heres some useful information about transvestites for the future so none of use end up like the OP:
The proportion of length between the pointer and ring fingers on a male and female are different.
Males:Pointer is shorter than the ring finger
Females:Pointer is longer than the ring finger.
When someone undergoes the process of changing sexes, most never take the time to do surgery on and spend the money on changing the length of the fingers because its not worth not having the use of your hands while they heal. You can always tell if a chick is actually a dude by checking the length of their fingers. That way, your friends can't take ridiculous pictures of you making out with a suspected male when your trashed a bar.