. on a date who pays and if so when is it ok for the girl to fork out some coin??

LETS HEAR IT

 
hum, well i usually willl be 'broke' one night, jsut to make sure she's paying for something. or if i fork over cash for the hotel room, she forks over cash for the dinner. pretty much the guys spends more money in my relationships....but the girl contributes about half as much if not more. fuck girls who don't pay for shit, don't you feel guilty?

[ Slug ]

You look like you were built for me; You talk like you want to steal my drink

You kiss like you already came; And that's a lift to pull a line for those with out any game

It's like damn baby; You know you can't save me

But you should still tell your people that your leaving with the band; Maybe you can show me your hustle

Neither one of us would be so lonely; If only you would come over here and hold me

I caught you trying to hide your smile behind your glass; But all of your secrets become a swing set when you laugh

And all of your regrets that you're carrying a burying; Don't mean a damn thing if there's nobody to share them with

We've been following each other all night now; We ought to be all over each other like right now

I don't like crowds lets take flight now; Cause that face that you make

Reminds me of my life now.

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If she's your girlfriend she best be hittin at least half, but if you just met her, buy that shit, it impresses them anyway. Tell her you're rich so you don't mind while doing it to score extra points.

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what are you guys talkin about. the girl isn't supposed to pay nor should she feel guilty about it. i always pay unless the girl really wants to take of it for a certain reason, and she like tells me not to, to my face, which has only happened once.

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then you msut get used all the time buddy......i work for my cash, i'm not about having some bitch empty my bank account without me emptying part of hers....

it seems wrong that you spend all this money on this girl and they don't do shit but consume......it's an equal world buddy. sure the first couple of dates you cover it to be polite, but if you actually have to ask ehr to pay....you got yourself a gold digger. most girls will offer to pay after you bought the first one. my girl paid for me all weekend long, cuz i've been spending plenty of cash on her. she's returning what i've already spent on her.....it's jsut right to split things up.....women work too man.

[ Slug ]

You look like you were built for me; You talk like you want to steal my drink

You kiss like you already came; And that's a lift to pull a line for those with out any game

It's like damn baby; You know you can't save me

But you should still tell your people that your leaving with the band; Maybe you can show me your hustle

Neither one of us would be so lonely; If only you would come over here and hold me

I caught you trying to hide your smile behind your glass; But all of your secrets become a swing set when you laugh

And all of your regrets that you're carrying a burying; Don't mean a damn thing if there's nobody to share them with

We've been following each other all night now; We ought to be all over each other like right now

I don't like crowds lets take flight now; Cause that face that you make

Reminds me of my life now.

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totally feelin the whole 50 50 shit boys, ladies take too much coin and some dont even toss out a thank you, OK SOME DO YES ILL GIVE YOU THAT LADIES but i know a lot of them who wont give you the time of day after you shell out a night of movies dinner and ur gas.

you need a lady whos is willing to take the check from things some times. maybe not if your out for dinner eary on but PAY FOR A MOVIE YA RENT when its a chick flick

 
heres my rule of thumb

first date..u GOTTA pay for everything..its just like the thing to do

give it a few more dates..pay for stuff, ect

if it gets serious, just slide in 'im a little short tonite' if she asks to go to dinner

if she offers to pick up the check, cool...if she doesnt wanna pitch in, shes too damn needy and find yourself a girl with some cash that will actually spend it

but yeah, first date, bring your wallet

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yea those are cheap dates though, i was thinking more along the lines when you goto an expensive resturant, or take her somewhere for the weekend.....i'm not about spending $400 to have a good time and get laid, i'll pay $200, if she pays $200 though.

which is why i date older women...you don't have to act liek you're something you're not. i tell them i work shitty jobs, i pay for what i feel a gentlemen should pay for and they pay the ladies fee.

[ Slug ]

You look like you were built for me; You talk like you want to steal my drink

You kiss like you already came; And that's a lift to pull a line for those with out any game

It's like damn baby; You know you can't save me

But you should still tell your people that your leaving with the band; Maybe you can show me your hustle

Neither one of us would be so lonely; If only you would come over here and hold me

I caught you trying to hide your smile behind your glass; But all of your secrets become a swing set when you laugh

And all of your regrets that you're carrying a burying; Don't mean a damn thing if there's nobody to share them with

We've been following each other all night now; We ought to be all over each other like right now

I don't like crowds lets take flight now; Cause that face that you make

Reminds me of my life now.

reppin' 720.30.3970 playa
 
oh yea and usually what i do with my girl is i apy the bill, she pays tip. or she pays the bill and tells me how much to tip.

[ Slug ]

You look like you were built for me; You talk like you want to steal my drink

You kiss like you already came; And that's a lift to pull a line for those with out any game

It's like damn baby; You know you can't save me

But you should still tell your people that your leaving with the band; Maybe you can show me your hustle

Neither one of us would be so lonely; If only you would come over here and hold me

I caught you trying to hide your smile behind your glass; But all of your secrets become a swing set when you laugh

And all of your regrets that you're carrying a burying; Don't mean a damn thing if there's nobody to share them with

We've been following each other all night now; We ought to be all over each other like right now

I don't like crowds lets take flight now; Cause that face that you make

Reminds me of my life now.

reppin' 720.30.3970 playa
 
if ya take her away for the weekend and you inviter her THEN PAY is she asks you to go away and expects you to pay you have a big problem on ur hands.

first couple dats guys pay, after that startin sharing the wealth.

 
Bitches should pay?

dude im thinkin callin a girl a bitch ur one rich guy since ud never get a date alone have to pay for one

 
It depends on what you are paying for. I always pay for dinner and shit, but my girlfrined usually pays if we go see a show or someting . I just play it by ear, I always bring enough money, but if she offers to pay I'll let her.

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yah pay for the first couple and then work something out, its nice when it works out to 60 40, but i think it shoudl be 50/50, the women want equality after all

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if your taking a girl for a weekend with a room and dinner, u definately gotta pay for it!

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it all depends on the type of girl. if the girl doesnt mind paying for some stuff, let her buy sometimes, but the guy should buy more time. but if she never watns to pay tell that bitch to fork up something (i.e. sex)

its called honor. and u stay on her until u get off on her
 
Women want equality but I can't even count how many times I've heard a girl say. I can't build a fire I'm only a girl. Can you set up my tent I don't get it? Don't hit me back I'm a girl. Fuck man if girls want equality they better start holding themselves equal

God is an American.
 
I have paid more times then that guy has paid. I believe in equality, so I cant really bitch about it. I want the guy to offer to pay, but to let me pay.

 
I always offer, but the guy never lets me. with dan, i was so insistant sometimes though. i would give the waiter my credit card before the meal just so he couldnt pay. i hold my own.

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i always pay until well into the relationship. whether its the right thing to do or not, it generally makes things go smoother.

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as a girl, i would like to say that girls don't pay enough. i mean first date has got to be paid for by the guy but after that 50-50

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*Kirsten*
 
thank you, that's all i wanted to hear.

you're both in the relationship, why should the guy be paying for everything, you work too. and what if you make more money than him? and if you want to spend time with him you better pay, otherwise he's going to have to start working overtime jsut to take you out. and that means he's not going to be in a good mood and then the sex isn't that great and then the relationship fails....it all comes down to the girl not doing enough.

[ Slug ]

You look like you were built for me; You talk like you want to steal my drink

You kiss like you already came; And that's a lift to pull a line for those with out any game

It's like damn baby; You know you can't save me

But you should still tell your people that your leaving with the band; Maybe you can show me your hustle

Neither one of us would be so lonely; If only you would come over here and hold me

I caught you trying to hide your smile behind your glass; But all of your secrets become a swing set when you laugh

And all of your regrets that you're carrying a burying; Don't mean a damn thing if there's nobody to share them with

We've been following each other all night now; We ought to be all over each other like right now

I don't like crowds lets take flight now; Cause that face that you make

Reminds me of my life now.

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Irishdrink, will you marry me? Just kidding mostly but that's dope, it's not that I mind paying in the least and I always go out of my way to do so but it's nice to see a girl who wants to pay her own way.

'Rufus, Brent, and Micus were like brothers to me, and when I say brothers I don't mean like an actual brother, but I mean it like black people mean it, which is more meaningful I think'
 
Until the term 'Gentleman' has been definitifely killed, there will never equality between man and woman. They are two expressions in conflict.

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My knee is like my skiing... Really bad.
 
I agree that girls should definitly put their share in. In the relationships I have been in, I have felt extremely guilty when he wouldn't let me pay for any of it. If he paid for dinner, I would pay for the movie... and next time we went out I would make him switch it up. Guys, if a girl offers let her buy because I think the worst is when I wanted to pay for something and he wouldn't let me.. it made me feel useless.

 
girls, insist to pay,if you say, 'let me pay', the guy will just actt he gentleman and say 'no no, it's alright, I got it', you have to insist, otherwsie you're justbeing a paying pansy.

 
weekend away with dinner? what is that? i have yet to get that.

i pay and he pays. lets face it we're all young and poor. gotta share the costs. like he'll pay for the movies and i'll pay for all the snacks he eats. or i'll pay for dinner sometimes. we both pay too much because we go out too much

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I always pay. doesnt really matter its just money but it shows your not some fucken idiot that insists on a 50% split.

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I always prefer to pay (just how i was raised) but if a girl insists to pay I will let her or if i am short on cash she can pay. My girl now is awesome about that. Hell she bought me a carton of smokes in a cheaper state and didnt even want me to give her anything for them. When we go out especially to the casino which she loves to do once one of us loses whatever we came with (9 times out of 10 its me) we will both play on the same machine or give the other another 20.

i have had girls in the past who refused to pay but insisted we go out when they know i have 20 to my name, not worth my time or effort

 
It depends on the girl, and on the date.

and life should not be about equality, it should be about fairnes. there are very few equal things in life. treat her fairly, and hopefully she will treat you the same.

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I always pay half, only time I haven't was when my ex took me out for my birthday, but then I payed for everything on his birthday. It just doesn't make sense that the guy should feel obligated to pay for everything, even on a first date I offer to pay my half.

'hey look guys! For a dollar you can get a free condom!'

- a friend when she saw the condom dispenser in the bathroom

'We could give him milk after filling his epipen with heroin and turn him into a drug addict'

- a guy thinking of ways to get revenge on someone who is deathly allergic to milk
 
my friend ryan, pays for EVERYTHING for me, hes getting me free airfare to europe next summer and paying for all of my hotel rooms. yea i love him to death.

i was on this double date with my sister in whistler, and we goto see a movie together. 'the notebook' yea date movie you would think... so we get to the movie theatre and were all standing around, like no one would pay it was soo akward, so i just went forward and paid for my sister and i, and the guys paid for themselves, sooooo awkard. and the night before the guy bought me ice cream, so it was weird. and i am pretty sure both of these guys were well off...

GUYS PAY FOR GIRLS ITS REALLY CUTE AND THE THING TO DO!!!

And it makes me see, every puff that I breathe, potent herbs and leaves could ease the world . . .

So, We roll and smoke and choke and- pass and toke and hand it back to ya.
 
i pay for alot of stuff too, i pay for dinner alot cause its just easier, i feel bad when the guy doesn't have enough on the date and asks me to pay or pitch in. then i feel bad or i feel bad when a guy pays all the timem like my friend ryan bought all my food this summer just cause i NEVER had money and he paid for the herb, i just had to get it to them (find a dealer and collect the goods, ect.)

And it makes me see, every puff that I breathe, potent herbs and leaves could ease the world . . .

So, We roll and smoke and choke and- pass and toke and hand it back to ya.
 
Now that I look at my one sided relationship, I think its good for guys to take girls on dates and pay. I pay for everything, and its getting old really really fast.

 
i paid for most of the stuff including gas for her car. she drained me.

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yea skibrdingbitch is a prime example of why it sucks to be a guy......'it felt awkward when he didn't pay' well they were expecting you to pay for everytihng and you acted like a bitch and paid for you and your sister......leanr how to read guys you stupid bitch. that is why i insist on a 60/40 thing. cuz stupid bitches like that will take advantage of your wallet. 'he bought all the food and the herb', because he was being nice and you better gave your friend ryan some sex or something....cuz that's fucked up. he's not going to be like 'HEY MOOCHE GET OFF MY WALLET!' instead he'll jsut make opportunities for you to have him buy things impossible. uh gold diggers suck, that is why i'm going to do it to older women in mountain towns. just to get back at all you little sluts out there.

[ Slug ]

You look like you were built for me; You talk like you want to steal my drink

You kiss like you already came; And that's a lift to pull a line for those with out any game

It's like damn baby; You know you can't save me

But you should still tell your people that your leaving with the band; Maybe you can show me your hustle

Neither one of us would be so lonely; If only you would come over here and hold me

I caught you trying to hide your smile behind your glass; But all of your secrets become a swing set when you laugh

And all of your regrets that you're carrying a burying; Don't mean a damn thing if there's nobody to share them with

We've been following each other all night now; We ought to be all over each other like right now

I don't like crowds lets take flight now; Cause that face that you make

Reminds me of my life now.

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actually i have hooked up with the kid ryan, just made out thats it, we all think hes gay

And it makes me see, every puff that I breathe, potent herbs and leaves could ease the world . . .

So, We roll and smoke and choke and- pass and toke and hand it back to ya.
 
guy pays for the first two, then if the girl is cool she'll have no prob from there on out, most are that way actually, but i pay, always

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he;s buying you all that shit and you think he's gay.....you have a distroted view on life. besides you're that girl who is like 'i love when i walk into the room and all the guys stare at me. i'm so popular, like i can't believe they looked at me, oh my gosh!' so you don't count, you're not a girl, you're a gold digger.

[ Slug ]

You look like you were built for me; You talk like you want to steal my drink

You kiss like you already came; And that's a lift to pull a line for those with out any game

It's like damn baby; You know you can't save me

But you should still tell your people that your leaving with the band; Maybe you can show me your hustle

Neither one of us would be so lonely; If only you would come over here and hold me

I caught you trying to hide your smile behind your glass; But all of your secrets become a swing set when you laugh

And all of your regrets that you're carrying a burying; Don't mean a damn thing if there's nobody to share them with

We've been following each other all night now; We ought to be all over each other like right now

I don't like crowds lets take flight now; Cause that face that you make

Reminds me of my life now.

reppin' 720.30.3970 playa
 
too bad i'm not a gold digger, alot of my guy friends actually live in the ghetto. also to be popular you have to have friends i don't have ANY CLOSE FRIENDS, i am 'friends' with just about every1 but here i am sitting at home alone on a friday night because i don't have a best friend or even real friends to hang out with. i am not a gold digger, and i don't go on many 'dates' so not many guys have to pay for me, also if i am going out with guy friends more than once have a paid for a guy or so, and sooo many times have i smoked guys up, or bought them alcohol, i'm not a gold digger i am just independent. this happens when you grow up not having any friends

And it makes me see, every puff that I breathe, potent herbs and leaves could ease the world . . .

So, We roll and smoke and choke and- pass and toke and hand it back to ya.
 
oh i should pitty you, oh wait no i shouldnt'. maybe you don't have firneds cuz you're a ruthless bitch. from every other psot you've ever psoted, besides this one, you've been miss poular and all the guys wanted you. so have you been lying to ns.com all these years, or and you jsut lying in this last post.

what does having frined sin the ghetto have anything to do with you being a gold digger? sorry girl, no sympathy from me. you're a self absorbed bitch, and you know it. that's why you have no close friends, people are tired of hearing about you.

[ Slug ]

You look like you were built for me; You talk like you want to steal my drink

You kiss like you already came; And that's a lift to pull a line for those with out any game

It's like damn baby; You know you can't save me

But you should still tell your people that your leaving with the band; Maybe you can show me your hustle

Neither one of us would be so lonely; If only you would come over here and hold me

I caught you trying to hide your smile behind your glass; But all of your secrets become a swing set when you laugh

And all of your regrets that you're carrying a burying; Don't mean a damn thing if there's nobody to share them with

We've been following each other all night now; We ought to be all over each other like right now

I don't like crowds lets take flight now; Cause that face that you make

Reminds me of my life now.

reppin' 720.30.3970 playa
 
i am far from what you said you think i was, i am actually considerd the 'regect' of my school. i like attention i'll addmit it. i am a very outgoing person but i am far from the girl every guy looks at when they walk in the room, i wish i was that hot but i'm not so i dont sweat it

And it makes me see, every puff that I breathe, potent herbs and leaves could ease the world . . .

So, We roll and smoke and choke and- pass and toke and hand it back to ya.
 
you're a reject* becausde people don't like snotty bitches. you use plenty of people in your life, at least that's what i've gained from the post you put on ns.com.

uh, i clearly remember you saying 'all the guys i hang out with want me. i love older guys....blah lbah lbah (i tihnk you started rambling on about some shit that had nothing to do with the subject)'

and i can't believe i wasted my 2900th post on talking about you.....damn it. (that's the type of shit that makes people not wanna be your frined.)

[ Slug ]

You look like you were built for me; You talk like you want to steal my drink

You kiss like you already came; And that's a lift to pull a line for those with out any game

It's like damn baby; You know you can't save me

But you should still tell your people that your leaving with the band; Maybe you can show me your hustle

Neither one of us would be so lonely; If only you would come over here and hold me

I caught you trying to hide your smile behind your glass; But all of your secrets become a swing set when you laugh

And all of your regrets that you're carrying a burying; Don't mean a damn thing if there's nobody to share them with

We've been following each other all night now; We ought to be all over each other like right now

I don't like crowds lets take flight now; Cause that face that you make

Reminds me of my life now.

reppin' 720.30.3970 playa
 
i'm not a ruthless bitch, i am not a bitch at all actually. and alot of people who on this site actually know how i have no friends so i haven't being lying to the site, its not something i like talking about because i don't want pitty from people. would you have rather liked it if i was all open about it, and then get shit for wanting attention.

And it makes me see, every puff that I breathe, potent herbs and leaves could ease the world . . .

So, We roll and smoke and choke and- pass and toke and hand it back to ya.
 
i don't think that you get attention by saiyng you have no frineds. i think it's sad and it reflects that you're not an in-depth person. freindships are things to improve your life, the expiriences you have with those peopel should only matter to you. i coudl give a rats ass if you had friends or not, that's your choice. and if you can't make friends, then it's probably you. because freinds are very easy to coem by, it's all about finding the right ones though.

and i think if you psoted something like 'i have no frineds ::cry::' you wouldn't get attention. you'd get told to grow up. or maybe the 10 year olds on this site woudl befreind you, if you sent them your little ns.com titty video.

[ Slug ]

You look like you were built for me; You talk like you want to steal my drink

You kiss like you already came; And that's a lift to pull a line for those with out any game

It's like damn baby; You know you can't save me

But you should still tell your people that your leaving with the band; Maybe you can show me your hustle

Neither one of us would be so lonely; If only you would come over here and hold me

I caught you trying to hide your smile behind your glass; But all of your secrets become a swing set when you laugh

And all of your regrets that you're carrying a burying; Don't mean a damn thing if there's nobody to share them with

We've been following each other all night now; We ought to be all over each other like right now

I don't like crowds lets take flight now; Cause that face that you make

Reminds me of my life now.

reppin' 720.30.3970 playa
 
i'm sorry, back onto subject.....

girl shoudl pay at least 40%, 10% from a guy is still generous isn't it? it's not liek you guys are married (which ends up with the guy making the cahs and the woman exploring herself and finding out what it is she should be doing for a job, going to school and shit like that)

[ Slug ]

You look like you were built for me; You talk like you want to steal my drink

You kiss like you already came; And that's a lift to pull a line for those with out any game

It's like damn baby; You know you can't save me

But you should still tell your people that your leaving with the band; Maybe you can show me your hustle

Neither one of us would be so lonely; If only you would come over here and hold me

I caught you trying to hide your smile behind your glass; But all of your secrets become a swing set when you laugh

And all of your regrets that you're carrying a burying; Don't mean a damn thing if there's nobody to share them with

We've been following each other all night now; We ought to be all over each other like right now

I don't like crowds lets take flight now; Cause that face that you make

Reminds me of my life now.

reppin' 720.30.3970 playa
 
I personally think Ive always been good about paying my share. My guy friends and I always swap off paying for dinner if 1 pays one night I pay the next and so on. At the bar Id rather buy my own drinks then have guys buy them for me, thanks for the offer tho. I dont believe in spliting the bill but if the guy pays the girl should def. pick up the bill either the next time you go out for dinner or for whatever the after dinner activity is. Its only fair.

And as for Ice-is-scary sayin about the girl who didnt know how to build a fire or put up a tent? maybe she was never taught or had the option to learn so offer to teach her and help her rather then bitch about it.

I do whatever my rice crispies tell me too.

A blue whale ejeculates 40 gallons of sperm at a time and people wonder what jelly fish are?!!?
 
it's not like guys are taught how to put up tents, we jsut figure things out. we're not like born into this world with all this knowledge handed donw form generations of men. we jsut try things out and pick up tips from others. if you never try, you'll never learn. and women give up way too easily. men have no excsue, so when they do give up, they're extremely frustrated and they've tried so many different approaches....our mentallity is that we can do anything. girls mentallity is that they're girls, some things aren't their job.

as for splitting the bill, i agree, you should never jsut like pay your share. you divid it by separate bills, not divid one bill.

[ Slug ]

You look like you were built for me; You talk like you want to steal my drink

You kiss like you already came; And that's a lift to pull a line for those with out any game

It's like damn baby; You know you can't save me

But you should still tell your people that your leaving with the band; Maybe you can show me your hustle

Neither one of us would be so lonely; If only you would come over here and hold me

I caught you trying to hide your smile behind your glass; But all of your secrets become a swing set when you laugh

And all of your regrets that you're carrying a burying; Don't mean a damn thing if there's nobody to share them with

We've been following each other all night now; We ought to be all over each other like right now

I don't like crowds lets take flight now; Cause that face that you make

Reminds me of my life now.

reppin' 720.30.3970 playa
 
I new disco has opened here in copenhagen.

50 dollars entry-fee for men

FREE for women.

When you are inside, its free to drink as much as you like, both for women and men. Personally I like to stick with a couple of pints of longs islands icetea...

This is a clear MAN pays for WOMAN concept... I don't know if I like or not, but a disco filled with 80% women isn't bad at all

*BIG smile*

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