Texting girl opinions

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c-wayne

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to start im 19 shes 17

Like i get stressed about this as gay as it may be. I hate it so much when im talking to a girl and she'll like text me goodmorning for a few days and goodnight and we talk a decent amount during the day and then all of a sudden one day she doesnt text me. So like today i texted her and she seemed not as interested as normal and didnt really wanna have a convo.

And its not like i made myself her bitch or anything and we are not in like the friendzone or anything so like what the fuck. I know i shouldnt get annoyed about this but honestly it gets me. The last text she sent me was "nicee" and im not gonna answer and im gonna wait for her to text me first the next time.

idk as many girls as i will bang and deal with this will always annoy me. anyone else bugged by this?
 
dude maybe your just a pussy? Why the fuck would you be annoyed that she doesn't text back, maybe some shit happened and there is stuff more important? Just talk to her in the real world and im sure she will reply, and if she does ignore you to your face... well then

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how about you talk to her with your mouth.

in person though. i hate talking to people on the phone just to chat, it's awkward.
 
heres the deal..

she kept texting you because she was excited about you and wanted to talk to you. she then started to realize she was the only one initiating it (which made her self conscious) so she decided to stop and see if you took the reigns. you did, but maybe not to her standards (which are high) and she is now feeling even more self conscious and has started a game. she doesnt want to continue acting super interested because by you not texting her in the way she wanted (act interested, initiate the same amount as she did in the beginning, etc), she now wants you to chase her and see if you actually like her as much as you do. once you start that, she will warm up again, but she's just testing you to make sure that this shit is real and she isn't being some weird desperate clingy girl. if you text her back after she just said 'nicee' and strike up new conversation, i guarantee she will be pumped and start responding more.

or shes just not that into you anymore.

welcome to the minds of girls
 
sorry for dub post, and I hate to be the one to say it but maybe she got a boyfriend? Ive seen this exact situation pan out into "hmm I wonder why shes not as talkative anymore" and then 2 days later BOOM facebook official. Just a thought though. facebook.

facebook.
 
some good advice so far especially michelles. the texting "game" is so fucking annoying to me id rather not talk to her than even play these games lol

and to those who said to talk to her in person- i am saturday but we only get to see eachother weekends so id like to keep good contact during the week if that makes sense
 
I know, we're total mind fucks.

The good thing is that some of us recognize it and try not to be.
 
and if this helps* we went skiing last night and she was cold on the lift so we sat close and i wraped my arms around her and stuff, but then at the end of the night it was kinda akward and like she didnt go for a hug goodnight (shes kindof shy though) so i just gave her a goofy highfive and dipped. sooo idk
 
I like what Michelle said, but don't chase her. Start conversation with some completely random thing, maybe something you saw that was funny, just to get her talking. When she starts talking then you have yourself a conversation and you should have an objective for it. Ask her if she wants to hang out etc.

I see texting as a stepping stone to setup a date, try and text as little as possible if you can. It will keep them more interested. Good luck buddy.
 
same shit happened to me. turns out she didnt really ever like me. bitch. but anyways just talk to her in person so you know whats going on. she might have emotional shit hapening or she is pms'ing. texting doesnt show real emotion
 
Dude, have some goddamn confidence in yourself and stop over analyzing everything. It's not about what she does, girls want you to make the first move, it's up to you man. I can tell you right now that if your not leading her then she probably ins't attracted to you.
 
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But no really, try texting her but don't put too much effort into it.

If she doesn't respond or doesn't put any effort into it after 2~3 days give up.

And above all else...

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What ever happened to calling a person and just asking them to go do something? be assertive, grow a pair.
 
thats not true, she ditches then you be super sweet and all nice and shit then you end up in the friend zone.

dude just keep ignoring her and shit and she will come back so much harder trust me!

give her like little samples, like send her a text or two, lag hardcore then dont reply and hopefully you will get her back, also be kind of an asshole but sweet enough that she wants to still bang you
 
The hell, why is there such a huge thought process behind girls whenthey text guys.... Idk about other guys but i just text a chick straight up, never ever thought about it as much as the ladies apparently do.
 
seriously, this is the best advice you will ever hear.

girls are fucking crazy. they do what they want, when they want, depending on whatever mood they happen to be in, and expect you to magically know exactly what's on their mind and go with it. they don't want you to talk about it, think about it, you just need to let it be. if it doesn't work out, so what. you have to be unconditionally on her side, so let her do whatever the fuck she wants. why else do girls go after bad boys? they want guys who dont give a shit and let them have it their own way. but then of course you end up with a sad and crying bitch because she claims he doesn't care about her, EVEN THOUGH she wanted him to not care in the first place and that was her initial attraction to him - the lack of worrying and the "just go with it" mentality.

don't cling, don't worry, just be. do your own thing too. if she wants to text, text. if she doesn't, don't. it's gotta be her way and no amount of logic or reasoning will ever change that.

all chicks are inherently crazy, you just have to find one that is crazy and suuuper mellow and pleasant and care-free, cause they wont mind if you bring shit up or want to discuss any concerns. the light-hearted and mellow attitude will override the craziness.

now what you DO NOT want is a chick who's crazy and also high maintenance and full of stress all the time. you will never win at anything with her. you're just destined to lose at everything forever. may as well be her pet.

just remember that all girls are crazy and do crazy things. she'll tell you she wants to talk to you and when you do she'll be all "why you gettin up in my shit". then when you back off she's say "wtf why you ignoring me". you just have to go with it. do what she wants when she wants and do not worry about it cause it's something that all girls do. it's not her fault. she can't help it. she'll contradict herself, she'll say one thing and do another, she'll want you to do something that she wont do herself. all you can do is laugh and say "SO WHAT, BITCHES ARE CRAZY!! I ACCEPT IT!!!"

the sooner you figure that out, the sooner you will find peace and have great relationships.

 
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