What would you do?

sampsihoyos

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So let's say you piss some friends off and you feel like shit, and it seems like this is something that they're not going to forgive you for, like really dissapointed in you, that's the situation right now and i dunno how things are going to go monday at school. You think I should let the situation kinda settle before i talk to them about it, i guess that real friends can forgive you but i dunno, what would you do?
 
really personal insult infront of a group of people, think i might just stay away from the people that are pissed at me for a few days and im hoping things will chill out
 
they were like "sam, i honestly cannot believe you just said that" and i instantly regreted it, it was like the perfect insult but over the dumbest argument
 
i think you're missing the point of what i'm saying but i called her a bad girl friend cuz of some stuff that happened earlier
 
So the other night i was out with some friends (including me: 3 guys 4 girls), we were all sober and at dinner when the guys start making jokes about gay people, totally jokes but the girls got pissed and i guess i never really picked up on it, but the guys left to go see a store across the street and leave them money to pay for our part of dinner, thank them, kinda planning on meeting up with them later, and i thought everything was chill at the time, just kinda like thanks for handling the money, we'll see you in 10-15 minutes.

Later they come up to us and are really pissed and stuff, i tell them i thought everything was fine and never really thought that it was much of a bitch move (which they thought it was) and they argue their point and it was just a dumb argument, i kinda lost it because they were critisizing me and said a really personal insult and they were like "sam, i cant believe you just brought that up" and the rest of the night was horrible, we've been friends for like the whole school year and everything has been fine, and now i don't know how bad it's going to be going back to school monday, they're not angry, just dissapointed in me and i feel like shit. I think I might try to avoid the group for a few days and hope that things settle, I dunno.
 
it wasnt like a formal dinner to treat them nice, just kinda casual, but looking back on it, it was a bitch move about leaving them
 
^haha. well is the insult that you brought up too bad to say on here? i understand if it is, but it would make it a whole lot easier on us. but anyways, talk to the girl it was directed towards. call her up and say you are sorry. i know you might be nervous about that because you dont know what shell say, but ive done it and it all worked out alright.
 
i pretty much just asked her if she considered herself to be a good girlfriend because of what was going on with her bf at the time and a few weeks before, i totally have no idea what she thinks of me right now, ive heard "she lost a lot of respect for me but isnt mad" but i dunno if she would need more time or something
 
write her a note* : "sticks and stones can break your bones, but my dick will never hurt you"
 
say "hey, I'm really sorry about what I said, I feel like an ass."

and if they don't forgive you, then fuck em.
 
WTF WAS THAT? and i read the rest of the thread and still have no idea what you said or did or meant or FUCK. What does being a bad girlfriend have to do with the argument and the dinner and how did it come up?

What you gotta do is be straight up here. Otherwise we can't really help you. I'll go on a whim here and say walk straight up to them and appologize. If you pussy out and avoid them, they will only loose more respect for you.
 
Dude, bitches aint shit. If this was fifty years ago, this would have never happened. In fact, those bitches wouldnt be allowed to leave the house. They would have to stay home to cook and clean. plain and simple. The solution? Travel back in time to when bitches aint shit.
 
for real homeboy. sorry my last paragraph there was almost as confusing as your story. so...

1) you tell us the nasty details of your story and

2) you got talk to that girl tomorrow and appogize to her. don't make excuses for yourself. Just say you're sorry, even admit to being an asshole, even if you don't really think you are. she'll tell everyone what you did, and you'll get everyones respect back. in fact you might even get more respect than before cuz you had the balls to admit you were wrong.
 
yeah dude its simple... apologize! if they won't forgive you then screw 'em.. they aren't real friends if they won't accept your apology, even if they are still pissed
 
k first you need to say what happened, like actually tell us what you sayed. also just man up and apologize to her, thats all that needs doing.

on a final note, you suck at story time
 
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