I started last year. Went and got a used 6'4'' Chaize, a board made by a shaper in Asbury park for you NJ kids. I can't remember the exact dimensions, but it has a bit more volume than most boards that length, gentle rocker, rounded pintail and the widest point is pushed to the front a little. It supposed to be designed for jersey conditions. I learned to pop up and basic stuff, and was beginning to learn to turn it but by then it was september and time for school. Then I tore my acl skiing and haven't been in the water since the end of september last year. Sad story boo hoo...
I caught on faster then my friends who had some experience but were on more pro shaped boards: really thin, more rocker and about the same length. And a wetsuit would be nice. I never had one, but even in june I wish I had something and yet sitting out there freezing my ass of was totally worth it. And don't worry about looking like a fool, I went out with about no experience (but coordination from skiing, skateboarding etc) and did fine. Most importantly I had fun. I stayed away from crowds though, until I could catch a wave properly. And you're in Nc, last time I was there the water was soooo warm.
And the funny thing is, even in the most crowded conditions I've seen at the break where I surf, the majority were older folks learning, and a couple of good older people. They were totally cool with me learning, since they kinda were too. No obnoxious 14 year olds who try to take every wave and screw up.