What's on your mind - Ladies edition
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taylornicky
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14104734:safarisam said:
Yay! Just go day by day! Don’t rush anything. That happened to me and I actually broke up with him yesterday. We rushed into things and it definitely wasn’t what I wanted in the end. Who knows though, it could work out in the end! But don’t rush it!
enjoy it!
nmwninjart
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It took me like 10 months to fully get over mine. What really helped was getting rid of everything that he gave me.
Im also feeling that same thing where I want to date but I dont want to at the same time. So confusing!
Im also feeling that same thing where I want to date but I dont want to at the same time. So confusing!
Real talk: How the fuck do adults make friends? I have zero friends where I live except for my boyfriend. The people I work with are significantly older than me, married and with kids. I'm the youngest at work by 7-10 years. I'm in school and thought I would have an in person class but it's 100% online so I can't even consider that. Also everyone who wants to talk to me is a dude and I have a boyfriend and really don't want to complicate anything lol. Obviously if I had a group of friends with dude mutual friends that would be fine but I can't go to a fucking bar and wait for a dude to talk to me because thats... well no bueno.
I'm so fucking weird. I am a general weirdo who likes normal people things but am so fucking weird. WHAT DO I DO
I'm so fucking weird. I am a general weirdo who likes normal people things but am so fucking weird. WHAT DO I DO
taylornicky
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Went skiing for the first time after knee surgery! So excited to be back!!! I felt like part of me was missing. And I have a friend visiting me next weekend and we just booked a sweet Airbnb near Squaw and then are camping in mammoth for 3 days! Life is good.
mountaindewgirl
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I commend all you ladies who live and work in the resort towns and manage to lead normal lives. I've gotta have a really rigid job to force structure into my life. Within 2 years I would go from ski bum to naked on a yacht smoking bath salts and firing off an m-16 into the ocean.
connecticunt
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14108414:larilinesign said:
trade bath salts for crack and you’ve got my retirement plan.
honestly though I feel more than a little jaded after living in south lake for almost two years and I’m over it. I hate seeing all these 40 yr old degenerates getting fired for doing lines in a lift shack or complaining about their mind-numbing-ly easy jobs when I would kill to just be able to finish my degree in peace and progress within my career path and I just can’t. I’m pretty sure after this season, resort life is no more. At least working for one.
Cyanicenine
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Is altitude rage a thing? https://unofficialnetworks.com/2019/12/06/skier-felony-ski-rage/?fbclid=IwAR0DUJQrAw5NDcaXrGBHeHb_x4PxnhO5DA3cVixoptiBC-8SDAC1keyBeFM I was at park city on friday and there were a lot of angry tourists out and about. Had some old man cuss out my friend because she told him not to block the entrance to the park, he was standing in the middle of the gate and yelled "I'm waiting my turn dumbass" as we awkwardly shuffled past him and his 7 year old kid. Despite the fact that everyone else was waiting past the gate on the knoll of the drop in, not blocking the entrance. Same guy then decided to stand in the middle of the landing zone of one of the jumps (he didn't fall and wasn't injured just felt entitled to stand there) and yelled obscenities at the people hitting the jumps, again with his kid in tow.
mountaindewgirl
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14108648:Cyanicenine said:
I believe they call that "Tourist Brain"
TMI alert:
ive got some giant fucking boobs and despite weight loss they DONT. GO. AWAY. So when I work out I need two sports bras just to contain these puppies and to minimize the pain of them slapping me in the chin. But in doing so it makes it super hard to breathe. I’ve also got asthma. So either way my cardio workouts are cut short because of chest pain via boobs or lungs/ribs.
But today when I got home from the gym I took both bras off used my inhaler and dudes it was literally like a FULL breath. Anyone who has asthma/lung issues knows what I mean when you legit just can’t get air into your lungs. And then when you finally get air. Omg. So great.
ive got some giant fucking boobs and despite weight loss they DONT. GO. AWAY. So when I work out I need two sports bras just to contain these puppies and to minimize the pain of them slapping me in the chin. But in doing so it makes it super hard to breathe. I’ve also got asthma. So either way my cardio workouts are cut short because of chest pain via boobs or lungs/ribs.
But today when I got home from the gym I took both bras off used my inhaler and dudes it was literally like a FULL breath. Anyone who has asthma/lung issues knows what I mean when you legit just can’t get air into your lungs. And then when you finally get air. Omg. So great.
connecticunt
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I’m cranky and I want to go home to a house without roommates and watch material girls by myself.
My boyfriends mom was just over. Basically told me that if I was her kid she wouldn’t blame me for breaking up with her son due to him being an alcoholic (she didn’t say that directly but it’s what she meant. Also the first time I heard someone else call him an alcoholic). Maybe he would get his shit together. Things are pretty good right now but if they go south again...
taylornicky
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Has anybody had luck selling ski pants/jackets on Poshmark?
nmwninjart
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14113572:taylornicky said:
I haven't used poshmark but did sell a pair of ski pants on ebay last year. They went within a few days of me listing them
taylornicky
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14113715:nmwninjart said:
Damn! Okay that’s awesome. Thank you!
clareachapman
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14113572:taylornicky said:
I also sell a lot of things on FB marketplace, which could be good for ski stuff depending on where you live. My ski shit goes fast in Salt Lake
14113767:clareachapman said:
This!! I also have good luck on craigslist. Taylor, are you still in Reno? If so, Truckee Craigslist and FB moves stuff pretty quickly, my brother uses it to sell his old outerwear.
I haven’t had the best luck with ski gear on poshmark, I actually deleted my listings since they weren’t moving. FB/CL can be hit or miss but those are usually my go to.
**This post was edited on Mar 2nd 2020 at 3:13:43pm
nmwninjart
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Another vote for craigslist for huge things that arent easy to ship. Last summer when preparing to move into my studio apt I sold alot of large furniture and a whole 3 piece toolbox set on CL
taylornicky
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14113767:clareachapman said:
14113770:safarisam said:
14113784:nmwninjart said:
You girls are the best, thank you!!! I’ll try fb and cl!!
dkirse
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Oh god, my friend just texted asking me for my new address to send a 'save the date' for her wedding. My ex is her maid of honor (lol because they're best friends) and now I'm severely nervous to see him. I guess I have to make myself look smokin' hot before August.
But also, he's dating someone now (pretty sure) and the thought of him having a date at the wedding and me not having a date at the wedding is driving me NUTS. I'm also surprised I'm even being invited to this because I only know her because of him. Also also, I haven't seen him since I left Mexico. FaceTime and texting sure, but I haven't physically seen him. Will I cower? Will I be confident? Will I still love him? Will I hate him? Quarantine is not helping this, people!!
But also, he's dating someone now (pretty sure) and the thought of him having a date at the wedding and me not having a date at the wedding is driving me NUTS. I'm also surprised I'm even being invited to this because I only know her because of him. Also also, I haven't seen him since I left Mexico. FaceTime and texting sure, but I haven't physically seen him. Will I cower? Will I be confident? Will I still love him? Will I hate him? Quarantine is not helping this, people!!
clareachapman
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The anxiety with exes is the worst!! Things easier said than done that I've been telling myself:
1) you're on your own time line - if he has a gf it doesn't mean you should also be dating if it doesn't feel right
2) you're probably way cooler and nicer and a better skier than her! he's losing here
3) it can be exciting to dress up and feel sexy so buy a new dress and shoes to have something to look forward to!
4) don't go if you feel too anxious haha
1) you're on your own time line - if he has a gf it doesn't mean you should also be dating if it doesn't feel right
2) you're probably way cooler and nicer and a better skier than her! he's losing here
3) it can be exciting to dress up and feel sexy so buy a new dress and shoes to have something to look forward to!
4) don't go if you feel too anxious haha
14121274:dkirse said:
dkirse
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14121306:clareachapman said:
Thank you!! I'm honestly just psyching myself out, I think. If I go, I'm definitely going to be sexy af and be my most confident self.
Plus, I'm pretty sure he and I are cool. We talk from time to time but it's not like we're in each other's lives. I would be absolutely stoked to see him, but that's only because I want something to come from it. I think if I take some time to focus on myself/maybe get back into dating (slowly...) then I'll feel much more secure by the time the wedding comes around. I 100% would not feel comfortable going if I still felt insecure/unconfident around him (which is why I ended things with him in the first place).
clareachapman
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That's great that you could recognize your insecurity with him! It took me a long time after the break up to figure that out ??
but yes you're totally right as long as you're going into it with you as your priority you'll be fine!
but yes you're totally right as long as you're going into it with you as your priority you'll be fine!14121490:dkirse said:
hear me out on this one: live action ratatouille
taylornicky
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Whoa whoa whoa watching The Deadliest Catch for the first time and all these dudes are hot!???
clareachapman
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Great to know ? added to my list
14132278:taylornicky said:
I AM SO OVER GRAD SCHOOL AND DOING SCHOOL FROM HOME. I’m taking the pass/fail option and i still might fail a class. Also working from home has been rough. Jack moved to kalispell, which we both knew would happen from the beginning. He just moved two weeks sooner than originally. I miss my friends, I miss Bridger Brewing, and I want to move into my new place already.
clareachapman
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That all sounds like a struggle ? especially when it's all happening at once. I've been feeling extra lonely lately and trying to balance the uncertainty with what I want to do is tough. Reach out to me on insta or here if you ever need to vent or virtual-yell or anything. ? we'll make it through slowly but surely.
14133368:safarisam said:
lil.quinoa
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Yeah I feel ya. I’m living in Idaho rn cuz I didn’t enjoy Bozeman. Moving to PC to join a ski team and dropping outta school. Also I feel like I met you at chalet sports haha. Came in with my dog a few times and always got my skis mounted there.
14133368:safarisam said:
nmwninjart
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14133865:lauraobermeyer said:
Thats awesome. Goin old school. I remember life before the internet, cell phones, social media and all that...I did alot more reading of actual paper books, writing, drawing, when I couldn't go outside. Simpler life.
I hate facebook and snapchat and but I am cool with instagram I like the pictures and video and besides here thats how I keep up with skiing. Only reason I have a Sc is so my little sister and I can send video to eachother since we live 1000 miles apart. I could actually do without fb because I don't talk to anyone on there anymore but some of my activities (when they were open before corona) use that and only that as a communication platform.
Cyanicenine
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Vive pro VR setup with beat saber installed is getting me through this shutdown. Example of the gameplay:
What the video doesn't give you a sense of is how crisp the feedback in the controllers is. They vibrate slightly when you hit a block and it's impressively accurate, not mushy or imprecise like the VR I've tried in the past. It's really good at tricking your brain into believing in the environment. Anyways, yes I'm a nerd, but if ever there was a time to get into VR now is it. #social distancing
What the video doesn't give you a sense of is how crisp the feedback in the controllers is. They vibrate slightly when you hit a block and it's impressively accurate, not mushy or imprecise like the VR I've tried in the past. It's really good at tricking your brain into believing in the environment. Anyways, yes I'm a nerd, but if ever there was a time to get into VR now is it. #social distancing
connecticunt
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lol let’s add “struggling with sexuality yet again” to the ever growing list of quarantine problems
besides that I’ve been really productive with my custom chain stitching. Anyone else working on some cool crafts??
besides that I’ve been really productive with my custom chain stitching. Anyone else working on some cool crafts??
nmwninjart
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I've given up on them for the time being. They're definitely not a priority in my life right now
14138834:dkirse said:
There’s definitely a too soon and a too late but if you are like me you usually cross over the line before you know it and get stuck there. So not that I’d ever take my own advice but like probably a split second before you think it’s time because at that point it’s probably already time.
taylornicky
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I want to SCREAM about men (boys) who think Planned Parenthood shouldn’t get any funding. I want to SCREAM about the number of women and those in the LGBTQ community who are shamed, silenced, and denied healthcare. I want to SCREAM about how this is even politics. I want to SCREAM and cry and I’m fuming.
BigPurpleSkiSuit
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Hi everyone, got any tips for being suddenly and forcibly transferred to this gender by eheath himself?
BigPurpleSkiSuit
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How can I relax when I cant go standing up anymore?
14142236:Mingg said: