That'd all be great if any of it were true, but in fact, it's ass backwards.
Freeskiing is in no way a tighter communtiy than snowboarding. That's ridiculous. Snowboarding has a way larger community that is far more in touch with it's indentity as a sport. Snowboarding has solidified it's place in the action sports community, while freeskiing continues to struggle. Case in point: 2006 X Games ski-slopestyle cancellation. Nobody cared except for people on this site.
The majority of the newschoolers community is OBSESSED with what is "cool". That is why you see threads reading: "Shawn White did this!" or "MFM did that!" or "what do snowboarders think?" Do you honestly believe there is anyone, in any other sport other than ours, talking about how smooth Jon Olsson is?
And to say we don't have "gapers" or "posers"? Uh, have you been to a resort lately? And "copiers"? Do you think freeskiing made up the terms "cab", "rodeo" or "misty"? And that's a small example.
Because freeskiing has yet to fully reach it's potential (if it ever will), it will always be searching for a place (i.e. RESPECT) in the action sports community. Not to say it hasn't made huge strides in the last 5 years, but there's a long way to go.
You said it yourself, people need to ski because it is fun and stop worrying what everyone else is doing, including other skiers.
Until then, I think it was MFM that said it best: "Skiing will always be gay. Just look at Newschoolers.com and you'll see why."