I am not going to convince you otherwise...Toyota trucks are nice.
There are 2 generations of the Tacoma:
1st: 1995.5-2004 (3 facelifts, the introduction of the TRD pkg in '98, DCSB in '01, other minor changes)
2nd: 2005- (Only facelift in newest, 2013 model)
If you want a DCLB (double cab long box) model, those are 2nd gen only, so 2005 and newer. Here are some thoughts:
-I personally love driving manual and would recommend it to everybody over automatic, but DCLB are auto only and you may not want a manual anyways so it doesn't matter really. Personal preference.
-The TRD Sport and TRD Off Road are different packages. TRD sport has a rear limited slip and a fake hood scoop, while the TRD off road has a rear electric selectable locker. The latter is much, much more useful in a trail riding context (I have one in my '01). Both still include the 'off road' Bilstein shocks (different than the 5100s) from the factory but may have been changed out if you buy used.
-If you plan to use the truck as a truck (and not a glorified minivan), don't even consider the 5 foot bed option. You CANNOT fit anything in there (especially skis or yourself), thus rendering the 'truck' part useless. May as well go purchase a Toyota Sienna at that point. Otherwise, if you just want it for looks but want to carry people, DCSB model works ok.
-The 2nd gen 4.0L 1GR-FE engine is a well-made engine. It is/was also offered in the 2nd gen Highlander, FJ Cruiser, and 4th/5th gen 4Runner. I have driven all these and have concluded that it's got more then enough nut if you want it. There's also a factory supercharger available ($$$) for installation if you want even more power.
As for people who said 'buy American," Most of those trucks are made in Mexico anyways so unless you know the EXACT plant in the US where your Chevy/Ford/Dodge was made, don't even bring it up. My 2001 Tacoma was made in the Fremont, CA NUMMI plant (no longer associated with Toyota, Tesla makes cars there now), so there's American for you.