I think you're misunderstanding my point. I'm not saying a good film is one that abides by some sort of Hollywood criteria, or any criteria at all. My gripe is that they fail to break free from a mold. Pornography, Michael Bay, and action sports films are all criticized because they are redundant and, like I said, regurgitated.
I agree that the Hollywood aesthetic criteria can be very pretentious, and just because I expect at the very least some sort of quality craftsmanship doesn't mean I condone this pretense. I'm just saying the people need to stop blindly following the internet definitions and "rules" bullshit and define their craft through personal experience. Among the high-production values one can find great diversity, from Aronofsky to Tarsem to Kaufman to Fincher...all these directors have brought something new to the table. What do you see in action sports films? Follow cams, "film burns", fake tilt shift, unjustified shallow DOF, the list goes on...
I will have to disagree with your conception of what makes a film successful. That sort of logic may seem like an attractive solution to the problem, but in reality I just don't find it feasible. By that model, we should give equal praise and respect to both a porno with 1 million views and an Aronofsky film. Does an internet meme carry the same prestige as a Salvidor Dalí painting because it was successful in making people laugh, just like Dalí's work was successful in providing artistic inspiration? Do we lump funny cat videos and Mozart into the same category simply because they're achieved their purpose, regardless of how different and unrelated that purpose was?
Furthermore, wouldn't it be a bit of a far stretch to assume that all ski videos assume the same role, or are merely for the purpose of entertainment or escapism, as you said? Isn't it possible that there are other, alternative motives behind why someone might enjoy them? I know I personally don't give a shit about watching skiing; it's just an excuse for me to film mountains.