Texting girl opinions

be a pushover, but dont let them know youre being a pushover. girls hate pushovers, but they want you to be one. let her get her way but make it seem like you didnt want it and are willing to settle just cause she's all special and you love her and bla bla blaaa.

example:

guy - lets go out for dinner

girl - yeahhh id love that? where you want to go?

guy - how about [dinner spot]

girl - ehhh not a big fan

guy - ok i hear [other dinner spot] has great pasta

girl - no that's a little far and i'm not in the mood

at this point you'r irritated and hate that she's being difficult. she wants you to magically guess the right thing but she wont even fucking give you a hint as to what she's interested in. she probably doesn't evne fucking know, but she doesn't want you calling the shots and she wont call the shots.

be a pushover and keep playing the game until she finally says something like "well i'd love some tofu" and then start naming places that have that style of food. she'll eventually say "yes" to something and then make it seem like it was a great idea, even though you're pissed off. "yeahh that's sounds excellent great choice babe i'd love to have that", even though you're dont want that shit at all you want a steak.

play the stupid game, let her win, but dont be all "okkk fine you win i give up". she needs to feel like she earned it, even though she didn't earn shit. you just let her get her way cause if you didn't, you'd be having a giant argument and wouldn't be eating at all.

in your case, play the texting game. she wants you to chase, so chase. other times she wants you to chill and back off, so chill and back off. like i said in my other post, just go with it. every once in a while you gotta back the fuck off and remind her that you wont stand for that shit all the time, but then quickly resolve that by apologizing and letting her know that you're in the wrong and she's perfect and shit. "oh no babe i wasnt ignoring you at all i've just been really busy", meanwhile you're rolling your eyes thinking of course i was ignoring you bitch you fuckin playin me for a fool i gotta give you a reality check once in a while and let you know that if you want me to shut up, i will and not talk to you at all.

fucking girls man. i could write a book on this shit.
 
bull fuckin shit. typical girl perspective

"oh im doing all the work"

i bet if you read their message history he'd be the one trying to be sweet and awesome and she'd be blowing him off cause she loves the attention but doesn't want to reciprocate. girls dont initiate for shit. they wont tell you where they want to have dinner, you have to play 20 questions and pry it out of them. girls wont tell you how they feel about you, you have to assume and hope it's positive cause she'll be completely turned off if you start a conversation about anything that isn't exactly what she wants to talk about in that moment.

girls give you the giggles and smily faces and that's it. when you try to open them up and discuss something you get the whole "you ramble, you talk too much, why are you so serious, i dont know how i feel abou tall this, i don't want to rush into it, i'm sorry i can't answer that, etc" bullshit.

she's just another girl who doesn't know what the fuck she wants and is doing whatever she feels like in that very moment and you are expected to go with it and not bring it up. you need to stay close to her, without clinging.... somehow. i dont fucking know man figure out something that sparks her interest and revert to that. if she likes funny shit be a bit of a goof and make her laugh. if she likes music ask her about band practice. fuck if i know. make it about her, her way, on her terms, and don't go overboard and i will repeat, never discuss anything that makes you seem like a pushover or clingy. girls get majorly turned off to whiny guys that dont drop shit.
 
Yeh if you text to much it basically becomes a virtual relationship which never end up being good
 
Yeahh man it happens to me too. It used to bother me, and it would get irritating and shit wouldnt work out. Now I just dont care, if they dont want to talk then they dont. This girl i kind of have a thing with right now, trust me man I enjoy talkin to her more than anything. Kinda makes my day. But, I will send 1 text. No clusterfucking her inbox thinking she didnt get the message. No. Im a realist, I know she did. She will reply if she wants, if she doesnt, oh well. All that really matters is how they act around you in person. If she enjoys talking to you face to face, who the fuck cares about texting? It's not that big of a deal.
 
all i can say is all of your problems will be solved if you just treat her like a little kid. if she cant decide, fuck with her, make her laugh and she'll choose immediately after. you've gotta change her mood not her mind.
 
Literally as I was reading through this thread, thinking about how much I hate texting girls, and just texting in general, I was texting this girl. She sent me a text like 20 minutes ago that was just one word. So I didn't reply just kinda whatever you know, thinking this is why I hate texting girls they send you a one word response what the fuck are you supposed to say to that. (mind you this is a new girl not a girlfriend thing which would be different)
So as I was getting frustrated she sent me another text. "Sorry, that was one worded. How's your day going so far?"
That was pretty fucking cool. I don't think I have had a girl do that for me ever. hahah
 
Stop texting. Do something with her. Ask her, lets go to the movies. She is obviously playing hard to get but the thing is, if you show too much interest , she will back off, girls are like that, they dont like guys that are too easy to get. Ask her out and stop texting.
 
Assuming you are a proper "leader" male it's all about keeping the girl on the chase. It was all over when you probably over-replied to the initial daily text storm. Yeah, I'm saying you should have ignored her more, kept her guessing. If she likes you she won't just give up. Give her the "gift of missing you." Girls play "games," and thankfully I enjoy games, and frankly girls make life worth living. They are so different from each other than us guys are from each other. Make her play your own game and you're set. Remember, you're a man, a cocky motherfucker, but a nice person and a gentleman with a witty sense of humor. Also, I'll tell you I won't be getting married for a damn long time because after all, it's a coin toss these days anyways, so make sure you know what side to pick. Just my 2 cents, good luck man.
 
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but honestly dude, i feel your pain. a girl did this to me a couple years ago, at first she seemed mad interested, then wouldnt respond, it was just an on going cycle. it fucking twisted with my brain.
 
there are some threads on newschoolers where i skim through and only read the comments by pink names because i know those are the only ones with any truth. this thread is one of them.
 
luckily i somewhat knew this already. unfortunately, it doesn't always work. of course, I did at one point say I was in it for fun (I was still getting over an ex) while she was seeking more of a long term relationship.
 
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