When did you chose?

natural instinct, girls turned me on and made me curious. all guys ever were was friends and competitors!
 
hormones play a big part in it but when i was in like kindergarten first grade i just started seeing girls like ur pretty and shit and then later it was like holy shit and i just like girls.

i have never looked at a guy and been like i wanna bang him or some shit like that it just doesnt cross my mind.

are you like experimenting here?
 
i have a gay dog.

i dont think it works to compare us to other animals, as basically male creatures in the animal kingdom stick it anywhere...hahaha
 
the only experiemntation here is with ns' intelect. there were too many people in the other 'gay' thread saying how gay is a choice etc.

the point of this is (as some have already noted )is to make you aware of the fact that if you don't have an answer for why or if you "chose" to be straight, maybe you didn't chose.

if you didn't chose to be straight, why would anybody chose their sexual orrientation?

if no one choses their sexual orrientation, then gay is not a choice.
 
I'm pretty sure you just said what we're all trying to explain with "feelings aren't choices" feelings toward the opposite sex is apart of the chemical composition of ones hormones which attract them to that opposite sex, there is no choice to be made, your either born witha homosexual trait, as its almost been proven with genetic composition, or heterosexual. Either you're being a huge dick and being difficult, or your just an ignorant fool that fails to see common sense
 
Its not a choice its an instinct. Just like hunger. Your body sends out hormones the decide for you what you are attracted to. This might not get through to you but you know inside if you are gay or staight.
 
probably when i used to perpously get in trouble in kindergarten so i could look down my teachers shirt when she was yelling at me
 
Dude. ur thinkin to hard. go watch a porno. if u beat off to tha chick ur straight, the guy, ur gay. Goddamn.
 
When did I choose? I didn't really choose. I think before I knew what gay or straight was I started to become attracted to girls, it's nature. I wasn't like. "I think I will be straight." It just happens.
 
Yes, this is an awesome thread. I admit I didn't get it at first, but then my sarcasm detector started going fucking crazy.
 
i agree.

we have the intellectual ability to adapt and evolve more than any other animal. we are not given this to remain primitive in our instincts. we have been given the greatest tools known to this planet: our minds. what sets us aside from any other species is our foresight and creativity. other animals who create things out of nature do so for survival purposes...but us..we have created culture and individual identities for ourselves.

as for my response to the original question of the thread:

im pretty positive i was bisexual until like..oh i dunno..3 or so years ago. when i was say...9 years old..the first little sparks of hormones that intrigued me were with a female. we were in my room and we wanted to see what the other looked like so we got naked and looked and yeah. i mean, i had crushes on boys and stuff but im pretty sure that was a sociological phenomenon..not a physical attraction or curiousness.

when i was in high school i never wanted to be alone with a guy. and everytime i made a new female friend i felt like i had some kind of crush on her. i was almost infactuated with her. i didnt lose my virginity til i was about 18..and i hadnt even done anything with a guy until i was about 18 really..all with the same boyfriend. then after a few months i wasnt attracted to him anymoe but i stayed with him because i believed i loved him. after almost 2 years of being with this guy we break up. i was turned off of guys for almost 2 years. i went through a "lesbian" phase. i was only attracted to women and was in search of a girlfriend. i "dated" a girl for about a month when i realized i didnt like having two estrogen filled bodies in one relationship. after that i went back to guys and have stuck to guys ever seince.

it took me a long time to realize that i love men and i am physically attracted to a man's body. i like the look of a woman's body but it's not the same thing. i dont think that i would feel as straight as i do today had i not tried dating a girl before.

im not saying all men should go and date men before they "decide" or "realize" they're straight. not at all. my experiences took me down a certain path and i learned things from it. just because u dont go down the same path doesnt mean u dont know..it means u dont need to stray from ur path to know.
 
And I would argue that many humans say this sort of thing because they want to believe they are more than animals, which I would say is not true. We may be much more initelligent, but we still have animal insitncts and are nothing more than that.
 
donno if this has been said or not...... but i never really chose.... i dont think you get to just be like hmm i wanna like guys instead of chicks..... your just either gay or straight, you dont choose

at least i didnt.... i'm just attracted to chicks and not guys
 
um, i dont remember when and i dont think it was that difficult.i guess when i got kissed by like 4 girls in preschool(not like that means anything, its preschool, unfortunately)
 
Oh, by all means we are still animals, true. However, the ability to think and have active consciousness has given us the option to at least consider 'satisfaction' from life in other ways that reproduction. Many of us find family to be the best thing life has to offer, while others love nothing better than searching the stars or absolute solitude out in the wilderness. We will always be tethered to our animal instincts, but that doesnt mean that we still have to choose to abide by what they tell us.
 
ok man. get this through your head. girls have vaginas, guys have penises, guy inserts penis into vagina it feels good. man inserts penis into mans butthole thats fricken nasty. man cums in girls vagina to try to have kids. i dont see a man and a mand having fuckin anal sex and havin a fuckin kid poppin out of his fuckin asshole. u learn that fuckin shit in grade school you retard
 
congratulations on having a strong command of anatomy and sex ed 101, i'm sure if you can grasp those concepts you might be able to understand this thread.

the point you might be missing here is that if you think that it is retarded to question whether or not one must choose to be straight, it should be easy to accept that no one chooses their sexual orrientation.

with no one choosing their sexual orrientation that means straights, gays, and apparently this thread also is including bestiality fanatics (more power to the bear fuckers?). anyways just think it through, what i'm saying, and i think you already agree with what i'm trying to make people think about
 
how so? with personal disonance hopefully? bah probably not, but you're a great example of the type of person i was targeting with this thread
 
are you serious? being gay or straight is something you are born with, some people feel an affinity to men, some to women, its just how your brain is wired, theres no way to choose. some people, however, choose to supress the feeling, but never feel fully fuffilled with the one they choose. for example, my gf's mom's are lesbians, the mom who didn't birth her was married before and had a child, but just didn't feel fufilled with a man. My best friend's mom was married to his dad for 17 years, had two kids, then felt it wasn't right, now she has a partner instead of a husband
 
well thank you for appreciating my response, i really like the debate you sparked on here, i feel it may open many people's eyes
 
If anything, its at least been entertaining to watch people stumble over the real question. I'll say it again, cool thread!
 
i dont think that most people decide between the penis or the pussy. i was just naturally attracted to the pussy. i remember liking girls in kindergarten
 
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