Sitting next to random girls on benches at college

c-wayne

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is this a good way to try and meet random hotties in ns's opinion? i think it shows you got some serious balls and confidence and if your decent looking and are not completely stupid at starting convos this should work great. or would it be creepy? (wants girls opinions for this too lol)
 
it could be creepy if you're a creep. always make sure that people have an out, and you are in a public place so that they are comfortable in the situation. also join a club... then you find 'hotties' with similar interests
 
steps to being a ballsy college student who picks up girls on benches:

1. walk by the bench that hot girl is on

2. turn around slowly, walk back past the bench

3. pretend to look for other benches

4. sit down next to her

5. take out phone and pretend to text but you don't have anyone to text or any new texts

6. have your head turned so far away from her that you can't even see her through peripheral vision

7. get up and leave very slowly

8. give yourself an invisible high five for just getting laid
 
Hey, I'm kyle has been my pickup line these first 3 weeks of freshman year and its been working great. Just be confident seeing as if you fuck up, just go pick another one, theres plenty to go around. Just try to avoid being too friendly or you'll be limp dicked for good.
 
9. bump into random dude as you're getting up and drop you shit on the ground

11. random dude helps you up

12. random dude starts talking to girl

I hate benches
 
talking to anyone is how you meet people i used to go around my town and do it all the time with girls. i did it so much in fact i learned picking up girls is a skill you can work on and get better at it.
 
Sit down next to her and light up a cigarette. Blow the smoke in her direction forcing her to say something to you. You've now initiated conversation, and only a few key steps from getting laid..
 
I would just assume that a guy sitting down next to me means that he would like to not be standing anymore.

You gotta take the next steps. Talk, get her number, follow through.
 
no not really most people i know when they see a hot girl on the side walk don't go up to them and say hi to them.
 
fuck moble meant to end that sentience on hi. most people are just afraid of getting rejected, but after a while you just start to say fuck it idc if i get stood up in front of 20 random people.
 
For the first week or two of my freshman year of college I would sit down next to random girls and spark up a conversation. I ended up getting pretty good at it too. This one time I sat down at a table and just started talking to this group. Eventually we introduced ourselves and the girls were surprised and impressed that I didn't know anybody there. I sat down with so much confidence that they thought I was one of them.

After the first few weeks of doing this I had enough numbers that I really didnt need to do it anymore(especially since its not the best way to find hot girls). As soon as you number close a decent up kept looking girl text her. Ask about hanging out. Odds are she is going to want to bring her friends. BOOM you just met a group of smoking hot girls with little effort
 
I remember when I was 12. I don't see what all the fuss is about. Just talk to strangers, fuck it. If they aren't cool then fuck em(not literally or maybe) Idk. I enjoy striking up conversation with complete strangers.

All your best friends were once complete strangers at some point.
 
Only do this if the situation warrants it. You'll scare a lot of girls away by being so up front, whether they think you're cute or not. They may be struggling with confidence issues too and not really know how to reply back to you, causing a mad awkward situation.

Compliment something about them real quickly and don't press the conversation. The'll usually continue the conversation if they want to. Or find a common interest. Clothing brands, band t-shirt maybe, text books, etc... Pretend you like something if you have to (later on you can tell them you pretended to like something just to talk to them, and they'll love it, trust me). You're just looking for common ground to begin a conversation.

On that note, it's about time I asked for a "Ladies Men" cult invite. Anyone want to hook one up?
 
I can't wait to go back to school in Ottawa this winter. My gameplan is the same every year. First day of classes I make sure to sit beside whichever gorgeous girl has an empty seat beside her. Then I can just talk to her about the prof and what we think the class is going to be like. It's a really good way to meet girls, but if you mess it up or have no game you will likely end up in the friend zone.
 
Truthfully the best even if they dont think you are cute or have no interest in talking to you they will most likely say thanks. Then you have a conversation right there then just keep going.
 
hahahaha 9th grader alert. this is just stupid but im faded and youll learn with time so fuck /ranting
 
I'm a strong believer in shutting up, scoping out a girl, getting to secretly know her, then acting like the perfect guy. Works quite well in most situations.
 
just make an observational comment, like on a book she's reading, or if the phone she has, the weather etc

it may seem stupid, but it gets the convo started

 
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