Someone tell me something worse that happened to them to make me feel better.

MeenaSmalls

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Be me

Second week in August loving my life enjoying summer with my friends and GF

Tuesday

Someone throw a glass 26 of Vodka (Manitoba term for a bottle of liquor) through my car window, and steals all my dads tax info that I had just picked up for him

Friday

Get a call from my mom telling me my childhood dog just died

Saturday Morning

GF breaks up with me and kicks me out of our house.

Someone please outdo me and make me feel better about the wack events that have unfolded recently.

**This thread was edited on Aug 29th 2021 at 11:54:24pm
 
I awoke this morning tu find all of the windows smashed out in my house. Naturally, I was pissed off and confused. Now imagine the confusion I had when I stepped off my bed and realized my house was upside down

fucken little jetskis shits that have been dropping me territory warnings really did something. Now I gotta deal with a tipped over house and a constant threat too my life
 
In March I broke my leg skiing alone at Keystone’s “Park”.

Since that day I’ve undergone 4 surgeries, fought infections, spent tens of thousands of dollars, missed 2 months of work, got hemorrhoids, lost $15,000 in the stock market, missed my entire summer, rent just went up $270/month here so now I have to move, I lost 20lbs and I haven’t walked, had a beer, or been able to drive since March 28th. So cry me a river.

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Havent had a girlfriend since 2015. Its been straight up rejections from that year on. Too depressing to keep track. It averages out 2-3 a year.

My neighbour, my closest friend and my biggest fan got word that she has terminal cancer. She found a lump in her breast this May. Im not sure if I will be home before she dies. Shes 66.

My family never bothered to send birthday wishes this year… again. It was 2 weeks ago.

I could be dead and no one would even notice. Thats how Ive been feeling the last few years.
 
14316033:STEEZUS_CHRI5T said:
In March I broke my leg skiing alone at Keystone’s “Park”.

Since that day I’ve undergone 4 surgeries, fought infections, spent tens of thousands of dollars, missed 2 months of work, got hemorrhoids, lost $15,000 in the stock market, missed my entire summer, rent just went up $270/month here so now I have to move, I lost 20lbs and I haven’t walked, had a beer, or been able to drive since March 28th. So cry me a river.

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Holy shit, is that the setup where they have to basically pull your bones back together?

There's a story of a guy who was biking and got hit by a car. He had to have that contraption on for like 7 years for the bones to grow back and reconnect. Whack
 
Oh my god. This thread is awful.

I know it’s not much but if any of you ever want to talk, feel free to reach out. I love connecting with people of all sorts and it’s nice to meet new people. We could all use a listening ear here and there to.

14316033:STEEZUS_CHRI5T said:
In March I broke my leg skiing alone at Keystone’s “Park”.

Since that day I’ve undergone 4 surgeries, fought infections, spent tens of thousands of dollars, missed 2 months of work, got hemorrhoids, lost $15,000 in the stock market, missed my entire summer, rent just went up $270/month here so now I have to move, I lost 20lbs and I haven’t walked, had a beer, or been able to drive since March 28th. So cry me a river.

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14316044:switchlip2 said:
My dad died of ALS in 2019

14316051:freestyler540 said:
Havent had a girlfriend since 2015. Its been straight up rejections from that year on. Too depressing to keep track. It averages out 2-3 a year.

My neighbour, my closest friend and my biggest fan got word that she has terminal cancer. She found a lump in her breast this May. Im not sure if I will be home before she dies. Shes 66.

My family never bothered to send birthday wishes this year… again. It was 2 weeks ago.

I could be dead and no one would even notice. Thats how Ive been feeling the last few years.
 
14316098:BradFiAusNzCoCa said:
Oh my god. This thread is awful.

I know it’s not much but if any of you ever want to talk, feel free to reach out. I love connecting with people of all sorts and it’s nice to meet new people. We could all use a listening ear here and there to.

agreed. my PMs are always open
 
Be me

Second week in August loving my life enjoying summer

Tuesday

Someone throw a glass 27 of Vodka (Manitoba term for a bottle of liquor) through my car window, and steals all my dads and moms tax info that I had just picked up for him

Friday

Get a call from my mom telling me my childhood father just died

Saturday Morning

Start dating some girl i met the night before. She tells me her boyfriend had a 26 of vodka thrown in his window. She also comes with a free house.
 
14316197:iced said:
Be me

Second week in August loving my life enjoying summer

Tuesday

Someone throw a glass 27 of Vodka (Manitoba term for a bottle of liquor) through my car window, and steals all my dads and moms tax info that I had just picked up for him

Friday

Get a call from my mom telling me my childhood father just died

Saturday Morning

Start dating some girl i met the night before. She tells me her boyfriend had a 26 of vodka thrown in his window. She also comes with a free house.

well deserved ban
 
14316090:JAHpow said:
Holy shit, is that the setup where they have to basically pull your bones back together?

There's a story of a guy who was biking and got hit by a car. He had to have that contraption on for like 7 years for the bones to grow back and reconnect. Whack

It was an external fixator meant to hold everything in place before the big surgery. It saved my foot/ankle.
 
14316098:BradFiAusNzCoCa said:
Oh my god. This thread is awful.

I know it’s not much but if any of you ever want to talk, feel free to reach out. I love connecting with people of all sorts and it’s nice to meet new people. We could all use a listening ear here and there to.

Thanks! I went through a couple of rough patches but everything will be okay. The injury and money hit have made me better off as a person in the long run.
 
i been dreading your friday

topic:MeenaSmalls said:
Be me

Second week in August loving my life enjoying summer with my friends and GF

Tuesday

Someone throw a glass 26 of Vodka (Manitoba term for a bottle of liquor) through my car window, and steals all my dads tax info that I had just picked up for him

Friday

Get a call from my mom telling me my childhood dog just died

Saturday Morning

GF breaks up with me and kicks me out of our house.

Someone please outdo me and make me feel better about the wack events that have unfolded recently.

**This thread was edited on Aug 29th 2021 at 11:54:24pm
 
Wow op im sorry you have had such bad news.

My uncle has metastatic cancer and has less than a year.

Suffering sucks but you can always connect with other ppl who have suffered because everybody suffers in life at some point. this is one of the things the dalai lama talks about at length in this book i have about his buddhist teachings.
 
Jfc sorry for all you guys misfortunes, I’m def not gonna say I have anyone beat, I don’t, but losing my father has affected me mentally, physically, emotionally and ugh, it’s been since 2016 and I’m still not even close to ok with it on any level, it caused me to start smoking cigarettes, stressed my body and just left me lonely and dead inside,it doesn’t matter how many people are around that love me, I feel alone and have never felt that type of joy, comfort, warmth, pride, or love again, cherish whatever and whoever you have guys, some things cannot be undone.
 
I bit into a jelly doughnut. It was not jelly. Some weird ass gross lemon or something. Haven't been the same since.

But for real. That's shitty, hang in there. Things suck pretty hard sometimes but somehow you'll come out alright.
 
14318381:theabortionator said:
I bit into a jelly doughnut. It was not jelly. Some weird ass gross lemon or something. Haven't been the same since.

But for real. That's shitty, hang in there. Things suck pretty hard sometimes but somehow you'll come out alright.

My uncle had a pizza place when I was growing up. He was a fat fuck who had a habit of eating employee's food they'd bring and leave in the walk-in cooler. One day a guy brought in a jelly donut and stuffed it to the brim with anchovies. Idk if my uncle learned his lesson but I bet he didn't fuck around with people's food for a while after that.
 
14318430:Biffbarf said:
My uncle had a pizza place when I was growing up. He was a fat fuck who had a habit of eating employee's food they'd bring and leave in the walk-in cooler. One day a guy brought in a jelly donut and stuffed it to the brim with anchovies. Idk if my uncle learned his lesson but I bet he didn't fuck around with people's food for a while after that.

Damn yeah. People who eat people's food suck. Luckily my roommates aren't bad about that the last few places I lived weren't bad about that.

The donut thing was my own bad, it was just some wierd shitty flavor one. But it looked like a normal jelly donut.
 
14318430:Biffbarf said:
My uncle had a pizza place when I was growing up. He was a fat fuck who had a habit of eating employee's food they'd bring and leave in the walk-in cooler. One day a guy brought in a jelly donut and stuffed it to the brim with anchovies. Idk if my uncle learned his lesson but I bet he didn't fuck around with people's food for a while after that.

i love that (it sounds like) he owned a pizza place and instead of getting food from that, he stole employees' food lmao
 
Seems like one of those brain fart moments , I mean that one coulda gone either way ?? ?, he’s not wrong, and I appreciate the “too soon “ humor, I mean I’ll crack dead baby jokes in front an abortion clinic or Texan church, but that comment seems to have been too real and current for some

14318727:SmartWater said:
what made you comment this
 
14316051:freestyler540 said:
Havent had a girlfriend since 2015. Its been straight up rejections from that year on. Too depressing to keep track. It averages out 2-3 a year.

My neighbour, my closest friend and my biggest fan got word that she has terminal cancer. She found a lump in her breast this May. Im not sure if I will be home before she dies. Shes 66.

My family never bothered to send birthday wishes this year… again. It was 2 weeks ago.

I could be dead and no one would even notice. Thats how Ive been feeling the last few years.

I would notice, you seem like a great person even though we have never met, and you are probably one of the most knowledgeable people when it comes to skiing on this site.
 
14318727:SmartWater said:
what made you comment this

Cuz there's always something worse. Op asked but no this didn't happen to me. It is happening though. What's hard to comprehend?
 
14318727:SmartWater said:
what made you comment this

14318754:SavageBiff said:
Seems like one of those brain fart moments , I mean that one coulda gone either way ?? ?, he’s not wrong, and I appreciate the “too soon “ humor, I mean I’ll crack dead baby jokes in front an abortion clinic or Texan church, but that comment seems to have been too real and current for some

Too soon lol? Definitely not what I was going for and not trying to be funny. I got more than a handful of comparibly fucked up things I've seen in the US I coulda typed too. The point is someone always has it worse than you.
 
14318780:HypeBeast said:
Too soon lol? Definitely not what I was going for and not trying to be funny. I got more than a handful of comparibly fucked up things I've seen in the US I coulda typed too. The point is someone always has it worse than you.

Except the one person who has it the worst. That sounds...bad.
 
Damn keep your head up homies.

I was chatting up this girl. Went on a couple dates, things are going well. She had told me that she had just gotten out of a long term relationship with some toxic ex. She just blocks me out of the blue over the weekend, I'm real confused but whatever.

Next thing I know I log onto Instagram and she's got some grid post with the ex.

F
 
Got back during covid with my ex fiancé who lives 16hours away.

Was completely dishonest with me this time and also was talking to her ex the whole time who she bashed.

Broke up because of it and they got married a few months after.

Found out yesterday they’re moving extremely close to me and I’ll probably have to see her at social things because of the people I introduced her to down here.

Was already heartbreaking to see someone who was my best friend for 5 years lie to me and treat me so poorly, but to see her face again with her husband around town / at parties seems like too much to handle.
 
I get that it’s normal for exes to see each other around, but it was someone I almost married. The audacity to feel comfortable moving right by me hurts, being as though not having to see her face was one of the only sources of comfort I’ve had.
 
Let me get this straight, so now you don't have to pay taxes, don't have to clean up dog shit and your a free man? Go me beat.
 
Tested positive for covid 36 hours before I'm supposed to fly home. Good chance I'll be missing my best friends wedding now.
 
14318902:Skiblade420 said:
Got back during covid with my ex fiancé who lives 16hours away.

Was completely dishonest with me this time and also was talking to her ex the whole time who she bashed.

Broke up because of it and they got married a few months after.

Found out yesterday they’re moving extremely close to me and I’ll probably have to see her at social things because of the people I introduced her to down here.

Was already heartbreaking to see someone who was my best friend for 5 years lie to me and treat me so poorly, but to see her face again with her husband around town / at parties seems like too much to handle.

Jesus christ man I am so sorry that's terrible. My ex lives a few blocks over and works at the bar my friends and I have always gone to. I got her the job and now I'm more or less blacklisted from the place, but still see her in the area all the time. Cant imagine how shitty your situation is.
 
14318966:SofaKingSick said:
oof. are you vaxed?

No, so thats the risk I ran. So far not feeling horrible, just really tired and a little feverish. Right now the inconvenience of it all is the worst part. Calling my friend and telling him I probably won't be at his wedding was the worst feeling I've ever had.
 
14318973:r00kie said:
No, so thats the risk I ran. So far not feeling horrible, just really tired and a little feverish. Right now the inconvenience of it all is the worst part. Calling my friend and telling him I probably won't be at his wedding was the worst feeling I've ever had.

yeah it's happened with a few friends of mine recently and in the non-vax cases the groom/bride have been pissed. i hope you'll consider getting vaxed now but of course in the meantime i hope you feel better soon
 
14318986:SofaKingSick said:
yeah it's happened with a few friends of mine recently and in the non-vax cases the groom/bride have been pissed. i hope you'll consider getting vaxed now but of course in the meantime i hope you feel better soon

Bride and groom seem to be okay with it and fairly understanding so that's good, not sure of their vax status either so that may be it lol. Pretty sure you have to wait 3 months or something after getting covid to get vaxed right? I was leaning towards getting vaxed but wanted to finish this trip I'm on so side affects didn't derail plans but here I am.
 
14318992:r00kie said:
Bride and groom seem to be okay with it and fairly understanding so that's good, not sure of their vax status either so that may be it lol. Pretty sure you have to wait 3 months or something after getting covid to get vaxed right? I was leaning towards getting vaxed but wanted to finish this trip I'm on so side affects didn't derail plans but here I am.

ha yeah aint that some irony. don't worry about the vax side effects, if you even get any they're not bad and they pass extremely quickly. i think you're just supposed to wait 3 months to get the vax if you get the monoclonal antibody or plasma treatments and i doubt that will be the case for you lol so def look into it once you're out of isolation
 
14318964:MeenaSmalls said:
Jesus christ man I am so sorry that's terrible. My ex lives a few blocks over and works at the bar my friends and I have always gone to. I got her the job and now I'm more or less blacklisted from the place, but still see her in the area all the time. Cant imagine how shitty your situation is.

Man that’s rough too. Burn that bar down! Haha
 
I think they say that because it’s like a 1-2 punch to the immune system having both at same time

14318992:r00kie said:
Bride and groom seem to be okay with it and fairly understanding so that's good, not sure of their vax status either so that may be it lol. Pretty sure you have to wait 3 months or something after getting covid to get vaxed right? I was leaning towards getting vaxed but wanted to finish this trip I'm on so side affects didn't derail plans but here I am.
 
There was a new girl in my class/grade who just transferred. Today was her second day, her schedule had been completely changed, so she had no clue where any of her classes were and showed up to most of them late, knows no one in the school and just sits there alone in class when everyone else is talking to people, and ate lunch all alone. Pretty shit way to start your first few days of your sophomore year in highschool
 
Invite her to eat / hang with you and your friends! I’m sure she’d appreciate it

14319214:WoFlowz said:
There was a new girl in my class/grade who just transferred. Today was her second day, her schedule had been completely changed, so she had no clue where any of her classes were and showed up to most of them late, knows no one in the school and just sits there alone in class when everyone else is talking to people, and ate lunch all alone. Pretty shit way to start your first few days of your sophomore year in highschool
 
Invite her to eat / hang with you and your friends! I’m sure she’d appreciate it

14319214:WoFlowz said:
There was a new girl in my class/grade who just transferred. Today was her second day, her schedule had been completely changed, so she had no clue where any of her classes were and showed up to most of them late, knows no one in the school and just sits there alone in class when everyone else is talking to people, and ate lunch all alone. Pretty shit way to start your first few days of your sophomore year in highschool
 
14319215:Skiblade420 said:
Invite her to eat / hang with you and your friends! I’m sure she’d appreciate it

Yeah I probably shoulda I at least said hi and introduced myself cause we have all but two periods together and our last names are next to each other in the alphabet so we sit next to each other in almost every class. Fuckin Covids still going around here so we have assigned seats in highschool ?
 
14319218:WoFlowz said:
Yeah I probably shoulda I at least said hi and introduced myself cause we have all but two periods together and our last names are next to each other in the alphabet so we sit next to each other in almost every class. Fuckin Covids still going around here so we have assigned seats in highschool ?

u are so young its crazy
 
update on my situation:

After 2 months of me doing what my ex was wanting me to do, before she would want to get back together, to better myself. (Drinking less, going to therapy, working on myself) I find out she has a new boyfriend, and that he will probably be moving in with her, in our old house down the street from where I reside currently. Also had her randomly text me and let me know that all of the furniture that she was storing for me (we had agreed on this) was now to be found on the front lawn. So yesterday I got to go pick up my bed frame, couch, bbq, all from her front lawn while she and her new boyfriend more than likely enjoyed watching struggling to load it all up and to add a cherry on top. She informed me that the wifi that I had left for her to use as my new spot has wifi already was going to be cancelled and I am being left with the 350$ bill. I cant do anything though as the Bar that she recently got hired at happens to be my friends and I's favourite spot where we have gone for years, and I made the dumb call of helping her get hired there when we were together, and now she has the power to ban me if she feels like it.
 
14334166:MeenaSmalls said:
update on my situation:

After 2 months of me doing what my ex was wanting me to do, before she would want to get back together, to better myself. (Drinking less, going to therapy, working on myself) I find out she has a new boyfriend, and that he will probably be moving in with her, in our old house down the street from where I reside currently. Also had her randomly text me and let me know that all of the furniture that she was storing for me (we had agreed on this) was now to be found on the front lawn. So yesterday I got to go pick up my bed frame, couch, bbq, all from her front lawn while she and her new boyfriend more than likely enjoyed watching struggling to load it all up and to add a cherry on top. She informed me that the wifi that I had left for her to use as my new spot has wifi already was going to be cancelled and I am being left with the 350$ bill. I cant do anything though as the Bar that she recently got hired at happens to be my friends and I's favourite spot where we have gone for years, and I made the dumb call of helping her get hired there when we were together, and now she has the power to ban me if she feels like it.

When most girls suggest a break I’ve found it’s kind of just kind of an easier way for them to breakup fully / might have had someone in their sights.

Seems a bit quick to go from living with someone romantically to then two months later having someone else move in?

Idk regardless keep your head up and keep working on yourself, it might be hard now but you want someone that you can truly rely on in the long run / not do crappy things like mooching your WiFi money or not giving you notice about your furniture.

If you take the right steps you’ll find someone better for you. Keep talking to your friends and getting help if you need it
 
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