i did the tough mudder last year. it was the hardest thing ive done both physically and mentally. people on here who have never done anything like that try to play it down and make it seem easy, but they just dont have any idea what its like. i have to miss it this year because im not home when its happening, but in the future im definitely doing it again. it was a huge confidence booster and made me feel really genuinely tough. whenever im feeling shitty or sad, i look at my orange headband and say fuck yeah, im a tough mudder. i can do what ever the hell i want as long as i dont quit.