This needs to stop.

SlimDunkin.

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There's a very select bunch of people who really seem to not like gays and/or think its cool to post how they should keep there gayness to thereselves. A couple months ago reading over these types of comments wouldnt really have bothered me or phased me whatsoever.

But recently there was a boy who was heavily picked on in a school a couple towns over from me, who was picked on constantly because he was gay, he had done everything he could to try to make it stop he reported it, told teachers, but ultimatley kept to himself about it when it came to his peers. He was terrified of being harassed even more.

He ended up hanging himself, just a few hours ago.

It was really tragic because even though he reported it, he appeared fine to all his peers, "we didn't know it was hurting his feelings".

Thats what they claimed.

So please before you make another gay joke or call someone out on being gay, please think twice about it. Everyone is entitled to there own opinion but your own opinion doesn't consist of ranking on people because of there sexuality.

So please just think before you speak.

R.I.P Chris

 
Kids who go out of there way to make kids feel like shit make me sick. Hopefully and eventually karma will fuck them. Just overall shitty people.
 
Kids who go out of there way to make kids feel like shit make me sick. Hopefully and eventually karma will fuck them. Just overall shitty people.
 
Seriously, fuck being mean to people as a joke. That shit stopped being funny in 3rd grade. Man up, and be nice.

Being a man is being a gentleman. GENTLEman. Gentle, see it? Right there. Gentle. There it is again. Being an ass is not gentlemanly. Its "I'm really insecure, so I'm going to put people beneath me".

Stop. True men help others out.
 
This is something we really have to work on as a society, you would have that that by now people would have developed into more open-minded beings- but I guess not. It takes the courage of everyone to stand up against these hateful people. I'm sorry for your loss.
 
on the contrary, being gay doesnt need to be broadcast constantly, nobody cares and unless its relevant it gets old.

go ahead, karma rape me, it's true.
 
I was extremely saddened by the loss, but it was really the way it happened that got to me, verbally abusing someone daily is basically assualt with a deadly weapon.
 
fuck people. its really sad and its way to common that people kill themselves because of insecure assholes and it really has to stop
 
it really is like, the most depressing thing ever in highschool, no joke. plus getting jumped because you like steve over stacey is retarded
 
Not so much directed toward gay people, but I am a senior and i have some classes with mixed grades and I have observed that some kids are complete and blatant assholes. It makes me sick to think that I was one of those kids in the past years and it really made me think about all the kids who take it and put on a happy/positive face when they are really hurting inside. And like someone said before all of the said assholes are kids who will do nothing with their lives.
 
I know it sounds wicked corny, but if you make an example people will follow slowly but surely, next time you see someone make a dick comment regardless of who it is, tell them to shut the fuck up. If they get upset at you, that shows you how fucking insecure and stupid they are.
 
Rest in Peace.I tend to talk a lot of shit to my friends jokingly and even call people fags and what not, but I have the utmost respect for anyone who is confident enough in themselves to choose to be openly gay in highschool, thats fucking SWAG right there. It's very sad he couldn't feel he was able to go on because of other's teasing. I can't imagine going through years like that, so sad.
 
you need to stop.

no one cares.

if you're gonna choose to live a certain way, thats obviously not 100 percent socially acceptable. then you should be able to deal with the hate you'll get.

if not. dont tell anyone or announce it to the world.

inb4 gays dont choose to be gay

inb4 it should be socially acceptable

inb4 i hate gays

inb4 shitstorm
 
this.

QFT.

if say, i really thought blacks should be slaves and i went around telling people this would you be offended if someone got upset with me?
 
This is an issue for me, at least on how to address it.

Yes its a terrible thing to believe, and completely fucking wrong, but it is your god given right to have that opinion and have it be wrong.
 
Like I said above every single person is entitled to there own opinion.

Clearly people do care, due to the amount of support oughtweigh the people who dont.

Second, we all live a certain way, just because we choose a way that isn't necessarily 100% the norm should we be singled out for it? Absolutely not. Who are you to say what is and isnt socially acceptable?
 
you should try living in a place where you, a white person, are not he 95% plus majority. where i live right now, I am the 5% minority (being white that is), granted I do live in Caribbean country that was a long history grounded in the slave trade...BUT...the amount of racism (black on white racism that is) I deal with everyday is something I wouldn't wish upon anybody. so when you say something like that, it strikes me as ignorant, childish, and most of all extremely sheltered
 
i dont think you read my post very well bud, i said that as an example of something NOT socially acceptable that i would get no defense for.

im just pointing out the double standard.
 
No reference.

I don't care if a person likes to bang dudes. More power to them for being true to themselves; I don't ever judge someone based on their sexuality. I do get annoyed by flamboyant girly men who go out of their way to make their gayness known. It has nothing to do with their sexuality. It has everything to do with being a loudmouth.
 
it doesn't just go for gay people though, same thing can be said for just about everything, fat kids, quiet kids, whatever. I used to be the kid that picked on people (like middle school) and it sickens me looking back on the way I was. The one friend that helped me out the most growing up with problems with my dad was the one that I targeted with fat jokes, just didnt make any sense looking back on it, and luckily through high school I woke up and everything changed and we became real close. I just wish I wasnt such an immature bitch when I was younger.
Second point is just because you may disagree with somebodies lifestyle doesnt mean that they have any less of a right to happiness than you do. I may disagree with homosexuality, but there is no way that I will ever treat a gay guy with any less respect than I would any other person.. Everyone is the same, just trying to pursue what makes them happy and live the best life that they can, so let them live it
 
I totally just give up on gay rights at this point. in my class yesterday there were more 3 people for gay rights, and 15 for abortion. my teacher sort of went ham for me on the class though, twas great.
 
nah, you pointed out a situation in which a person was a bigot...its not hard to believe you cant recognize the difference between someone who was born a certain way, and someone who chooses to be a bigot, seeing as how, well...you are a bigot.

Did you really try to equate a bigot, with being gay? i think you need to move the fuck out of the inland northwest and learn about about more than spokane can offer.
 
Oh damn; you're so stupid that conveying your own stupidity to you could actually be difficult.

Here is why you are stupid: My post in that thread is not telling NinjaSteeze to keep his homosexuality to himself like you seem to think. If you read the post, it clearly states that same-sex turn-offs should be put into a different thread because that thread was specifically defined to be about opposite-sex turn-offs. I wasn't the OP; I didn't define the thread. I was simply repeating what was stated in the OP for somebody who must've overlooked it. I don't understand how you think that is bullying or homophobic.

Please refrain from pointing out hypocracies unless you're absolutely sure the person is actually being hypocritical. You're wasting my time and clogging up this thread with irrelevant arguments.
 
I find homophobia quite hilarious. I'm sure it fucken sucks for homosexual people and I dont doubt that and thats fucked but seeing people act out there homophobic tendencies is quite hilarious as its so pathetic.
 
I'm sorry but don't put the whole "born gay" argument into this, because its not helping your argument, considering the lack of substantial conclusive evidence on the matter, I'm sure he realizes the difference between being gay and being a hateful person, dont feed into it
 
oh and actually you should be comparing your homo hating self to the racist redneck. Both you choose to look down upon, and put down another group of people who cannot change who they are. You are the one who is not socially acceptable. just cause in your neck of the woods, homo hating is OK doenst mean its right. there are still parts of the country where blatant racism is the norm, does that make it right?

damn, son. why the fuck do you care. a gay dude who puts it in your face is called a flamer, and a straight dude who puts it in your face is called a Bro. Get over it. dont judge an entire demographic on a few.
 
hi guys, are you having fun debating something that means absolutely nothing to you, but drove me to the point of attempted suicide last year? Cool! sounds like oodles of fun!!! but seriously, just stop. I'll keep gayness to myself once you keep homophobic slurs too yourself.
 
Bing bam boom WHAM.

This is 1000000% true. I have no issue with anyone if they like dudes, cool. But it is annoying as FUCK when they broadcast it over all frequencies and act/talk like girly men. You're gay. Cool, but stop fucking going out of your way to make sure everyone knows it and having a vendetta against straight men.

I dont rub my straightness in your face, so stop doing it in front of me.
 
damn, son. way to get real, real worked up about nothin'.

all i said was that theres no reason to brandish your sexuality around like some kind of talking point. problem?
 
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