So right now only reason to use poles is 'look cool' and so you 'aren't gay' and so 'not to get shit from snowboarders'. lol. I ski for fun! Looking cool is side-effect!
When have we cared what a snowboarder thinks? I say 90% of skiers probably dont use poles effective or even know what they are for! It gives you something to do with the hands.
BUT, poles are a left over from old school technique, where they were used to initiate sharp, fast turns as I see it. These days it is more a huge carve style, bombing, so poles are completely worthless unless you need for balance! In some place like powder I suppose it is O.K. But otherwise, who needs. If you have good balance, new school ride type, and like grabs and airtime then why hinder with poles? I raced even with no poles, but poles only in SuperGS event.
Regards,