So this girl is confusing me

Mezmerize19

Mezmerize19

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Okay so there is this girl named Ashley who is confusing the

hell out of me. Lets go back to when I first met her about 5 weeks ago. At

first I though she was just a shy girl. From the beginning I knew I was going

to be a friend of hers but now I kinda like her. I do a lot of stuff for her

like put her bag in homeroom for her and give her some of my lunch if shes on

line waiting for hers (it can get pretty big and a long wait). Now Im thinking

she likes me cause for the past week or so shes been asking me to walk to class

for her and shes leaning her head on my shoulder and such. Now im a nice guy and

consider that she already has a boyfriend and don’t get too attached until the

dance on Friday where we had a good time. From there I really liked her and

everyones like do you like her and im saying no until today when her friend

comes up to me and is like do you like Ashley? Im like I cant cause she has a

boyfriend. Shes like well she broke up with him today. I have a little 3 second

party in my head and go back to my lunch. She comes back, five stars me on the

back and is like you should go talk to Ashley. Im like SHIT! That hurt! And go

turn around too see Ashley who I though I was going to have to walk over to her

table to talk too. We walk out of lunch together and I go to go to my locker

and shes like no come and walk with me to class(which is the complete opposite side

of the school I need to be in) . I would have but shes wouldn’t be a good

excuse as to why im late to class so im like I have to go to gobal so ill see

you later. So I put two and six and 8 together and come to the conclusion that

she likes me. So I go to my other friend and am like Hey guess who likes me? Shes

like Ashley? Im like yeah surprise eh? She like no not really. So I go the rest

of the day (which is like 5 periods) feeling good about myself thinking that I

should stick with the skier semi-metal head scene cause its getting me

somewhere (although I got laughed at in study by some hardcore kids for this

list of bands I made for this girl and God forbid like like bands like The Go!

Team and Royksopp.) I get on the train to go home and my friend is like you

like Ashley right? Im like yeah. Shes like Well I told her you thought she

liked you and she was like I don’t want him to think that. And she wanted to

know if I liked her. From there I was like WTF!?. So you wanna

help a fellow NS out with this?
 
how old are you? why are you finding out whether she likes you through friends? ever try talking it out with her?
 
how old are you? why are you finding out whether she likes you through friends? ever try talking it out with her?
 
you need the ladies men!

thats all I can say, actually above the ladies men you probably need scratch*my*back.. she knows everything about relationboats.
 
I agree...Talk with Steph...But seriously man she wants it. I know how shit is in HS, she just said she didnt want you to think that cause she wants you to go talk to her. Ask her out fool, you really like her and she does to. JUST DO IT!!!

Write us tomorrow to let us know you 2 are together. If you arent by tomorrow...well
 
Well its not like im asking my friends to ask her. She asked her on her own. And I guess I should PM Scratch then now shouldnt I?
 
WEll an invite would be nice.

And I even went the extra mile to bring her stuff to english when she was sick RobbieA!
 
Could be possibly that she only saw you as a friend. And she was as close to you as she was because she knew she had a bf and you wouldn't do anything with her because of it. She could trust you and have the closeness from you as a bf without the actual worries of anything physical.
 
Pull her aside tomorrow somewhere out of the way so its mostly just you and her. Look her in the eyes and lean in slightly. If she likes you then thats a prompt to a kiss, which would affirm things. However, if she doesnt, or is confused about her feelings for you, then she wont make a move. If she doesnt, then just continue the move in and just play it off like you were sharing something private with her, something that you didnt want everyone else to hear. Its high school (or junior high, damn you kids are young), so there should be some gossip around or something that you can wisper in her ear.
 
^making the first kiss at school? i dont know if thats the greatest idea. Since your into the whole talking to friends thing try talking to her best friend if your tight with her theyre usualy honest and wont fuck you over too bad. If not tell them you really like her but your not sure if your friendship is worth risking if she doesnt. Less risky of a way of asking or sayin you like her
 
fucking learn to type you pubesent fool, and shit up about asking NS about your crap. you need someone to tell you everything in life?
 
dude, just ask her out...wats the worst that can happen? she says no and u look/feel like an idiot for a week, maybe 2 then life goes back to normal
 
dude who goes on line to get lunch? What the fuck kind of school do you go to, internet school?
 
and did the five star hurt? Did it? Well I hope it did because you just took precious moments out of my life by adding it to this god damn story!
 
do you know how fuckind funny it would be if someone said that to somebody face to face in real life?
 
if you dont talk to her about it soon all those fucking noobs who keep gossiping all over it are gunna screw it up for you and make it very awkward.
 
^word. yea i havent heard shit like that happen since fuckin middle school. all that stuff is grom as fuck.
 
Learn to use proper grammar you pubesCent fool. "Shit up"?? What the fuck is wrong with you? You stupid fuck cant even spell "shut" right. And where the fuck are your capitals? Jesus Christ you are clearly a stupid immature fuck and possibly the biggest hypocrite in NS history.

So fuck you d-loc.
 
Thread starter is from New York... I am assuming global is short for Global Studies. If I remember from that long ago, that was like 9th grade social studies.

As for the situation. You need to pull your sack down a little, so your balls have dropped, and just ask her out. Don't pussy out on shit. If you like her legitimately, your friendship won't last as a friendship either way. Either you ask, she says yes, or no. You don't ask, and shit self destructs because you become a complete psycho.

Oh, and I lol'd at D-loc, and then a second time at D-loc getting owned.
 
Reading comprehension was never really your strong point, was it?

Read his first post again. It clearly states that the chick broke up with her boyfriend.
 
I'm pretty sure he was kidding.I was definitely kidding with my belligerent posts up there.
 
first of all, your friends a dick, and I would beat the crap out of him cause why the fuck would he take that into his own hands and talk about it... either hes a dick or a dumbass... anyways, give her time, she just broke up with her boyfriend she needs like a week at least to get used to it
 
woww definitely been in this situation before, like i'm not the kind of person that always has boyfriends, and i very rarely do, I much rather enjoy having lots of guy friends, and being really close and friendly with them, can sometimes be mistaken as flirting, which is what it sounds like in your case, and it sucks but thats life, guys think girls are complicated, and girls think guys are complicateed, good luck to you tho
 
no i dont think so. if it was anyone else thats what id assume but with d-loc he doesnt kid like that.
 
its a girl thing, if she says she likes him then he opens herself up the the possibility of rejection- hence the vulnerability
 
oh and the thread, flippin go up to her and be straight up and say you hate mixed messages cause thier gay
 
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