I left. Yeah I bailed on it. I'm done with that shit. The intentions were good but it quickly started on its path to being like the stereotype. Like seriously. So creepy and greasy and pointless rituals. My friends were transforming into complete douchebags in front of my eyes.
Last party we threw I was ashamed to be associated with my crew. Fingerbanging on the dancefloor, guys grabbing girls to under tables to make out with them, blowjobs in driveways and front lawns (including the neighbour's), people fucking in the closets, bathrooms, and back yard. Every legit girl was creeped out, and all the slutty ones were stoked.
Not my cup of tea. I envy those of you whose fraternities are chill and rad.