Should I do it? I need help!

SteezyasPie

SteezyasPie

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Hey, i met this girl about a month and a half ago at my local mountain, who i go to school with, and we really got along, we met up a few more times to go skiing (before i got grounded), and we talk a lot in and out of school (we're working on 27 hours straight right now, with combined texts and ims, except the 4 hour break to sleep) and she seems kinda interested in me, and i know i am in her, but i dont know what to do, should i ask her out? play it safe and just stay friends? because i dont wanna ruin things between us if i ask her out and she saays no, NS i need your help!

(please only helpful posts, i dont need anyone flameing me for whatever)
 
ask her out.... if she rejects you, she will put you in the friend zone, and it sounds like your ok with that
 
I wish girls skiied where I live. My kinda gf said she has never skied but would like to learn.

But dude I feel the same situation about every girl but I hate it when I fail to make a move and then the interest fizzles out. I say just be subtle about asking her to go on a date kind of. Like a movie or something.
 
no chick would talk to you for 27hours straight to just be friends. Chances are she feels the same way you do about her, so just ask her out. It doesnt have to be straight up you could just get her to go somewhere together or with some mates and go from there.
 
yeah i guess, your right, and we already do hang out, but so far its only at the mountain (which i have no problem with), and thanks to everyone whos posted, it just goes to show that the people on NS support each other when they need it
 
DO IT just be careful.. i asked out this hot skier chick that i liked for like 1 year.. we were friends for like 6 months but as soon as we started going out things got awkward and she broke up with me over a text message (ouch that still hurts)
 
thats exactly what im afraid of, though i doubt shed do it over a text, ive had it happen to me over aim before, which really sucks
 
i saw the most hot skiier chick last weekend, i was like zomg.

ya dude ask her out, honestly if she says no nothing should happen unless one of you is extremely im mature.
 
nothing ventured, nothing gained. Ask her out, its not like you have anything to lose, if you get rejected be like thats cool, lets still chill and be homies
 
im guessing the immaturity will come, but hey, as long as theres some good posts, and i think im gonna go for it after mid terms are over and shes not as stressed (a week and a half or so)
 
"paging Ladies Men"

It can't hurt to take things a little further with her man, if you don't you will never know what could have been!
 
ok so now the question is more how to do it not should i, and i still wanna see if we can get a woman/chick to respond
 
just ask her. its not like you need to make a huge deal out of it. just take her some place fun or something and then bang on emm.
 
i think you should hang out with her more to make sure youre interested then ask her out, so you know you really like her and dont waste your time
 
you got nothing to lose by asking her out. if she says no itll be weird for a little bit then youll go back to you wanting her and her wanting to be your friend hooray!
 
i have an idea

on your text message phone thing be like this-

you:yeah um... can i ask you something?

her:what is it?

you:well i kind of..really like you (she probably likes you too)

her:...

you:and im really nervous to ask you out in person.... would it be OK with you if we went to the movies or something?

her:yeah sure

you:SCORE

OK so ive done this and so have alot of my friends it works almost EVERY TIME its so much easier to ask out over a txt and its not like she will think your wierd or anything for being shy. do that and tell us how it goes

 
haha good idea, but shes easy to talk to and ive got the balls to ask in person (to use the line from The lookout: "ive been turned down more time then the beds at a holiday inn"), i was more concerned whether or not she'd say yes, because i dont want to screw this one up, and thanks to disco for replying about the girls point of view, i kinda figured that, but i thought it wouldnt hurt to ask, and ill let everyone know what she says after i ask her
 
go for it, and then go to www.skitoga.com

but really though

theres honestly millions of girls in this world and the one thing you have to do is just suck it up and go for it because honestly if it doesnt work out you can find a different one, and if it does BAM YOU WIN

www.skitoga.com
 
Just go for it man. She's definitely interested, and you guys already share interests in hobbies. I would say just confront her and tell her you really enjoy her company and want to get to know her even better. You don't have to actually ask her to "go out with you" like your going steady or something, just ask her to the movies or dinner or any other activity you can think of so you guys can share some alone time. Then make a move for the roofies!!!!

Of course I'm kidding on the end there.
 
alright dude i say go for it. she skis and sick and if u like her its all good. ask her out. n dont make it one of those "wanna go out with me". do something different. Like i duno uhm we have been seeing eachother for a while and maybe we want to go to the next step. something like that. AND DUDE write us back. i wanna know what happens. peace griff
 
There is a certain personal touch to doing and saying things in person. If you get a confirmation of her affection towards you in person you can jump right into things like holding her hand or putting your arm around her and things of that nature. If you get a yes over a text you'll have to wait a while to enjoy your new found relationship.
 
asking her out in person is the way to go for sure.

but if you are scared of messing things up, then just dont do something extream. Make it sweet of corse, but not like a big show cuz that could mess stuff up if she said no, but if you just ask her to a movie sorta thing then you should be good. no reson why your friendship would get messed upt that way
 
we're gonna hang out after school for a bit on thursday(i was gonna suggest it myself because we both had to stay after anyway, but actually she said it before i had a chance, which im thinking is good), so thats why i picked then, cuz theres noone else around, and it in person so its a lot easier (with the lack of people around, in person just makes it harder)
 
It kinda sounds like your gonna hang with her at school, I would say if that's the case maybe walk somewhere close by. Do ya really wanna be hanging at the school???
 
not in particular haha, but there is nothing close by to walk to, except woods, because i live in the middle of nowhere

oh, and oyu know that record time for continous conversation throught texts and im's? we're still going , i think its up to something like 50 hours now, other than sleeping time, lol, its getting to the point of pathetic actually

 
since you live in the middle of nowhere.....

walk her to the woods and get a trained wolf to attack you guys, Fake Kill the wolf, Saving her life! She'll pretty much have to make love to you on the spot.
 
honestly, if you're going on that many hours talking to her (minus the 4 hours of sleep) it sounds like she's into you. i'd definately go for it. from what it seems, if she wasn't into you, she wouldnt be talking to you so much, and if you're still not sure about it then just hint it on and see how her reaction is, if its positive, then i think you should take a shot at it, if it's an uneasy/negative response then stay on the friend base for now and try to work your way up! :o)
 
shes been dropping hints (at least, thats how i understood them) the same as i have, i was planning on asking her this thursday, but i completely screwed up with a text that wasnt supposed to be sent to her but ended up somehow being sent to her, and im thinking im gonna let what happened settle down a bit, though i explained everything, and shes said "its ok, whatever, just ask me when you want" (paraphrasing there, with a bit of license with the words too, but thats the gist of it)
 
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