Tease?

Ruski

Ruski

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ok so heres my prob. im a tease...at first i always scoffed when my friends called me one but now i realize how bad it is...like...i dont mean to lead anyone on...but i really just want to be friends just hang out and not take it any further and well...they have other plans and i hate to break it to them especially w. a "i just want to be friends line" but thats just how it is and w. one of them im feeling really pressured 'cause he recently just had a convo. w. me about people being really fake and i dnt want him to think im one of those people cause im really not im just kinda a flirt...and well this isnt the first time this has happened and honestly its becoming rediculous
 
nevermind, i guess the real question im trying to get at is: can guys and gals really be friends? cause im having a tough time w. that right now
 
i would steal it if i wasn't lying on the floor in agony from laughing so hard .............................................................................. ....... ..................................... ........................................jackass
 
I have a lot of friends that are girls, but they are my friends, but I think, I THINK, that theyare just in it because they like me or something. They seem that way alot. Not many life to hear about my gf. so i dunno. I'm a pretty tame guy tho too so..
 
girls who are teases should go down to main street and sell their worthless bodies for little to no money.

theres nothing worse than a body with tits that wont let you at em

SO STOP!!!
 
im a pretty big flirt too. you can have guys that are just friends but you have to make sure they know it. Tone down the flirting if necessary. But when it comes to getting the guy you really want, flirting can take you a long way. At least thats how it worked out for me!
 
yea i know wut u mean by a tease me and a girl were gunna hook up but then that weekend instead she went to aprty and made out with some dude i kno its not a big deal really but i was kinda choked so we kinda had a argument and didnt talk fo a good month but now were super good friends and hang out a bunch and such so i guess the guy just has to accept he aint gunna be getting any
 
haha the firery intensity of 1000 suns. but really teases are the worst shit in the world. but most of them don't have feelings, so I have the right be a dick to them
 
well my best friend *who is fine as hell i might add* recently fell in love with me because we spent so much time together i like grew on her

so now im ontop of her

YAY FOR THE BEST FRIEND MORPH INTO SEX PARTNERS!
 
nah...i've splept with all my guy friends...are u retarted of course guy and gurls can be friends...or else there would be lots of orgys going on and im saying there isnt but there would be alot more.
 
the possibilities are endless... but noone takes em...

no its def possible but all i know is that there are times when you cant think that it CAN actually be.
 
i remember girls like you from high school....learn to control yourself otherwise your gonna be viewed a bimbo in the next couple of years.
 
they can be friends to a certain extend..there is gonna be a point in a really good friendship where u dont know anymore if u love someone or is it just friends..u kinda wanna find out..and that is the point where all that shit goes down the drain
 
nope, cannot happen as long as there is physical attraction. ever notice how ugly girls with decent personalities have lots of male friends?
 
JEa, well.. not highschool kids but when you get a bit older and dont pop a boner everytime a bus drives by then yeah guys and girl can be just friends. Unless your super hot then your fucked but if your super ugly then yeah they can easly be just friends.
 
He's got the first part right. I'm mid twenties and now have friends of the opposite sex, even attractive ones that I'm not interested in sexually. Now in highschool that would not be the case. Just about any girl i was friends with in highschool I wanted to fuck.
 
I'm sorry guys should be able to see a tease a mile away. Honsotly if you have decent observational skills, you can see them coming. Like it doesn't matter. She'll tell chewbacca that he's cute. She'll ask you if her panties match her top. She'll give her number out to all 12 guys she danced with that night. She'll call you "sexy" or "cutie". Teases give all guys the same attention. I mean it takes a little experience but you need to learn to spot this shit.
 
Whore^, that whole friends with benifits is fuckign stupid, pretty much exploiting sex in a bad way. Well for me i cant have sex with someone i dont have feelings for or whatever, Its to fucking special to fuck around with,. Say what you want about me but JEa thats how i feel. not gonna change it.
 
Supposedly Can't be done it is all explained by the ladder theory (http://www.laddertheory.com/) But personnaly I think that you can be friends with benefits or just friends if you have a female aquaintance that ranks higher on the ladder then your friend with benefit.
 
it's definitely possible to have friends of the opposite sex... however, if you are a tease, which you said yourself, then you are going to have a very difficult time doing so. for example: there are two very very attractive girls that i ride with... one of them is not a tease, and i view her as an actual friend, someone i can talk to, and have fun with, and not worry about any alterior motives. on the other hand, we have the tease. this girl is cool to party with sometimes, but conversations are pretty much worthless 'cause she'll just tell me anything i want to hear. and the second i think she's saying something sincere, i'll catch her saying the exact same thing to one of my buddies.

so in a nutshell, you can have guy friends as long as you stop putting ideas in their heads that you are interested in fucking them.
 
i guess you could say im a pritty big tease myself... i mean when u have as many girls as i do beggin to get with me sometimes you just have to draw the line before feelings get hurt... and thats the worst kind of hurt...
 
it's totally possible, i live with a guy, my best friends a guy and way more than half of my friends are guys. just stop flirting.... maybe you are at that age and maturity where you can't really help yourself and you flirt with everyone.... but with time you'll realize it's really easy to not be a flirt and treat males and females all the same. flirting always leads to a disaster.... you can't build anything functioning upon pety flirting.... flirting is fun but if that's all it is there's no depth beyond that... than it's not going to benefit you long term... unless you are in it for a no strings attached, no emotion kind of thing...
 
Are you one of those girls that teases boys until they feel like they have pop rocks and coke in their ballsack? 'cause that totally sucks
 
do you walk around nude or almost? my buddie lived on nantucket for like 2 summers with a bunch of smokin rich chicks they used to do that shit, drove 'em nuts, poor kid was making shower babies left and right
 
mm im not a bimbo just kinda flirt but not like a "look at my panties they match my shirt, isnt that cute" flirt, i just like to chill and laugh and lately ive noticed all my guy friends have alterior motives and its kinda frustrating
 
yeah yesterday i had an essay to write but was doing mad procrastination so i posted like the wind
 
eh with what you described in your first post i dont know if that qualifies you as a tease. i dont know you personally so i cant say but heres what i got. yes i do think that it is possible for guys and girls to just be friends. i have a good number of really good lady friends who i would definitly say are very attractive, however i have never really felt an attraction to those girls. now if either a guy or a girl does have an attraction towards the other then its going to he hard for them to get completely over that and just be friends. if the attraction is there for one of the people its not going to just go away like that. if they like you and you dont like them theres not much you can do to change that. i also agree with what was said above that as you get older it gets easier to just be friends with people of the opposide sex. you can always find yourself a boyfriend that might slow the other guys down a bit
 
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