So my life sucks

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Hawaii

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Seriously i am pretty miserable. Over the past year my family situation has gotten so bad. I am not making the best choices and giving up so much for this one guy which i know i shouldn't do but he means a lot to me and i dont want to lose him. We fight constantly and always make up but some hurt always lingers but it hurts more when we are apart. But in giving up things for him, my parents are getting pissed. My dad and i have no relationship all he does is yell. Hes rarely around because he works so much and yells at me for everything granted i havent been the best daughter but my parents are hard asses. They tell me to grow up and never give me the chance. I honestly want my father out of my life. My mom tries to make things better but shes terrible at it. All they do is bitch about me and how i am ruining ym life and how the real world will crash down on me. They dont get that instead of spending so called "family time" i would rather be alone or out doing my own thing. I want to fix some of this but i really have no motivation and i end up getting shitted on and yeah im a girl we're emotional as fuck sometimes but i am really miserable and not sure how to fix it. This boy is one of the few people i have to turn to and i dont think i can afford to give that up.
 
Here's what I do when I think my life sucks.

I consider this:

Do I live Africa, an orphan because of AIDS, hungry and constantly running from my government, who is in the middle of a genocide? Nope! My life ain't so bad.

Try it, it works.
 
just tough it out until you get to college, then youll be free...and you can do what you want.
 
that's the not the kind of life i think about when i picture hawaiian people.

while im posting here, are there any other words like "aloha" you can teach me. i wanna sound awesome in front of my friends and tell them that i know someone from hawaii.
 
exactly. my parents were massive hard asses on me when i was a bit younger, and im SOOO glad they kicked my ass into shape. its hard to do, but now that i look back, my parents were right in just about all the advice they ever gave me. they were kids too! shit, some of the stories theyve told me, they partied way harder. they are prolly right about that guy too. not to say you wont fight in a relationship, but it shouldnt be common enough to make a note of it. my guess, is you are so hung up in the thought that this guy means something to you, that you forget that hes an asshole.

but anyway, your parents are 100% right. dont give up on shit cause of a guy. in a few years you will be kicking yourself in the ass cause of it. your parents have passed up the same kind of oppertuinities in their life, and are trying to keep you from screwing up something very valuable to you. and if you dont like them being hardasses, grow up. once i kinda realized that things were important, and i started listening to them and doing the right things, my rents got cool as hell. they are super fun to hang with now, and me and my pop always have a few brews when i come home.
 
my life doesnt such im just a douchebag..have everything handed to me go to one of the top sports schools. dont have good enough marks to get into the schools that would want me. so ya life doesnt suck im just a fuckin moron who's parents are not gonna look at me once i graduate but i wouldnt say life sucks. atleast ill be fucked in a 1st world country.
 
First of all,

you're being a fucking drama queen. You DO need to grow up. I'm sure your parents have good reason for yelling at you, you are probably just being selfish and unreasonable. Your parents sound like they are trying to make it work for you. I bet they give you a great fucking life and you take everything for granted. Seriously, grow up.
 
ehhhhhhhh, I hate when people think they have it soooo bad. If your parents are so terrible then why dont you just get the fuck out?
 
What are you giving up for your boyfriend?

Is he asking you to give them up?

Don't give up stuff you want to do for your boyfriend. If he's so great he'll understand.
 
First off, you said yourself you shouldn't be putting yourself out therer for your bf so much and you constantly fight and are constantly getting hurt. Why the fuck are you ignoring your parents. By the sounds of it, you're just agreeing with what they're saying. Grow up and get out of the relationship. It's easy to fix things right now. Yeah breaking things off fucking hurts for awhile, but you said it yourself you're getting hurt in the relationship too.

He might as well be beating on you too.
 
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