i didn't read all the posts, but i dont think anybody got the message. If i'm correct, this is a very clever thread. his point is that you don't decide on your sexuality, it just happens, just as you don't conciously decide to not eat dog shit on a daily basis, its just your impulse to not do it. He's trying to argue agaisnt the whole "people decide to be gay, nobody's born gay" argument. good thread, if this was indeed your purpose. I agree with you too