So there's a cute coffee shop girl...

try your best to time it so youre not that douche who asks out the coffee girl in some wannabe sly manner, if she's good looking she probably gets that shit often. just chat her up and if she's feeling you ask her if she wants to ________ blank some time and get her number
 
Nothing to lose, right? Just smile and ask if she'd like to go out soon - if she looks like a hipster, you can ironically ask her out for a coffee.
 
hey I work at a coffee shop!

if a hot girl ever comes in and orders a latte or something I'm going to write my number on the side of the cup and give it to her. Hasn't happened yet though :(
 
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she texted me.
 
i was just gonna suggest that as soon as she hands you your steaming hott cup of coffee you jam your dick in it and stare intensely into her eyes to show her your incredible pain tolerance and resolve.

but i guess if your method already worked thats alright too.
 
i think this is the most ive laughed in an NS thread. ever.

but anyway

First date?
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didn't see this before.. IMO "id like to hang out some time" is good for that, nice and casual but direct

and of course she didnt text you right away, come on man! mental warfare
 
also, similiar question to the op but vice versa. i work in a ice cream shop, how do i go about picking up a customer without being the creepy ice cream guy
 
how did this blow up so quickly, i actually know you and just heard about this.
fuck i didnt even get in and tell you to peee in her buttt
first date: the ol movie with your dick through a box of popcorn?
 
pretty sure i'd just ask her...

my gf is a waitress and gets that shit from literally almost every table that she waits on. it's pretty cheesy and the dudes that do it are usually creepy as fuck lol
 
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I'm with you...the whole "I'd be down" and some of the other phrasing sounds completely corny and borderline douchey. Handing a girl your number then explaining that you'd be down with hanging out is cringe worthy.

Also, I don't know why so many of you think him giving her his number, unsolicited, is a good play...it's not.

How about you go to the cafe regularly, start some witty banter, make small talk, feel her out/determine if there's a little bit of chemistry (at least superficially), and then ASK for her number. Giving your number is a bad idea for a bunch of reasons, the big two being that 1.) it's "safe" and rejection proof (thus showing a lack of confidence) and her accepting your number in no way guarantees she'll call. 2.) even if she's interested or at least intrigued by you, she may not call out of her own fear or insecurity. Sure, plenty of girls will call a guy, but a lot of gals like being pursued or at least sold on the idea that you're worth their time. Giving your number is a gamble, and doesn't really send a self-assured, confident message.

So, scrap this give her your number in a cute clever way...that's bad teen movie romcom bullshit, and step up to the plate AFTER you've already established something of a friendly relationship. Ask her name, ask her a few casual, not too personal or nosy questions. Especially if you're new to the area, size her up and ask her questions about the area, things to do, places to go, blah blah...if you're charming, funny, and engaging, you're probably in unless she's gots a man. At the end of a particularly fun convo whilst she's brewing your joe and the cafe isn't busy, just tell her how much you enjoy chatting with her and that you'd love to see her outside of the cafe...whoever said to ask her to coffee.....bahahaha...she's a fucking barista, the last thing she needs is a coffee date....
 
One time i went out to Chilli's to watch a Lions game with my dad. And we had this fine ass waitress, we were eye fucking each other through the whole duration i was there. My dad noticed and said are u gonna get this skanks number? If not im going to disown you and get it for myself. So i said, chill bro, i got this...And i left my number and a note on a napkin as i left. And about 2 weeks later we had sex /claim.
 
I read through, saw what happened, and I honestly think you pretty much blew it. Is that what the kids do today? You should've just given her your facebook or your AIM, that way it could be as un-intimate as humanly possible.
 
any text yet? nothing like a great success story. Ladies Men is a great forum for this too, if you were looking for some serious responses.
 
I think he said that she texted him earlier in the thread? But there was also an image attatched and im at school and cant see what that image is so....school may be trolling me.
 
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