After reading the comments on this thread it is easy to conclude that you all think that anyone who is not as COOL as you is a gaper -
Therefore, you are a gaper to anyone who thinks you are not that cool.
Infact, we are ALL gapers by that definition -
Too me, a gaper is anyone who defines themselves as a skier, yet lives in the flatlands, commutes to their "ski house" and has their parents pay for their gear -
You = gaper