Some help with the ladies!

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Sigg

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ive been browsing this site for a while but untill now i didnt have a screen name, but i decided that i need to post this.

so anyways, im 16, and i havent had a girlfriend for a while. Ive hooked up before, but havent gone any further than that. There is this girl that is basically in love with me, and she's not that bad of a person and we have fun hanging out together, so im considering taking it a step further with her. She doesnt live in the same town as me, but is in the same town over, and we ski at the same mountain (got me a skier!! haha). She is also into the same sport as me, so were together alot. Were going to see the Borat Movie today, so that should be fun. She also asked me to go to her cottilean (we dont have them at my school, but its a dance that you need to go to with a tux and stuf, pretty big i guess) in december.

my question is: how do i "initiate" the relationship? should i just start hanging out with her alot or what? also, obviously (or at least i think) that hooking up during borat isnt the best idea (just because of the nature of the movie), but how long should i wait untill i do? How long after we start hooking up do you think its ok to take it further (hand jobs/ blowjobs/ sex/ whatever else)? I would think that i should talk to her about that last part though, if the relationship ends up working otu how i plan.

any help would be apreciated, and as you can guess im not too experianced with girls...
 
the ladies men is mostly full of 12 year olds who havent ever talked to a girl(mostly not all) DONT go to long without hooking up with her and you will be too much of a friend to be a boyfriend, do you have your drivers license? if she lives far away its gonna be annoying if you cant get there.
 
oh ya i forgot to ask this. were going to see a movie today, who pays for her ticket? were not goingn out (yet) but should i pay, or offer to pay or what?
 
so wait you have a girl friend, but you wanna go out with this girl instead? or are you talking bout the same person
 
if you want to start a relationship, hit her head with a brick and put it in her butt, it's the best way to show her you care.
 
Go to the movie, have fun...if there is a good vibe at the end of the night then make a move, just a kiss. You should know from there.
 
I have a hard time believing that anyone who joins a cult about girls on a skiing website prob doesn't see a vagina in real life very often.
 
i hate to say it but the people in this forum know more about what they are saying than the people in ladies men but ur not gonna get any advice here. but you can tell that the people here know what they are talking about. i think its cuz the peopel that obses about getting girls dont get any
 
yeah, definetely the right moment!

No, seriously, I´d just hang around with her a lot, someday there`ll be the right moment to kiss her or whatever...
 
here is some advice.

1. grow some balls

2. grow some bigger balls

3. don't go on a skiier website to ask for girl help... kind of pathetic
 
thank you asshole

if you havent realized, there is a whole cult made for this (and its pretty popular i hear) so apparently its not that pathetic
 
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I have to say that this cult really is the only one that truly is worth joining.. its really popular, and from what I see, it gives great advice. If I were you, I wouldn't dis this cult unless I got the chance to take a good look at it. Hell, this cult makes Newschoolers.com worth joining just for the cult!
 
1...2...1.2.3.4 smoking weed smoking weed doing coke drinkin beers drinkin beers beers beers rolling fatties smoking blunts who smokes da blunts? we smoke da blunts...
 
hand jobs are lame, if i wanted to i could give myself a handjob, BJ's are the way to go if your looking for a quickie
 
my advice, is dont force anything. go with the flow. it sounds goofy, but in all honesty, if you plan shit out, wait, worry, and then try to recreate your plan, it will fail. sounds like a cool chick, so go out with her, have some fun, and go with the flow. if theres chemistry, youll feel it, and if at the end of the night, youll know whether or not to kiss her. the key is to just go into it confiedent, your just going out to have some fun, so be yourself! if you 2 click, then sweet, you very well may have found a girl. if not, you have a cool friend and a fun night.

as for initiating the relationship, thats up to you. formal way: you wanna continue dating? or informal. of course, i like the informal, where it just happens, and there arnt any of those blocky transitions, but that CAN lead to trouble if your not careful.
 
dont worry about anything yet, just hang out with her and see what kind of vibe you get. dont rush into a relationship. but if you do get serious with her you might want to take it a little slower than normal with hooking up, it seems weird but its worth it.

oh and LADIES MEN CULT IS LAAAAME
 
Why would you say it's lame...Just to look like you know everything about relationships and sex?

Let me tell you buddy, everyone needs help with this stuff at some time or another, I don't care who you are. Dr. Phil has to ask people for advice sometimes too. My implications tell me that you believe you think you are "above" the members of the ladies men cult simply because you don't feel the need to share one of your problems. Well someday scooter you're going to find yourself in a mess with a relationship and you're going to want some help or other individual understanding, but until then, keep thinking you are the shit.
 
just look this girl you like in the eyes with a nice manly smile like bob saget, then say with confidence "hey baby I like you alot then ask her to go out with you" ITS THAT EASY!

but if she turns you down just fucking headbut her and run!
 
u gotta get her drunk and then finger her butt. thats the new hot thing girls like. if u do that she will love u and then ask her out
 
naw man im sorry i didnt mean it at all like that... what i think is lame is the "ladies men" idea... it gives the impression that the founders think they are ladies men. if it was called "the lady help cult" or something more fitting to what the cults really about i wouldnt have called it lame. we cool? cool.
 
you said she basically loves you. ok there you go dude you cant screw it up. just tell her you think she is really cool then go in for a peck. easy.
 
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