So I need some insight.

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shortdawg

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So this is gonna sound weird but I'm kind of at a loss for words right now. Basically I just found out that one of my close friends is confused. I don't really have a problem with this, but heres where it gets kinda fucked up. I was talking to the confused friend on msn and he decided to tell me some stuff that I probably shouldn't have heard.
So him and another one of my close friends apparently chilled one Friday a couple weeks ago and got high (keep in mind that my other close friend is straight, or so I thought) and apparently my 'straight' friend came onto my confused friend. Long story short they ended up jacking each other off and sucking each others dicks. I have no idea why my confused friend admitted this to me but now I'm kinda sketched out because my 'straight' friend doesn't know that I know, and it's really awkward around him.
To give you some background they're both 16 and I've known them both for like 5+ years. Should I confront my 'straight' friend about this, should I tell someone? Now I'm kinda sketched to chill with him because God knows what he might try to pull. I'm not making this shit up :/
what to do....

 
well i doubt that he will forcibly give you an erection and jack you off so your safe there but that is pretty strange. talk to the confused one more first. i dunno about handling the straight one though

 
talk to your guidance counselor? hhaa I dunno thats pretty fucked man. Probably they will come out eventually and everything will go back to normal, just youll have an extra gay friend?
 
I'm not dude I have no problem with gay people.. but like I chill with these guys and I'd like some closure on the situation cuz it's awkward for me
 
Just talk to them. I'm sure they'd want you to keep it a secret, but tell 'em you know and it ain't no thang.
 
honestly, who gives a fuck...i have had similar situations happen with my friends and it really doesn't change anything, being upfront is always the best choice
 
You would be surprised at how often this happens.
Don't worry about it, neither of them are going to rape you or anything, and unless you want it nothing will happen lol.
If they're confused, just be cool about it. They'll sort it out one way or another. The best thing you can do is to not make a huge deal about it. This doesn't mean that you shouldn't talk to them though - if you feel you need to discuss it with them then go for it. The only likely result of you being supportive with them is that you'll get 2 really good lifelong friends.
 
you should start being really homophobic, talking a ton of shit around him, call him a cocksucker jokingly. I bet he imagines sucking you off whenever he sees you.
 
Because one day people woke up and were like "holy fuck, my friend is gay! Maybe I should stop being such a bitch about gay people, he's a pretty cool guy." If you have any amount of friends in life there is an extremely high chance that this will happen to you.
 
Don't listen to him, they are both 100% going to rape you, most likely multiple times

but seriously, i would just tell them both that you want to hang out with them on a friday after school or something, go grab some coffee (or some beers if you're into that drankin' thing), sit with them on a bench in a park, etc... and just talk about what you know, let them both know that you don't care and you still want to be their close friends, just talk about the issues that both you and they might have, that's the only way to work this thing out
 
Word, this seems like the best plan. It not going to be easy, and its not going to be fun, but talking to them both 1 on 1, face to face will make things go much smoother than anything else you can do.
 
i mean its better than seventh anyway. when i was in seventh i got curious and blew my friend and things just got weird
 
treat it the same as you would if it was an awkward situation involving females. just keep your mouth shut, big time. let them work it out, and if they come to you... then deal with it....right now there is no reason to tell anyone.
it is their own business, if you can be mature and keep silent for now then you have no worries.
 
boom shacka lacka

honestly, just forget about it. shit like that happens SO OFTEN, and nobody really talks about it. shit just happens. bring it up one time, they'll probably be a ton more embarrassed than you, check the motive if you're genuinely interested, and then just drop it.

this is what i'm talkin bout SHIT GETS CRAZY WHEN YOO GET HAAAH
 
So I asked the straight kid about it, and he got super defensive so I was just like whatever just letting you know I won't judge you. But then that kid got super pissed at the confused kid for telling me and was like texting him calling him a sick fuck and saying he wants to kill him and shit. So yeah maybe I should have just not said shit

 
haha "confused"

What was he confused about? The difference between a penis and a vagina?

Sounds like your friends are gay bro.
 
they may be gay or bi, but you're straight. so i don't know what the problem is with being their friend.

yea it may be shocking at first since you have known them for so long, but it doesn't change any of the good times you've had with them before that. still the same people. now they just suck dick.

 
lets get this clear... If he blew another dude he's definitely not "the straight kid". and yup. you definitely shouldn't have said anything. or you should have talked to both of them at the same time. I mean... you couldn't have expected him to just accept that calmly. If he's trying to act like he's straight and somebody comes up to him and is like "yo I know you sucked this dude's dick" he's probably gonna freak the fuck out.

whatever... whats done is done I guess. I just hope the "confused" friend doesn't get his ass beat. I'm sure it will blow over eventually (no pun there). Maybe now that its out in the open between you 3 you should sit down with both of them and have a chat about it. Just let them know you don't care and you're not going to say anything to anyone and leave it at that.

so basically the moral of the story is...

smoking weed makes you gay?

I hope not... cuz if so, I'm so deep in the closet I'll never find my way out.
 
if thats the way he wants to play it.

i think best would be to talk about it with your friends, so its not the elephant in the room every time you hang out with them.
 
screw it I'm going to revelstoke to cat ski with other friends for a few days so hopefully when I get back it'll just have sorta blown over. just remembered they both have NS accounts so hopefully they don't read this lmao
 
It would help if you specified the type of confusion initially. I spent the first, and most of the second paragraphs thinking your friend was confused in the same way Psyduck was confused.
 
you say confront your friend like he has a heroin problem. if you want to talk to your "straight friend" then ask your bicurious buddy. he's still your friend if he's gay, and just because someone's gay doesn't mean they're attracted to you. my friend just confessed she has a crush on this lesbian at work, not the lipstick lesbian either, and i said, if it makes you happy, go for it. i'd be proud of you.
 
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